The Saboteur Within
Why You Don’t Have What You Really Want

by Dr. Robert Anthony

Lets face it – most of us from time to time feel that life is just one big struggle with a series of never ending problems.

Yet the truth is that life does not have to be this way. In fact, it can be just the opposite. Life is not about struggle and overcoming problems. Life is about pursuing and creating what we truly desire in an easy, stress-free manner.

Is there something in your life that you want, but it seems to elude you?

In short, if you don’t have what you want (you name it) your subconscious holds some contradictory intentions for you.

To put it simply, you want something and it doesn’t.

For example you may say, “I want more money”, but your dominant subconscious belief may be, “Earning the amount of money I want is very difficult”.

Notice anything different about these two statements?

They are going in different directions.

What is really happening is that your conscious and subconscious are almost always in conflict. You consciously say, “I want more money” and then after listening, your subconscious says, “No matter what you do, it is too difficult to create that amount of money”.

As a result there is no agreement between your conscious and subconscious. When this happens they cancel each other out and give up on assisting you to create what you would like to have in your life.

What is critical to understand is the competition, conflicting agendas, and disharmony between your conscious and subconscious is keeping you from having what you desire.

Why?

Because when your conscious and subconscious are not in agreement, they produce negative emotion. And it is that very negative emotion or energy that attracts the things you don’t want. (You may have to re-read that.)

Let me explain to you what is really happening.

Every thought is received by the brain, which is the organ of the conscious mind. It is there that it is subjected to our power of reasoning. When the conscious or objective mind has been satisfied that the thought is true, it is sent to the subconscious mind to be brought into the world of reality through quantum physics or the law of attraction.

It is no longer susceptible to any argument whatsoever. The subconscious mind cannot argue. It only acts. It accepts the conclusions of the conscious mind as final. This is the point at which the uncreated becomes the created, the universal becomes individualized, and the invisible becomes visible.

Put simply, every thought that you think has its own energetic vibrational frequency. That thought is impressed into your subconscious mind. Then, through the Law of Attraction, it will energetically attract another person, place, thing or circumstance that has a vibrational match or is vibrating at the same frequency.

Your subconscious mind cooperates completely with your conscious mind when it understands and agrees with what you consciously want. In other words, when your conscious and subconscious are not in conflict.

When you feel negative emotions, they are signals from your subconscious that you are not in harmony with what you desire and this creates emotional energy blocks within your electromagnetic system.

You are not alone. Conflict, manifested as an emotional energy block, is common in almost everyone.

Have you ever wondered why…

Athletes get into slumps?

This defies normal logic. There is no physical reason for an athlete to perform below par. He or she is the same highly trained athlete before, after and during the slump. Yet, no matter how highly skilled, all athletes go through this consistently throughout their careers. Why?

Addictions are so hard to overcome?

Most addicts want to be free of their destructive patterns. They know, and will often admit, that their addiction is costing them their health, their relationships, their money and even their life! Yet they continue with it. Why?

Depression is so hard to overcome?

Depression is one of the most difficult psychological issues to handle. It is not unusual for an individual who suffers from depression to go through years of expensive therapy and not make much progress. Why?

Healing sometimes takes so long?

We have a lingering cold that just won’t go away, a headache or pain that keep coming back again and again or a sprain or broken bone that takes forever to heal. Why?

We self-sabotage ourselves?

Regardless of what you have read or heard, you cannot correct this through positive thinking. You must go BEYOND POSITIVE THINKING to get rid of the “Saboteur Within”. I call this “Right Thinking”. It is right because it is based on truth, not illusion.

Here is something you can do right now.

We try to change our behaviours or become more successful in our business or career yet we often manage to fall back into our previous “comfort zones” with little or no real progress. Why?

The reason we have these experiences is that we do not correct the negative emotion IN THE MOMENT.

Notice when you are feeling any negative emotion or conflict. That is you “inner guidance system” telling you that you are not in harmony with your desire. This is your first clue.

IN THAT MOMENT you MUST self-correct. Change your FEELING right then and there because how you FEEL as a result of a thought is what causes the negative emotion. The negative emotion then causes the conflict. And the conflict attracts more of the things you DON’T WANT.

So, if you do nothing else, remember that you MUST correct and STOP the negative attraction in the MOMENT if you are serious about getting rid of the “Saboteur Within.” That will clear the way for you conscious and subconscious to work in harmony to bring your desire.

This may be difficult to accept or to at first understand. Remember, we are talking about going beyond what you typically understand, so you can get to the results you want.

The effort can help make all your dreams come true.

Believe me, it’s worth it.

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Quick Tips for Attracting Wealth and Success

Success: Choose ease not hardship

Your success and prosperity is going to be affected by what you are in the presence of. Where your body goes your mind goes. Where your emotions go, your life goes. I know in my own life that I was always working towards this day when everything would come together but did not take time out to ENJOY moments. As my life was full of ‘work, stress, looking at what I didn’t want, looking at what I couldn’t afford’… I was just attracting more of it. Experience has shown me that the more I love myself and seek enjoyable experiences, the more easily solutions find their way to me.

Success: You become the company you keep

Take an inventory of the people you generally hang around. Consider yourself a reflection of their attitudes, finances, ability to enjoy life. Are they people who don’t feel in control, always gossiping, talking about limitation and thinking small or encouraging you to be prosperous and think big? Look around at those people you spend time with and ask yourself whether they reflect the qualities you are looking for in yourself and your life. If you are a business owner this is even more prevalent. Keep in mind that you are in control and your are master of your own destiny so don’t lie to yourself and keep negative situations around you. Take conscious control of your relationships.

Although I don’t open every email from those successful people whose newsletters I subscribe to, I keep them in my outlook box with a conscious attention that I like having their prosperity consciousness within my computer. If I opened them all I would have no day left and would get distracted by I like them hanging out with me!

What you are afraid to do holds the key to your treasure

No matter how old you are, you are aware of day dreams you have or urges that have you thinking about things you are passionate about.

Take my example. I was day dreaming about ways I could help people with my own brand of genius and I used to day dream about teaching people but the fear of public speaking paralysed me. I stayed in a job as a secretary years and years after I already knew in my heart I could do something much more rewarding.

Successful people follow their heart rather than following survival. What you are scared to do is your unique insight into where your growth lies. I am not saying that for me it came overnight in fact I spent years on healing and hypnosis to get over my fear but the place to start is acknowledging what fear is holding you back and at least be real with yourself in affirming that you will do what your day dreams are prompting. If you conclude that you don’t know what you truly want, start by looking at what you don’t want to do and then observe what situation comes up that identifies a fear because that is the obstacle capping your success and real joy.

If you don’t take the decision, you cannot bring along the right circumstances and the right time when you will master your fears. You also need to let go of your agenda of how and when this will happen, simply make sure you be honest with yourself otherwise you will never discover your true self (way to your divine prosperity)

Your life in your home/office mirrors the life within you

All your personal spaces (i.e. spaces YOU have control over such as your home, office, holiday home) are more significant than you know. The inside of your personal spaces are an exact and precise mirror of your psyche and how you describe the space, use the space, maintain the space and live in the space reveals the truth about who you are Being and show you why success, abundance and prosperity still eludes you despite how much you invest in self improvement and healing.

A living room is not just a living room it is an Aladdin’s cave of self-exploration! Even a carpet in that room can reveal truths that years of healing and piles of self growth books have left wanting.

Define what you want clearly

Define what you want and PROVE you want it! My partner joked about owning a Ferrari but when we actually talked about going to test drive and buy one, he realised he didn’t really want a Ferrari he wanted a Mercedes McLaren! My experience of working with business owners is that they assume or borrow common accepted ideas of what they should be aspiring to achieve but it can be a long way from what they truly want.

You can use your power to manifest anywhere…

Even if you are working hard and taking action, if you are not in a place ‘to receive’ you can miss the boat. Where you are in your heart, your mind and your physical location matter – you need to be ‘happy’ and ‘having fun’ – balance is important. Sometimes it simply takes a change in perspective like getting away, to see solutions – I had more ideas for a seminar whilst cruising the Virgin Islands than sitting at home ‘pushing’ myself.

Success is the ability to achieve CONTROL

All areas of your life… your health, your bank account, your relationship, your work are exactly and precisely interconnected. When you are not in control of one, you are not in control of any. That is why there is so much focus on our body weight, shape, image etc. The fact is that the only thing we can control is our body and so when we don’t feel in control (the obvious example being out of shape), we take this feeling of ‘out of control’ into every situation.

Peter, (Lost 26Kgs(60lbs) in 4 months)

Do that which you think you cannot do… change all those things which cause you unhappiness. For every problem you experience, there’s already a solution. Reduce weight and gain shape, fulfilling relationships, fulfilling career, business success ONE STOP SUCCESS.