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Discover your real focus and stay there


Some people know early on in life what they are born to do and pursue it with all consuming passion. The clarity comes from the passion which unconsciously drives their focus and so learning how to is not necessary.

For others like me it is something that is discovered after a longer process; maybe simply because in my case I didn’t know how to read the signs. I didn’t know how there was a specific plan for my life or how to know what road to take.

I knew focusing was important but was distracted most of the day whilst not realising. It is not easy to focus when you don’t know the mission right? In my previous article, “Discover your self, discovery your money” I gave you some clear ways to discover your personal assignment that would bring you wealth and prosperity. It is something that is an obsession and must be pursued with everything you have for you to gain more and more prosperity and joy in life. It is something that will cost you everything too and it will never dissipate from your heart.

Once you know your mission, your path to your individual prosperity, you must focus. As we have sidetracked from our divine assignments, the new programmes are not going to just give in and surrender to new ways overnight. We have grown new neural pathways strengthening these new ways of behaving and living and so they must be de-constructed and new ones grown.

This is essentially what all self development pursuits are for, rewiring us to a life our heart is screaming out for.

Due to our re-programming that keeps us in struggle and unhappiness, when we try to focus this new behaviour, we will be bombarded by distractions. These distractions will be very subtle and clever and so often unrecognisable.

Biggest breakdown or breakthrough signals

It is not news to you to remind you that you must stop your emails, the doorbell and the telephone from sidetracking you from your assignment; the key to your divine prosperity! However there is one very subtle experience which can cause not only constant breakdowns but can also give you a clue to where your focus is making headway and a great deal of success.

The alarm call you want to watch out for is when you are “sick and tired of  something“. The point at which you are sick and tired of something is the point at which you “are getting it”. The desire to move away from it is resistance from your lesser, human, misguided alter ego; it is the devil we must recognise and master.

This experience can come in many ways. It can serve as a clue for you to keep going and stay focused as a ‘student’. It can also come as a reminder to you as a teacher that there are people you are mentoring who are “getting it”.

It is a clue that this is something that is meaningful and requires you to be even more vigilant in focusing on it to the point of realising peace.

There is a desire in all of us to keep discovering and this is a good thing but often we can mistake this impulse of being sick and tired as a need to seek fresh ideas or fresh projects.

Hold your focus, don’t walk away from the things you are sick and tired of. Let them show you your passion, your clarity and the assignment you are obsessed about; face the ache of your obsession and use it to solve problems.

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Your unique Assignment and why it must be recognised

 

Each one of us have a unique Assignment. We are created on purpose with a unique job to do. This Assignment is so unique that every other place on the Earth is lacking because of it and we carry it within us. It is so unique and important that a band of Angels are assigned to protect us and guide us until it is completed!

If you study everything that was ever created or will be created it is only created to solve a particular problem. Money is attracted to us only as problems are solved. We are born with a problem to solve and it is unique; no other person on the face of the Earth can solve this problem.

How do we recognise our unique Self?

Your Assignment is something very specific to you that you are continuously passionate about. It is something that you do, think or say that wants to solve a problem. It is something that we always want to talk about. No matter what kind of situation we are in or whomever we are talking to we have it in focus and want to curve the situation around to focusing on it or doing it.

Sometimes it helps to ask people who honour you or speak well of you WHY they feel so ATTRACTED to you. What do you do for them?

Think about the world at large and ask what are the things that provoke constant anger and frustration. What is the one or maybe the two things that you see that you want so passionately to CORRECT… and how would you like to go about it?

Another key to recognising and fully understanding your purpose is what  to ask yourself the question “What is the thing that I fear the most. What is the situation that brings me to my knees, has me panicking or investing to avoid?” This is the area where you are here to provide strength on the Earth.

My example by demonstration.

The one place that brings me to my knees is being unhealthy BECAUSE I feel I have no power. If I am unwell I no longer have independence, I feel dis-abled and helpless. It shows me the ‘feeling powerful and in control’ is paramount to me. When I look at my Assignment which is the wisdom in being able to see the outer world as an exact and precise Mirror on my inner world, I see that the drive behind it is to regain CONTROL. This vision enable me to see how I have power and how to use it.

So perhaps it will help you if you look at what brings you to your knees first and then consider the detail of how you solve it in your unique way.

Money comes when we solve problems.

Your Assignment is the key to your salary and financial freedom and it is something that comes natural and is easier than maybe all the other things you think you need to do to achieve a prosperous life.

The guy who is working three jobs is doing so because he has not understood or recognised his Assignment. All sickness, poverty, hardship stems from rebellion either against sharing their Assignment to solve problems or lack of recognising your unique Assignment.

Success is not about achieving it is about Discovering the key to our Purpose and then go about using it to solve problems.

That is why I feel the power in the phrase Self Discovery and why I feel Self Development seems to take so long. Self Development brings to mind an imagine that I have to become more, need more whilst Self Discovery provokes the image that I am already there and simply need bringing out.

Discover Your Assignement and discovery your financial freedom

Your genius magnetises your prosperity

You are enough. You are a genius. In the world’s current population of 6.9billion people, there is no one that can solve the problem you can the way you can.

Stop. Take stock of what you are doing to provide financial stability and ask is your Assignment in there? If not, you are making life very difficult for yourself.

Wisdom is the divine reaction to a human problem. When knowing your DIFFERENCE you should be able to describe it in one sentence.

When you are working your Assignment you will see favour in your life, things will flow more easily, their will be a fragrance instead of an odour! You will have relentless energy instead of exhaustion. It will excite you and you will feel your body want to move when you think of ‘fixing’ this problem in people’s lives.

It will never go away… it will only become more painful the more you ignore it. The Angels have their Assignment too remember!

There are many people around you that are suffering because they are off-track, share this article with them, it could be the day their life changes for the better!

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Prosperity spotted in your relationships

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Relationships mirror alignment to abundance

How does your relationships determine your prosperity?

In short, your relationships show you the relationship within yourself and for prosperity to flow the dynamic must be reflect what prosperity stands for…

…a thriving, flourishing condition.

OK so what does that mean?


Well, beyond the fundamental understanding that thriving and flourishing means giving something nourishment, the detail is for you to decide. Desire is essentially what makes us happy and that is personal.

What kind of home life, partner, career, body image suits you?

You decide. But whatever you decide you must have it going on in your life in both sides of you.

What both sides of my self are we talking about?

The two sides of you are your power and your potential. In short, your ability to make something actually happen and then the quality of the experience within it.

To give you an example, that means the ability to manifest a car and then the experience of owning that car (is it easy to pay for, maintained well, serve all your lifestyle needs?)

How do I see if I am on course for a successful outcome?

Well that’s simple.

Any relationship with a man is reflecting your relationship to your power (making it happen);

Any relationship with a woman is reflecting your relationship to your potential (your experience).

How do I power them up for success and prosperity?


Every time you are UPSET with a man or a woman you ask:

What exactly am I upset about and listen to the precise words;

Is this something I am doing I need to stop doing or do more of?;

Is it effecting my power (a man) or my potential (a woman)?

The goal must be PEACE. It doesn’t matter whether they still behave badly (as you see it) or not, the destruction that is blocking your manifestation power is the ‘upset’ you FEEL.

Example

Your husband is always late home for dinner.

I am upset because “I feel disrespected”

I disrespect myself and need to stop, my actions must match my needs.

It is a man so every time I get upset I stop things on my dream list ‘happening’

Decision to be successful and turn on my flow of abundance

I will use my words carefully to help my husband see how it’s in his interest to arrive home on time

or…

I will simply let it go, I know he works hard and is doing his best.

Either way, you MUST resolve the emotional upset. While you are upset your energies are at war… they are completely repelling like two north pole magnets trying to be pushing towards each other… one part of you is saying yes and the other no. This means you stay exactly where you are.

This energy dynamic is showing us moment by moment what we need to work on. We are constantly asking complicated questions, buying more books and courses whilst the answer we are looking for is coming at us during our day.

Every person in your world is attracted by you and playing out a role which is happening within you. Walking away is not the solution. See what they are showing you, take action to learn and gain peace…

… all the other stuff going on is because of these upsets. Don’t fool yourself it is because of the economy, your job, you married the wrong woman, your upbringing, the culture you live in, because you have children.

You have the power to change it NOW.

Does more flow in prosperity require radical change?

Yes. However understand what radical means. It means a complete shift in direction… extreme change from accepted or traditional forms…

…not exhaustive amounts of energy, money and life-changing upheaval!

Example

Instead of expressing anger at my wife because my dinner isn’t ready as I walked through the door as we agreed…

I decide to take a deep breath, claim the fact that she loves me, perhaps she had a very busy or a difficult day and hurting her will not help either of us. Perhaps I will ask her how her day went and get the facts before I assume her day should have been all about me! If she feels bad I lose!

These moments are the moments when you will rock the very fabric of your life but we are missing them.

Why?

Because we are too busy and too unhappy.

Why?

Because we are not maintaining prosperity in the moments we have. They are full of upset, anger, frustration, stress, disillusionment and assuming the worst.

Look at the people you interact with daily and see where you are ‘repelling your prosperity’ by observing your emotional upset. It won’t go away, it is inside you so take control and channel it into love, acceptance and peace…

THEN you will see it show up in your work, finances, home, partnerships and a healthy body. What is even more exciting is that each of these aspects are precisely interconnected so if we empower one it has a dominoe effect on the other.

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Prosperity attracted by your nutrition

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Your body and where it goes determines your prosperity.

Everything in your life right now has been attracted into forming itself that way due to what is in your mind. In other words, where your mind goes your physical reality goes.

As your mind and body are perfectly interconnected, this means that we can switch the relationship around and see that where your body (physical reality) goes your mind and emotions go.

That said, take a look at the situations in your life and see where you take your self (as opposed to where you think you are going!).

- How many situations are full of unhappiness and stress?
- What do you put in your mouth?

Exercise on how much prosperity you are attracting

Reflect over the last week and ask the two questions below. Look at why you did what you did and how you felt about them. Read my article on Success Indicator: The Why Syndrome

Did you observe how many things you did were:-

  • because you feel you don’t have a choice and feel out of control?
  • because you feel bad (particularly with regard to eating/drinking)?

Don’t avoid this exercise, you will learn so much about yourself.

  • We ask for prosperity but we don’t stop to think about what we are thinking when something we want to spend money on comes to mind;
  • We ask for more love but we don’t observe what we are thinking while we are talking or thinking about our partner;
  • We ask for better health, a lean body want to look and feel great but we eat low vibrational food, oversized portions which our body struggles to digest and don’t give our body all the nutrition it needs;
  • We ask for a career that fulfills us but fill our time with jobs we hate.

Don’t wait for prosperity, love and great health to come along, you have to bring it on. You bring it on by looking at your nutrition which means “giving your mind and body what it needs to sustain life and growth“…

…not survival and existence.

What does a prosperous day look like?

  • Being happy at the time you get up;
  • Eating a breakfast that nourishes your body (not your misery because you don’t want to go to work);
  • Doing a job that you are passionate about and one that doesn’t involve you travelling if you don’t enjoy it;
  • Spending time talking to people who support ‘life can be good’ and not gossip, misery and doom and gloom; working with people who you can get along with;
  • Spending quality time with your children and feeling love while you do it; keep in mind that children are a sponge and pick up all your emotions – you don’t fool them!) Please stop using children as an excuse for your unhappiness. If you didn’t have children it would be another excuse.

Do you want to know what you really believe about money, prosperity, love and happiness? Download yourself a copy of my ebook Home Your Wealth and observe through your home the truth about your have been thinking and feeling. There are eye opening breakthroughs in your sitting room right now! Read my article on Self Development Conference in your Sitting Room

Or download my ebook about your outside mirror, your emotions and the 16 Hour Formula in Power Surge

Stop feeling out of control

You have all the personal power in the world but it can only come from you and no-one is stopping you. Your breakthroughs are sitting in your details; it’s just another term for self development. Life got the way it did because you are doing the same unhappy, stressful, poor nutritional activities day after day. Divorce can be caused because the lid is left off the toothpaste day after day. Of course it is not the toothpaste lid that is the destruction, it is the dis-respect felt day after day that festers because it is not communicated clearly enough and resolved to cleanse the pain! So, the pain becomes intolerable and completely distorts our view sending our reality reeling into a mass of huge, costly changes causing more pain, money and energy that the initial investment to…

stop… look… think… and communicate lovingly.

Richer prosperity?

Please, think about what you put into your mouth, what you let out of your mouth and where you take your body. Never mind the past, simply take care of today and when you wake again tomorrow, start over again; the future will take care of itself. It really is that simple.

Self Development Conference in your Sitting Room

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Personal Power is hiding in your sitting room

I’m guessing if you are reading this you are a person who is very interested in improving the quality of your life. I’m even hedging my bets that you’ve invested a lot of time, money and energy in all kinds of personal development books, courses, seminars in the pursuit of more success (great news… determination always pays off!).

In fact, perhaps this is the breakthrough point in your life, that moment when all your “When God When?” frustration bears fruit.

Before we begin can you imagine meeting me in your sitting room (or the place you call your living area of your home). Once you’ve got a picture in your mind we can begin.

So let’s get your success activated.

Take a look around the room and I want you to observe all the things you are not happy with. If you are just imagining this (as you’re in the office) then stop for a minute and focus on the things that come to mind first… you can continue the breakthrough looking at everything else in the room when you know what to do.

Focus on one or two things that you are drawn to and take a moment to ask how you feel about them or why they are there and then listen CAREFULLY to what you say about what you see.

Example

“There’s my TV but I really want a flat screen, I’m tired of this one but I can’t afford a new one yet.”

We are not going to get too deep into what your ‘sitting room’ mirrors back to you about the perception of yourself at this time, we are simply going to focus on the most obvious things which can cause life changing transformation and bring on the success you are looking for. Let’s help you rid yourself of self-sabotaging mechanisms; the blocks that you need to dissolve.

If you are imagining the television, be aware that this was put there by you, with your acceptance. Furthermore, you have just affirmed that “I do not want it… I am tired of it”… and I want a new flats creen but “I can’t afford it”.

Whether you know this or it comes as a light bulb moment for you, the physical objects and people in your life are an exact and precise mirror of your dominating beliefs…

…So, while an object still exists in your reality, the thoughts and feelings behind its ’cause’ still exist.

So let’s get back to the television.

You have affirmed you have something in your living room that  “I don’t want…. I am tired of… and I can’t afford to change it”.

Now, this is where life can transform and your self development investments can finally pay off.

I’m guessing what you might have had the propensity to do is observe “Oh yeah I can see that now”, then vow to change the beliefs, head into the kitchen to make another cup of tea and then get stuck into the dishes, head out to work or get involved in the hundreds of other activities in pursuit of the joy you want.

You may even sit for a while and figure out a plan that has nothing to do with the object which showed you the breakthrough (such as the television in this case).

The fact will always remain that whilst the objects ‘remain’, the mindset that caused them ‘remains’.

We overlook the things that are right in front of our noses because we are so busy pursuing the things that we assume will CAUSE the transformation that would bring on the extra time or money to raise the quality of our lives.

So back to the sitting room.

Continue to look around and assess your relationship with everything to discover what destructive thoughts STILL EXIST WITHIN YOU.

You created the room in your image, you are the CAUSE, the room is the EFFECT.

Those chairs, lamps, pile of old magazines, wine stains on the carpet will speak volumes if you talk to them and then listen. Ask “Why are you here?” or “Why are you still here? and decide how you feel about what you see.

How can you get the ball of success rolling your way?

Simply start with the things which are broken or need attention, move on to the things which you don’t use and are just collecting dust/taking up space and get rid of them.

We spend years investing over and over because in most cases change is not happening but change is not happening because we believe the changes required are too significant to invest in at the moment.

The truth is that the changes are actually simple, in fact so simple we can’t believe in them because we have learned that life is complicated and hard and we need to ‘earn’ the joy we want.

The science effecting self-development is based on the premise that life cannot change until we change and the things around you are the physical evidence of your thoughts and feelings so…

while they are still there… you are still there!

Let’s take that television (or an object you have focused on) and prove this.

  • You resign yourself to the idea that you haven’t got the money for a new television so you tell yourself “I’ll make do until I’ve got the money.”
  • You pray that the money will come but the fact is that money does not come until you DO SOMETHING and you are probably going to continue what you did before because ‘you haven’t changed’… how do you know you haven’t changed?… because the television remains evidence that you still believe ‘having what you want is unaffordable… you need to live with things you are tired of”.

What’s the solution?

Clean up your mind (the cause) by cleaning up the effects… the objects in your room… start with what you can do, success lies in the details not in big investments of money. The outside is an effect of the inside so if you change the outside it follows that the inside must change accordingly.

It was Albert Einstein who said–

“When the answer is simple,  God is answering”..

and it is God that affirms that…

” you came to live life to the full, in abundance until it overflows”….

…not put up with misery, be tired, struggle to pay the bills, keep patching up the car!

If you want to uncover the matrix of your mind as it stands right now, get yourself a copy of Home Your Wealth and go through your home and personal spaces. The phenomenal personal power and abundance you’ve felt the loss of is lying in your home… use it!

Successful living is yours by birth... discover how to unlock it.

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Your HOME, OFFICE & PERSONAL SPACES are full of HIDDEN SECRETS about why the life you want is still escaping you. Hidden blocks in the subconscious matrix of your mind can be revealed and dissolved using your home.

In order to transform yourself, your habits need to be consistent which means you must be doing something which can be done during your current day. If not, chances are it won’t happen regularly. What you discover in your home will amaze you about why things could and would not change once you know how and where to look…

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How easy is self development really?

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Is self development easier for some people or just suited to certain people?

The bottomline is that self development and creating changes in our circumstances is in fact very simple, however, not easy! In short, everyone has the ability to create change and it takes the same degree of ease no matter who you are and regardless of your background and education.

Change requires repetition of a new behaviour for your body to establish new neural pathways. Put simply, whilst you may ache for a change in your circumstances, your body fights the change by repelling the new behaviour as a defence mechanism to protect itself ‘as is’. It was designed that way.

As your body is impulsed by its defences to consider the new change as a possible threat, the body vies for your attention. You will probably feel these impulses as fear, nervousness, nausea, exhaustion or irritation. Only when you override your body’s signals and continue the new behaviour, will your body’s resistance subside and the neural pathway establish itself (provided of course that the repetition of your new thoughts, feelings and activities remain long enough to establish permanency).

It’s almost as if it you must undergo a fight. Even though you are approving the new behaviour, your body by instinct has to protect the old one simply because it protects what IS regardless of your agenda, it is a survival mechanism.

The exciting thing about pursuing new behaviours is that once you have established a muscle in that area, and the old behaviour dissolves, it takes the same amount of concerted effort to build a new neural pathway to recreate your old behaviour again which of cause you are hardly likely to do.

Example: If you have established a new habit of earning $50,000 per month as opposed to $5,000, why would anyone find enough drive and motivation to force themselves back into a poor consiousness enough to end up struggling again? Yes it does happen of course but your new behaviour will keep prompting you to keep up the income you have established in the same way it prompted your old habits by default.

The fact is that even if you have clearly defined what you want, you have got to reprogramme yourself.

Your body is mechanical by design. You awaken every morning at default settings based on what you have been programmed to do, think, say and feel evidenced by your repetitive behaviour. Once you have repeated an experience a certain number of times, a neural pathway has been grown in your brain.

In order to change these neural pathways and establish a new default behaviour, you must rehearse the necessary actions over and over to the point that they are the dominant actions and now secure as a new programme…

… and always keep in mind that your body needs nutrition to perform and maintain behaviour changes.. one of the biggest oversights people make and wonder why all the other hard work didn’t ‘cement’ itself.

Our relationships define our power and potential and they are not hit and miss.


Success Indicator: The Why Syndrome

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I believe I will be successful, I think!

If I say your life will become what you believe you will probably say that you know that.

If I say you don’t believe what you think you believe you might ask how so?

For the last ten years I have worked closely with entrepreneurs.  People who want to start their own business and want to improve the quality of their lives and have more control.

What I have discovered is that they constantly prove over and over that what they fundamentally say they believe is actually not the case and it comes as a shocking surprise to many.

Discovering this illusion about themselves proves very exciting because once they see this they can then make some adjustments to their 16 Hour Power Slot.

How do you AFFIRM what you truly believe?

Well the fact is that your mind contains billions of differing possibilities about what you believe based on all the pieces of information that have been fed to you through your eyes and ears.  So it’s not a case of trying to go through your mind thought by thought, you would end up in an asylum.

Life as it is for you is presently your dominant beliefs.

Taking a very simplistic example, this means that if there are 1 billion thoughts suggesting you can get in shape and there are 1 billion and 1 thoughts suggesting you can’t then it means that everything will conspire to make sure you can’t.

The outside must prove the inside because it is the place from which it takes its instructions.

How do I get breakthrough?

Whatever you do and whatever you put resources to whether it be time, money or energy, always ask a fundamental question:-

****Why am I doing this?****

You may find that you have to keep asking until you reach the core motivation behind your impulse to do it.

Example:

“I need to make some extra money so we can have a holiday.”

WHY?

“Because we really need to get away.”

WHY?

“Because me and my wife and have been arguing alot lately and the break will do us good.”

WHY are you arguing?

“When we are busy we have less time to think about the other person and we end up snapping and communicating badly.”

Why will a holiday fix this?

“Because we will have time to be nice to each other.”

FACT: The holiday will heal the sores from the bad mouthing each other but unless the ‘busy ness’ is resolved everything will happen again when the holiday is over.

FACT: The solution ALWAYS LIES EXACTLY WHERE THE PROBLEM IS.

Once you have listened to your WHY? always check your facts aswell so you can decide what is the best solution and whether the solution you see is actually based on fact or just an idea that you think can work!

Example – Checking Your Facts

“It’s time to change the design of my business website.”

WHY?

“Because my sales have gone done.”

WHY do you think the drop in sales is the website?

“Because maybe people are tired and want something new.”

WHY do you think they are tired and want something new?

“Because I’m tired of it so they must be! “***Aha the real motivation!***

FACT: Sales were UP with this website

FACT: No customers were asked their opinion to justify the change.

FACT: The words that come from your mouth. “Because I’m tired of it…”

Now, having established that you feel tired of your website this can be a valid reason for change. If you don’t believe this site will sell anymore then it will EFFECT the outcome.

However, considering you have now discovered the true motivation for changing your site, you could find yourself able to change ‘your feelings… of being tired of it’ now you know the facts.

The reason for asking yourself questions is that you get the words directly from your database and you need to listen verbatim in every occasion. Your Words are Life and Death to your experience.

Asking Why? has always been an essential part of the natural plan we were designed for.

We start as children with a pure formula for prosperity. We are free to believe anything is possible.

If you have children or remember being a child you will note that children start out by asking WHY? to everything…. everything! There is a crucial reason. To train ourselves to know why we are doing things so we can control ourselves (and our prosperity).

However, a child, though able to dream up a sports car that can go to outer space cannot buy one. The child in you has exercised its right to be creative and dream but the practical part of actually owning the car has to come from the adult.

So, we grow up and can now independently open a bank account and can go to the car showroom without being accompanied by a guardian and can legitimately drive the car away (having passed our driving test).

Great Plan!

However what tends to happen is that once we grow up, the WHY? training has been knocked out of us by adults who, when asked the question “Why is it green mum?” tends to be dismissed the more they ask. Or they get a simple “Because!”

It becomes apparent that asking Why? is not popular at an age when we are most sensitive to tone, vibrations and are most vulnerable in general. Children know when adults are not happy and as a child is trained to pursue happiness, it is easier to stop asking.

Then as we grow up, our world gets busier. The WHY? is forgotten about and chaos ensues. The more unhappiness ensues the more we think life won’t get better, the more we invest in all kinds of vices and self-development material in a desperate plea to rid ourselves of our unhappy situations…

…but asking WHY? can ROCK YOUR WORLD… literally!

Return to your Basic Training. Ask Why? to everything you do and you will be shocked what you discover.

What will I discover?

- You are busy with things that will never bring a reward;
– You don’t want the things you think you want;
– Your actions are actually the opposite of what you say you want;
– You can cut out a great deal of activity and investment you don’t need to do.

The Bible states a clear path to prosperity…

“Except ye become as little children, ye will not enter the
Kingdom of Heaven.”

“If you stop the natural behaviour of the child within you, you will not prosper.”

The Universal Creator made us on purpose, stages of our lives were created ’on purpose’… child, adolescent, adult, senior. Each stage holds keys to what we need to carry forward to the next stage to enlarge our joy and prosperity.

Today ask WHY? to everything no matter how obvious you THINK it is.

You will be shocked and enlightened.

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Success; Car Wash Approach to Change

The other day a guy asked me if success was only realistically going to happen to a certain type of person. I replied “Yes. In fact, it ONLY happens to certain people.”

He looked very demoralised.

I told him “Success and accessing your personal potential only happens to those who change their behaviour to support how they say they want to live AND they stay as consistent as they can with the new behaviour until the change happens.

“Oh not again” he said, “I’ve heard this about ten times in the last month”.

I could hear from his tone, his flippant reaction and his body language that the problem is he has never taken the answer to his question seriously, neither now or during the last ten times he heard it. Like most people he wants to hear something else.

The very fact that he asked the question meant:-
1. He hadn’t yet claimed that a joyful life is available to anyone (including himself); and

2. That what he heard he wasn’t prepared to accept.

I reminded him of The 16 Hour Formula and the only power he had was in today and if he didn’t claim responsibility and make changes today, he wasn’t effecting any changes in the future. I made it clear to him that he hadn’t even made the decision yet.

One of his reasons for wanting an alternative answer was that he went on to say that he had concluded that “Changing your behaviour is easier said than done… and it was just easier for some.”

I had to correct him by telling him that actually in reality, that’s not true, it is ‘easier done than said’.

We continue the behaviour we are defaulted to every day because we are used to it, even though it causes us pain. In most cases, we suffer so much unhappiness that we live in a state of numbness. It is fair to generalise that most people, when asked the question “Are you happy?” don’t even know how to respond!

Success can be achieved through a negative perspective!

A very fruitful way to secure a breakthrough is to go the negative route (because realistically, we are all defaulted to the dark side when we wake up and we generally have to struggle to regain positivity as the day wears on)… so it’s easier to go the route we know and start with ourselves as ‘a mess’ than try to ‘see ourselves as successful’ because we usually stumble at this first imagined scenario.

Consider the analogy that you came into this world as a dirty car and self development is simply an analogy of going to the car wash. Accept the premise that actually the truth is you have no idea of your real colour and design because you have been driving around the way you are for most of your life.

Underneath the surface lies the sparkle, the polished model of yourself full of colour and shine but you have been weathered by and have inherited destructive thoughts, feelings and actions towards yourself and what you believe you can have in life.

Now your windscreen is dirty and has coloured life grey and dingy.

Success is a Decision (which then needs managing). It is the point where you decide that you are tired of the mess and want to see the colour in your life… you’ve had enough of grey; you’re heading to the car wash and you are going to clean your window and discover your true colour, model and sparkle – the real you in all your glory!

Car Wash Time is the period of time when you look outside at your relationships, your home, your business or your job and the condition of your health and you decide what you’ve had enough of.

Self Development mirrors the Car Wash process in that the whole function of a car wash is to ‘remove the dirt’, not to help you figure out what colour your car is and what model.

You are paying for removing the dirt. The same is said for turning successful situations into successful ones using any self development solution.

NOW, when it comes to finding the abundance that was always yours by design,

  • Don’t sit down and decide what you DO want to be (your colour and model is already defined underneath, embedded into your cellular memory).
  • Sit down and decide what you are tired of, what are the things you DON’T want to happen anymore that bring you unhappiness and steal your joy.
  • By deciding what you don’t like you will be able to flip it around and uncover what you do want!

Many goals are not established because we are encouraged to sit down and ask ourselves what we want but we have not been raised this way. To the contrary, we have been trained to ‘settle’.

In deciding our goals we are encouraged to imagine a life of luxury when we actually have no experience to draw on. We cannot bring up an emotion without the experience and it is emotion that is the creative force… Energy in MOTION. The mind is the source of what we want to change but it is the emotion that is the driving force to push us into any kind of physical action.

Think about it, how much training have we ever received in having what we want?

We usually start practicing at about one year old when we can start expressing ourselves and following our imagination but it is usually knocked out of us by the age of seven or eight.

In reality, because of our inheritance it is actually easier for us to settle, struggle and tolerate pain. Turning this default behaviour around requires dedication and a daily commitment to retrain our behaviour.

First comes the Decision. Then comes the management of that decision… every day… UNTIL it changes.

Often times you can fool yourself into thinking you are changing but the reality is that your behaviour has to be consistent for longer than you might be doing.

The fabulous news is that it does not require big amounts of time, money or energy.

What is required is your beliefs to be changed and you have to PROVE them for the programme to be changed. Your change in behaviour requires consistency and so you need to choose practices which you get to do every day and which enable you to reinforce a new belief for yourself.

For example, you say you want a better car but every day you climb into a messy one and go about your busy day. The car may not be the model you hoped for but your dismissive attitude to any litter in the car, or the dirty outside affirms you don’t really care.

You accept the situation by telling yourself ‘I will be much cleaner when I get the new one’ but you have not fully accepted the science of the creative process. What you do today in terms of thoughts, feelings and actions determines what will be your future.

The present circumstances will remain until you have physically proved what you say is important to you so you need to look at what you are doing during the 16 hours between waking and going to bed.

I have discovered that the one consistent method for re-programming my life for success and ‘affirming’ what I say I want to change is using my home and personal spaces at work because it is the one place I WILL be every day.

With this method,  I am assured of the opportunity to rehearse the changes I say I want until they become permanent.

I have laid down this breakthrough in my book Home Your Wealth which will show you how to see your deeply hidden blind spots and provide easy ways to remove the mess from your programming which is keeping your success at bay.

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