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Know your man and attract prosperity

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Prosper an abundant life in your life with your man

As many of my articles have explained, our relationships are a mirror of the relationship within ourself and to be prosperous we have to be in the flow.

So ladies, let’s take a look at your man. Knowing him is the key to loving him and the key to loving him is the key to a more prosperous and abundant life.

What you must always remember about your man and keep it alive:

1. He must always have a battle to fight;
2. He must always have an adventure to live;
3. He must always have a beauty to save.
(These three references come from John Eldredge “Wild at Heart”)

As with everything that is created, when it performs its core functions it thrives and you need to have things in your life that are thriving because you win.

Battle to fight – Self Confidence

Your man will always be a warrior at heart, he was made that way and the more secure he is the more of a warrior he will be. He needs courage and security and the best way to give him that is firstly to accept his need to be fighting a cause and secondly he needs validation that he is a strong protector.

Reminding your man constantly that “We’ll be OK, don’t worry… with all that fabulous strong energy and stamina you have, what can harm us… you always work things out, you always cause great things to happen...” is what your man needs to hear.

It would always be very helpful to know his childhood relationship with his father to find out if he felt validated, i.e. “You can do it son, I love you, you are great!”

If your partner didn’t get that then it is even more prevalent that the success and prosperity in your lifestyle depends on you giving this to him. Never mind how you feel, whether you think he deserves it or how upset, stressed, angry you are. Your life in this relationship is the way it is because everything is messed up. It’s natural dynamic of loving, harmony and clear identity is out of balance. Did you make him that way? No, however you did attract him to show you something within yourself which needs empowering.

It is important to help him become all that he was made to be. If your motive is right and full of genuine love for him, your life will thrive. It many not prosper perhaps the plan you had but remember this, if your plan was based on a messed up version of you how rich and abundant do you think your plan would have been? If you do the right thing, your life will be right. In John 10:10, Jesus makes it clear what that version of a right life means… “I came that you may live life, to the full, in abundance until it overflows“. That is some promise and it is ours for the taking!

Save a beauty – Personal Power

Another function of your man’s gender is to “save a beauty”. There is the Lancelot aspect of him where he needs to be the hero that rides in and the saves the day.

“Well“, you argue, “I am constantly asking him to do things for me but I get a different reaction, he is angry and irritated“. That’s because being a ‘damsel in distress’ is a clear and defined attitude.

It is not “Yo, Lancelot get your butt in here, we have kids and it’s time you took out the rubbish as you promised!“

It is “Honey, could I get your help with some jobs today, I love your stamina… or you do things much better, quicker than I do…. or I’m really struggling honey, could you help me, I’d appreciate it.” Then when he has done it, thanking him!

How do you know you are getting the attitude right? Well that’s pretty simple, just ask yourself would you be attracted to running in to help or do you feel this big fat heavy finger pressed against your back?

Up until meeting my husband at 38, I was fiercely independent and had always done everything alone even holidayed alone. When I moved into a relationship with my partner my reality took a 360 degree turn. My husband takes care of so many jobs without me even asking him. He does that because I never point the finger, I never expect but he picks up on my energy and senses the need to “be a hero”.

Am I capable? Heck, I’m a woman, we are amazing but my prosperity is playing other magnificent roles!

I was so messed up I even used to get angry with a guy if he opened the door for me. I used to think “Don’t you think I can even open a door for myself!” Now I love it and I make sure the guy knows it! Boy did I get it wrong and boy was my life miserable.

Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy?

We can take this dynamic right back to the beginning to Adam and Eve, they had only just been created when Adam had to run in to save Eve who had just started getting herself into a mess (and this was probably just the honeymoon!).

Adventure to live – Self Expression

Your man needs to have some time to be adventurous. Don’t try to understand his fishing trips, his computer games or his golf but it is important that he gets time and freedom to do that.

Everything in this world is attached to relationships. The world is a mess because of what is happening energetically within us and the evidence of that can be see in the relationships around us.

The general climate of the world unkind, selfish and even countries are losing their identity. Statistically one in two marriages are breaking up. This is happening because we are losing our identity. We are not committed to ourselves, are unkind to ourselves and only see our point of view.

Men focus on what they can see

Another very important quality about a man is understanding that he is ‘physical’ in his understanding of the world. He operates in the world he can see whereas women have strengths in the etheric realms such as thoughts and feelings. We are strong in ‘sensing’ things.

This explains why we complain when our man doesn’t buy us flowers or treat us. He is much more simple than we imagine. He looks at what is happening and takes it as fact. He doesn’t see you buying flowers for yourself! That is why so often women get kitchen equipment as christmas presents and then get furious! He sees those things as the things that matter to us because we ‘prove’ they are. We set ourselves up as stressed out, super heros and then wonder why he gets mixed signals.

Why do we find it so hard to do what we need to do to love our partner?

Well simply because we are all wounded somewhere and so we are bent on self protection. That can take many forms… hiding, controlling, perfectionism (we all have one). If we can risk letting go of our own self protection enough to simply think about what our partner needs to thrive, the benefits are nothing short of incredible.

The truth is that we all have male and female qualities written into our DNA and these can help us but the problem is we don’t have good examples.

For example, as a woman there are times you need Herculean strength particular in the face of raising children but without seeing that strength which your husband is here to demonstrate or seeing it in men around you get it all wrong too and you don’t get to see how natural that strength could be! Surround yourself and empower men to be who they are so you have fabulous examples thriving in your world. What goes on in the outside, effects the inside. You will become your environment.

To know him is to be loving enough to accept him. To accept him and allow him to be him is to have him thrive, be prosperous, successful, abundant and happy.

Whether you like it or want to acknowledge it or not, what is happening in your partner is always effecting the prosperity, happiness and health in your life and it is in your interest to find peace.

Always keep in mind the purpose of marriage. It is to add another dynamic to your life to help you achieve more happiness, love, abundance and health. If God has blessed your marriage then the reason why he gives the blessing is to let you know that He will make sure you have everything you need for both of you to be the best you can be and experience the best of what life has to offer. So if your joy is dressing up, having dinner parties, driving convertible cars he is going to make sure you have everything you need to have the best of what you want. He put the desire there in the first place when he made the special, unique person you are!

Bailing out on relationships just means you meet the same situation again. Your partnership is a physical representation of literally how your cells are relating. Love your man, love your self!

How to be an authentic man or woman in a relationship – Read my article

Prosperity spotted in your relationships

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Relationships mirror alignment to abundance

How does your relationships determine your prosperity?

In short, your relationships show you the relationship within yourself and for prosperity to flow the dynamic must be reflect what prosperity stands for…

…a thriving, flourishing condition.

OK so what does that mean?


Well, beyond the fundamental understanding that thriving and flourishing means giving something nourishment, the detail is for you to decide. Desire is essentially what makes us happy and that is personal.

What kind of home life, partner, career, body image suits you?

You decide. But whatever you decide you must have it going on in your life in both sides of you.

What both sides of my self are we talking about?

The two sides of you are your power and your potential. In short, your ability to make something actually happen and then the quality of the experience within it.

To give you an example, that means the ability to manifest a car and then the experience of owning that car (is it easy to pay for, maintained well, serve all your lifestyle needs?)

How do I see if I am on course for a successful outcome?

Well that’s simple.

Any relationship with a man is reflecting your relationship to your power (making it happen);

Any relationship with a woman is reflecting your relationship to your potential (your experience).

How do I power them up for success and prosperity?


Every time you are UPSET with a man or a woman you ask:

What exactly am I upset about and listen to the precise words;

Is this something I am doing I need to stop doing or do more of?;

Is it effecting my power (a man) or my potential (a woman)?

The goal must be PEACE. It doesn’t matter whether they still behave badly (as you see it) or not, the destruction that is blocking your manifestation power is the ‘upset’ you FEEL.

Example

Your husband is always late home for dinner.

I am upset because “I feel disrespected”

I disrespect myself and need to stop, my actions must match my needs.

It is a man so every time I get upset I stop things on my dream list ‘happening’

Decision to be successful and turn on my flow of abundance

I will use my words carefully to help my husband see how it’s in his interest to arrive home on time

or…

I will simply let it go, I know he works hard and is doing his best.

Either way, you MUST resolve the emotional upset. While you are upset your energies are at war… they are completely repelling like two north pole magnets trying to be pushing towards each other… one part of you is saying yes and the other no. This means you stay exactly where you are.

This energy dynamic is showing us moment by moment what we need to work on. We are constantly asking complicated questions, buying more books and courses whilst the answer we are looking for is coming at us during our day.

Every person in your world is attracted by you and playing out a role which is happening within you. Walking away is not the solution. See what they are showing you, take action to learn and gain peace…

… all the other stuff going on is because of these upsets. Don’t fool yourself it is because of the economy, your job, you married the wrong woman, your upbringing, the culture you live in, because you have children.

You have the power to change it NOW.

Does more flow in prosperity require radical change?

Yes. However understand what radical means. It means a complete shift in direction… extreme change from accepted or traditional forms…

…not exhaustive amounts of energy, money and life-changing upheaval!

Example

Instead of expressing anger at my wife because my dinner isn’t ready as I walked through the door as we agreed…

I decide to take a deep breath, claim the fact that she loves me, perhaps she had a very busy or a difficult day and hurting her will not help either of us. Perhaps I will ask her how her day went and get the facts before I assume her day should have been all about me! If she feels bad I lose!

These moments are the moments when you will rock the very fabric of your life but we are missing them.

Why?

Because we are too busy and too unhappy.

Why?

Because we are not maintaining prosperity in the moments we have. They are full of upset, anger, frustration, stress, disillusionment and assuming the worst.

Look at the people you interact with daily and see where you are ‘repelling your prosperity’ by observing your emotional upset. It won’t go away, it is inside you so take control and channel it into love, acceptance and peace…

THEN you will see it show up in your work, finances, home, partnerships and a healthy body. What is even more exciting is that each of these aspects are precisely interconnected so if we empower one it has a dominoe effect on the other.

If you want to see how the outside is a perfect and precise mirror of everything inside of you and unblock your conflicts get yourself a copy of my ebook Power Surge










How Can I See My Success?

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Live your life with the knowledge that the wealthy life you day dream about already exists.

Instead of asking “how can I get it”, ask “how can I SEE it?”. The word “get” suggests you don’t “have”. You DO have it, whatever it takes to create a happy life is sitting on that chair where you are right now. This change in perception will revolutionize your consciousness.

Continue to do what you always did and you will continue to have what you always had. I used to day dream about being in a fantastic relationship. A day dream was really all it could be at the time considering my perception of what was possible…. after all, what I saw in relationships around me didn’t give me much to write home about.

Twenty five years researching the metaphysics of my mind, body and spirit showed me how we are, in essence, particles of energy in movement. Energy particles that cluster together localized in a certain time and space to create everything you experience as physical. The outside is a reflection of the inside, ‘your psyche in action’. Each and every particle is a particle of Light energy, an All Knowing intelligence with unlimited access to the Universal Bank.

These particles are intelligence clustered together to form an experience. The energy particles receive their instruction to cluster based on what you give attention and intention to. What you think about, talk about, taken action on and focus on becomes real.

You’re born a winner, how can you lose…
Did you stop to consider how many millions of souls are vying for that body you are sitting in right now…and you know what, guess who won?

You have already established that you cannot fail. How can you lose a race you already won?

So what happened?

You changed your programming that’s what. You allowed yourself to re-write your script. Yeah, it took other people and other ideas and opinions, however, ultimately you are solely responsible. No other person can make you believe anything you don’t wish to, that suggests you have no power. You will be gob-smacked to know just how much power you actually do have in your hands.

How do I return to living as a winner?
All the answers are within YOU, question is “are you Being YOU?”

Everything in your life is screaming at you. Your heart is talking to you all the time through images, voices and feelings. Your spirit talks to you through your heart. It uses everything from the country you live in, to the shoes you wear to get your attention as to how to live the success you desire.

Somewhere along the line you just stopped seeing and listening. You started listening to a world tainted by the belief that you can’t have it all, that you can’t be the person you really are and that you can’t have it easily.

One of the reasons why young children suffer so regularly with earache is the pain directly from the part of their body expressing pain. In other words the pain is directly related to something they are hearing which either causes pain because;

  • (a) it is something they are hearing that goes against their heart’s desire; or
  • (b) it is something they are hearing which they need to take on board and they are resisting.

The body can’t create anything or think for itself, it simply works like any engine, when something is out of alignment with its design, it lets you know.

Your Spirit is the All Knowing part of your intelligence, your Higher Self (which by the way, is on great terms with the Universal Bank). Your Spirit lives inside your physical vehicle which mirrors the truth. When disalignment with your full potential occurs, your body expresses this through your physical body.

So, as with children and their frequent propensity to experience earache, the body expresses that the pain related to something they are ‘hearing’ through their ears.

What happens next? Parents can’t give them the freedom to express this pain, after all they are too busy dealing with their own pain and struggle…so solution?… medicine gets poured into their body and the body shuts up. Why? Because the body can only respond to our instructions.

However, the energy which remains imbalanced still exists in its present form. The body needs a certain amount of ‘light’, life force for organs to live. Therefore you will experience the imbalance in your body. Over time, without any harmonizing or expressing of this discomfort, the pain, will express itself as sickness in an endeavour to make sure the problem is brought to attention more strongly.

The mind, body and emotions are completely interconnected. It is true to say that you ARE what you EAT, DRINK, BREATH AND THINK.

What happens if you actually listen each time?

Yeah, you will have to change something, even if it’s something simple like opening your mind to another opinion. You feel it’s gonna hurt right? Irony is, that the pain of staying where you are is ten times more painful than the changes you might need to make.

All your daydreams are worthy of attention and intention. I didn’t really have any plans for life up until the age of 30, everything looked too miserable, no wait…I did plan my funeral for a while! – now I love waking up, life is better than I could have imagined.

Clues, clues and more clues…
I bet you ask yourself several times a day how things got the way they are. Truth is, your heart and body are telling you all the time. They tell you when you are out of alignment with the Law of Attraction (give you a big clue, “it hurts..it costs more than you want to give!”).

That All Knowing part of you that has unlimited access to the Universal Bank is guiding you all the time, it’s giving you heavy clues as to what to do next.

The last time your friends asked you out or the last time you went to the gym, did you stop to ask yourself “Do I really want to?” Yeah, sounds simple, maybe you think it sounds dumb? Are you thinking, “Course I want to see my friends.” or “I need to go to the gym, I want to stay fit!

Well, simple it may be, however it’s a profound process that changes your life in incredibly successful ways.

Remember, the most ‘simple’ processes are paramount to your ability to live. Take breathing for example, “breath in, breath out”. How simple does it get?

Checking in with yourself before you do anything enables you to express the REAL you, not the fake you are probably pretending to be. Now, I say “fake” in the most respectful way.

If you’re not living successfully, you’re not living your truth and it’s the real you who has the treasure map. The map which is going to guide you to:

  • … that relationship you are crying out for.
  • … that fat bank account; no more fear of what the postman brings,
  • … that opportunity to live a rich life doing what you love;
  • … that great feeling of wellness, happiness and vitality.

The real you has all the answers in the most amazingly perfect formula. The real you is going to manifest a rich life doing what you are naturally good at. That real you under those unloving layers is going to ATTRACT what you want in a much easier way than working your butt off.

I come from a family background where respect is determined by how hard you work. I don’t know how many times growing up I heard conversations like, “What’s he like?” “Oh, he’s a hard worker, yeah, nice guy”.

You’re not designed to work hard. You’re designed to enjoy doing what you’re passionate about, what lights your fire…there’s your clue, the energy and motivation you need comes naturally, you don’t see it as “work”. I’m busier than I’ve ever been, however it certainly doesn’t feel like work, there’s my clue.

Wake-up call…

Up until three years ago, if you’d asked me to describe myself I would have said “hard-worker, not very ambitious, have a great interest in people, don’t care about money, extremely independent” (LOL).

I discovered that I am lazy and want as many short cuts as possible, I truly want to leave my mark on the world, I care that people are happy however I don’t want to take on responsibility for their life and experiences.

I now recognise you need to take money seriously and now very happy to accept help wherever I can as there is a limit to how much success we can create by doing things ourselves…whooah, what a wake up call that was.

Now that I listen to myself in every moment as to what I REALLY want to do and stand by it, I have manifested…a fantastic relationship, a successful business with my partner which has increased 3000% in the last 5 months, opportunities popping into my mail box on how to write successful books, articles etc. using the incredible information which is miraculously showing itself to me intuitively.

One of the biggest factors in creating success is truly being yourself. Yes, it can be confronting and can cause conflict. However, when you stand by yourself and the truth of how you feel, everything in this Universe will conspire to make what you desire happen. Asking the question and listening for a resounding ‘Yes’ or ‘No’ gives you YOUR truth.

Your blocks to success are staring you in the face in the form of people, places or objects (from the country you live in to the pen on your desk)…your success is calling out to you. Unleash your wealth frequencies with ease, anyone can do it, get a closer look at your script…reveal the secrets now!

Are you really using your true skills, find out more about the hidden truths about yourself. This Psychological Report (and also the Career Report) really helped me clear up the TRUTH.

The Secret

Rhonda Byrne. Atria Books/Beyond Words 2006, Hardcover, 198 pages, $5.00

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Power Surge – Book

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UNCOVER DEEPLY HIDDEN BLOCKS to your success. This ebook enables you an overview of how to see your matrix. Power Surge demonstrates your relationship with everything in your life from a light bulb to your car and shows you how they are impacting your life in either positive or destructive ways.

Power Surge opens up a layer of vision you haven’t experienced before… and includes a 16 Hour Formula for empowering your mind and The CALL Formula which manages your emotions.

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HOME Your WEALTH – Book

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Your HOME, OFFICE & PERSONAL SPACES are full of HIDDEN SECRETS about why the life you want is still escaping you. Hidden blocks in the subconscious matrix of your mind can be revealed and dissolved using your home.

In order to transform yourself, your habits need to be consistent which means you must be doing something which can be done during your current day. If not, chances are it won’t happen regularly. What you discover in your home will amaze you about why things could and would not change once you know how and where to look…

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Success: Breakthrough is One Step Away

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Illusion about success that overwhelms us

Successful living is more of an illusion than maybe you realise… we assume it is harder, requires more effort, more time and more energy to achieve change than is actually required.

If you have read Power Surge or Home Your Wealth, you will now understand how the Matrix around you is effecting everything… your bank account effects your career which effects your relationships, which effects your health which effects your sense of joy and peace.

*** Right now, ONE change in ONE area of your living is going to effect everything else, it has to, it’s science. Science is no respecter of people, opinions or backgrounds.

Consider ONE circumstance in your life right now that is bothering you (don’t dwell on it), just DECIDE which one poses the most concern.

Got it in mind (if your emotions haven’t already tugged at it)?

Successful Solution to the Problem

TIP 1:

Don’t seek advice from someone who has not achieved a successful experience in this area. Not because the advice they give might not be good but simply because if they haven’t created a result it means something in them was held back from taking the advice and you want to receive from a situation holding the vibration you are looking to activate in your own life.

TIP 2:

Claim now that there is a solution however know that the solution only exists where the problem is. So taking for example the worry about money, money is not the problem, what you want the money for is the problem and this is the area where the breakthrough lies.

TIP 3:

A solution DOES EXIST without having to use money!

TIP 4:

Don’t take any action until you are clear WHY you are taking the action you are. Be clear about what you are intending to achieve. Too much time and energy is wasted because people don’t get clear about the mission and launch off into desperate activity just because it is the first thing they think of.

Stop and use your brain to be creative, think like a chessboard, how can I achieve this with as few moves as possible (bearing in mind, ‘moves’ on a chessboard incurr resources such as time, money and energy in life.

TIP 5:

Check your thoughts about what you intend to take action on. Do you actually believe it will work? If not, why not? The thoughts will give you a clue to the breakthrough. Don’t fool yourself that anything is going to be fruitful if you don’t believe it.

One great way to test this is to reflect on what pictures come to mind when you think of the solution and that will give you a pretty good idea of what you perceive the outcome as being. Question is, does it look good or is it fraught with complication? Keep sorting through the possibilities until you can find PEACE that this can work.

TIP 6:

If your solution requires the help or participation of other people then you better make sure you communicate lovingly and take into action their needs.

If they are not happy, you will not get what you want (fundamental lesson about humans).. Nobody will listen to anything you have to say until they sense that you care… watch your words, tone, attitude, have you communicated CLEARLY what you would like from them and make sure they get to know how it benefits them.

Your Potential is Phenomenal. Prove it to yourself.

Take a decision today about an area you are going to resolve and gain control over.

A substantial force of destruction in our experiences is believing that we are not control or feeling overwhelmed by situations we don’t we believe we can… but we can more easily than we realise. It’s just that we oftentimes don’t even get started.

This is why the industry of fashion, nutrition and weight control is so considerable. The only thing we actually own is our body and mind. When we look in the mirror or feel ‘not in control’ everything else is effected by this mindset and the knock-on effect is massive.

Taking a situation that we feel powerless to resolve and creating a successful outcome creates a magnificent release inside us that changes our physiology and leaves us feeling we can master other things. Success is simply a number of small situations we have gained control over, ONE BY ONE.

EVERYTHING ABOUT THIS ONE PROBLEM HOLDS THE KEY to why all the other problems exist. Solve this ONE and you make huge discoveries about yourself and your power.

Recommendation: No matter what you decide, start clearing and cleaning your home and personal spaces such as your office. It is far more relevant than you realise. It costs you time but it is worth it on fundamental levels of your subconscious. If you really want to see how deep the transformation can go, get yourself a copy of Home Your Wealth now and get started on your metamorphosis right away.

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Why You Don’t Have What You Really Want

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The Saboteur Within
Why You Don’t Have What You Really Want

by Dr. Robert Anthony

Lets face it – most of us from time to time feel that life is just one big struggle with a series of never ending problems.

Yet the truth is that life does not have to be this way. In fact, it can be just the opposite. Life is not about struggle and overcoming problems. Life is about pursuing and creating what we truly desire in an easy, stress-free manner.

Is there something in your life that you want, but it seems to elude you?

In short, if you don’t have what you want (you name it) your subconscious holds some contradictory intentions for you.

To put it simply, you want something and it doesn’t.

For example you may say, “I want more money”, but your dominant subconscious belief may be, “Earning the amount of money I want is very difficult”.

Notice anything different about these two statements?

They are going in different directions.

What is really happening is that your conscious and subconscious are almost always in conflict. You consciously say, “I want more money” and then after listening, your subconscious says, “No matter what you do, it is too difficult to create that amount of money”.

As a result there is no agreement between your conscious and subconscious. When this happens they cancel each other out and give up on assisting you to create what you would like to have in your life.

What is critical to understand is the competition, conflicting agendas, and disharmony between your conscious and subconscious is keeping you from having what you desire.

Why?

Because when your conscious and subconscious are not in agreement, they produce negative emotion. And it is that very negative emotion or energy that attracts the things you don’t want. (You may have to re-read that.)

Let me explain to you what is really happening.

Every thought is received by the brain, which is the organ of the conscious mind. It is there that it is subjected to our power of reasoning. When the conscious or objective mind has been satisfied that the thought is true, it is sent to the subconscious mind to be brought into the world of reality through quantum physics or the law of attraction.

It is no longer susceptible to any argument whatsoever. The subconscious mind cannot argue. It only acts. It accepts the conclusions of the conscious mind as final. This is the point at which the uncreated becomes the created, the universal becomes individualized, and the invisible becomes visible.

Put simply, every thought that you think has its own energetic vibrational frequency. That thought is impressed into your subconscious mind. Then, through the Law of Attraction, it will energetically attract another person, place, thing or circumstance that has a vibrational match or is vibrating at the same frequency.

Your subconscious mind cooperates completely with your conscious mind when it understands and agrees with what you consciously want. In other words, when your conscious and subconscious are not in conflict.

When you feel negative emotions, they are signals from your subconscious that you are not in harmony with what you desire and this creates emotional energy blocks within your electromagnetic system.

You are not alone. Conflict, manifested as an emotional energy block, is common in almost everyone.

Have you ever wondered why…

Athletes get into slumps?

This defies normal logic. There is no physical reason for an athlete to perform below par. He or she is the same highly trained athlete before, after and during the slump. Yet, no matter how highly skilled, all athletes go through this consistently throughout their careers. Why?

Addictions are so hard to overcome?

Most addicts want to be free of their destructive patterns. They know, and will often admit, that their addiction is costing them their health, their relationships, their money and even their life! Yet they continue with it. Why?

Depression is so hard to overcome?

Depression is one of the most difficult psychological issues to handle. It is not unusual for an individual who suffers from depression to go through years of expensive therapy and not make much progress. Why?

Healing sometimes takes so long?

We have a lingering cold that just won’t go away, a headache or pain that keep coming back again and again or a sprain or broken bone that takes forever to heal. Why?

We self-sabotage ourselves?


Regardless of what you have read or heard, you cannot correct this through positive thinking. You must go BEYOND POSITIVE THINKING to get rid of the “Saboteur Within”. I call this “Right Thinking”. It is right because it is based on truth, not illusion.

Here is something you can do right now.

We try to change our behaviours or become more successful in our business or career yet we often manage to fall back into our previous “comfort zones” with little or no real progress. Why?

The reason we have these experiences is that we do not correct the negative emotion IN THE MOMENT.

Notice when you are feeling any negative emotion or conflict. That is you “inner guidance system” telling you that you are not in harmony with your desire. This is your first clue.

IN THAT MOMENT you MUST self-correct. Change your FEELING right then and there because how you FEEL as a result of a thought is what causes the negative emotion. The negative emotion then causes the conflict. And the conflict attracts more of the things you DON’T WANT.

So, if you do nothing else, remember that you MUST correct and STOP the negative attraction in the MOMENT if you are serious about getting rid of the “Saboteur Within.” That will clear the way for you conscious and subconscious to work in harmony to bring your desire.

This may be difficult to accept or to at first understand. Remember, we are talking about going beyond what you typically understand, so you can get to the results you want.

The effort can help make all your dreams come true.

Believe me, it’s worth it.

How to regain control of a successful life once and for all


Success Indicator: The Why Syndrome

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I believe I will be successful, I think!

If I say your life will become what you believe you will probably say that you know that.

If I say you don’t believe what you think you believe you might ask how so?

For the last ten years I have worked closely with entrepreneurs.  People who want to start their own business and want to improve the quality of their lives and have more control.

What I have discovered is that they constantly prove over and over that what they fundamentally say they believe is actually not the case and it comes as a shocking surprise to many.

Discovering this illusion about themselves proves very exciting because once they see this they can then make some adjustments to their 16 Hour Power Slot.

How do you AFFIRM what you truly believe?

Well the fact is that your mind contains billions of differing possibilities about what you believe based on all the pieces of information that have been fed to you through your eyes and ears.  So it’s not a case of trying to go through your mind thought by thought, you would end up in an asylum.

Life as it is for you is presently your dominant beliefs.

Taking a very simplistic example, this means that if there are 1 billion thoughts suggesting you can get in shape and there are 1 billion and 1 thoughts suggesting you can’t then it means that everything will conspire to make sure you can’t.

The outside must prove the inside because it is the place from which it takes its instructions.

How do I get breakthrough?

Whatever you do and whatever you put resources to whether it be time, money or energy, always ask a fundamental question:-

****Why am I doing this?****

You may find that you have to keep asking until you reach the core motivation behind your impulse to do it.

Example:

“I need to make some extra money so we can have a holiday.”

WHY?

“Because we really need to get away.”

WHY?

“Because me and my wife and have been arguing alot lately and the break will do us good.”

WHY are you arguing?

“When we are busy we have less time to think about the other person and we end up snapping and communicating badly.”

Why will a holiday fix this?

“Because we will have time to be nice to each other.”

FACT: The holiday will heal the sores from the bad mouthing each other but unless the ‘busy ness’ is resolved everything will happen again when the holiday is over.

FACT: The solution ALWAYS LIES EXACTLY WHERE THE PROBLEM IS.

Once you have listened to your WHY? always check your facts aswell so you can decide what is the best solution and whether the solution you see is actually based on fact or just an idea that you think can work!

Example – Checking Your Facts

“It’s time to change the design of my business website.”

WHY?

“Because my sales have gone done.”

WHY do you think the drop in sales is the website?

“Because maybe people are tired and want something new.”

WHY do you think they are tired and want something new?

“Because I’m tired of it so they must be! “***Aha the real motivation!***

FACT: Sales were UP with this website

FACT: No customers were asked their opinion to justify the change.

FACT: The words that come from your mouth. “Because I’m tired of it…”

Now, having established that you feel tired of your website this can be a valid reason for change. If you don’t believe this site will sell anymore then it will EFFECT the outcome.

However, considering you have now discovered the true motivation for changing your site, you could find yourself able to change ‘your feelings… of being tired of it’ now you know the facts.

The reason for asking yourself questions is that you get the words directly from your database and you need to listen verbatim in every occasion. Your Words are Life and Death to your experience.

Asking Why? has always been an essential part of the natural plan we were designed for.

We start as children with a pure formula for prosperity. We are free to believe anything is possible.

If you have children or remember being a child you will note that children start out by asking WHY? to everything…. everything! There is a crucial reason. To train ourselves to know why we are doing things so we can control ourselves (and our prosperity).

However, a child, though able to dream up a sports car that can go to outer space cannot buy one. The child in you has exercised its right to be creative and dream but the practical part of actually owning the car has to come from the adult.

So, we grow up and can now independently open a bank account and can go to the car showroom without being accompanied by a guardian and can legitimately drive the car away (having passed our driving test).

Great Plan!

However what tends to happen is that once we grow up, the WHY? training has been knocked out of us by adults who, when asked the question “Why is it green mum?” tends to be dismissed the more they ask. Or they get a simple “Because!”

It becomes apparent that asking Why? is not popular at an age when we are most sensitive to tone, vibrations and are most vulnerable in general. Children know when adults are not happy and as a child is trained to pursue happiness, it is easier to stop asking.

Then as we grow up, our world gets busier. The WHY? is forgotten about and chaos ensues. The more unhappiness ensues the more we think life won’t get better, the more we invest in all kinds of vices and self-development material in a desperate plea to rid ourselves of our unhappy situations…

…but asking WHY? can ROCK YOUR WORLD… literally!

Return to your Basic Training. Ask Why? to everything you do and you will be shocked what you discover.

What will I discover?

- You are busy with things that will never bring a reward;
– You don’t want the things you think you want;
– Your actions are actually the opposite of what you say you want;
– You can cut out a great deal of activity and investment you don’t need to do.

The Bible states a clear path to prosperity…

“Except ye become as little children, ye will not enter the
Kingdom of Heaven.”

“If you stop the natural behaviour of the child within you, you will not prosper.”

The Universal Creator made us on purpose, stages of our lives were created ’on purpose’… child, adolescent, adult, senior. Each stage holds keys to what we need to carry forward to the next stage to enlarge our joy and prosperity.

Today ask WHY? to everything no matter how obvious you THINK it is.

You will be shocked and enlightened.

THE TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE (if you do something with what you discover!). Discover a unique layer of vision uncovering YOUR TRUTH, understand the Matrix of your experience and how to gain control WITH EASE.

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Success in your hands, don’t blow it!

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Your words are bringing life or death and you pay the price.

Most of the things you may have been reading or listening to about bringing on your success and victory may not have really registered deep down where the profound re-programming begins.

This may be BECAUSE you can’t see the power in what you are being asked to do.

For the most part you may still only trust what you can see. Even though the science of personal development  lays down a precise and exact instruction of how to behave to attract wealth and abundance, the changes you need to make may not be happening because somewhere inside you you don’t BELIEVE in the power of some things you are asked to do.

Perhaps you believe that they are just too simple to create the impact you need.

Well the exciting fact remains that opportunity is still available to you.

Today you STILL have 57,600 ground breaking, rock your world opportunities to change your future even if you ONLY focus on the resource of your WORDS.

This number is assessed on the premise that you will probably be awake 16 hours.. x 60 minutes… x 60 seconds (= 57,600 moments).

Within each moment is a PRECISE AND EXACT INSTRUCTION which YOU are giving to the creative process in the form of words to make happen AS IS.

These WORDS are those:-

- leaving your mouth,
– in your writing,
– through your mobile texting,
– in your head,
– through your singing

*** and each of these words hold100% power of LIFE and DEATH ***.
Your words are truly that serious.  The creative process is not a joke and does not stop working because you are having a bad day and ‘don’t mean what you say’… or whether can see the significance or believe that the words can manifest as a reality.

If you even recorded what comes out of your mouth for ONE DAY and then had it transcripted you would probably be shocked. Comparing what you think you are saying against what you are actually saying would be a radical contrast.

Does it take effort to control your words?

YES.

Will it get easier?

YES.

Will you do it?

DON’T KNOW.

Nobody is going to change your life except you. No matter what anyone says to you, thinks about you, or behaves towards you is relevant to your creative process. The only thing that will CONTROL your life is what comes OUT of you and what you accept IN to your world. Your CREW who are waiting on your every word are not hearing, seeing or paying attention to anything anyone else does or says in your life!

If you do not control your words and WATCH to see what they are going to ‘put into motion’ you will never gain control and will always be held victim by your circumstances as they are currently defaulted.

I once heard an I.T. technician frustratingly claim that he wished humans were more like computers. What he hadn’t realised is that computers are a perfect expression of human behaviour in as much as they are perfectly predictable – you will get out exactly what you put in.

Every program and software package (which provides the source of the power ‘to create’ was built by a human and therefore mirrors how a human thinks and operates.

Microsoft Windows did not create itself, a human told it how to operate and therefore it works the way the designer WROTE it based on the way the designed thinks. If it didn’t work the way he thinks then he could not understand it to work on it!

Computers will do exactly as they are programmed and they are programmed with WORDS.

Example of Programming Source Code for a Webpage

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When a programmer gets an error and a page doesn’t load online he/she goes to the ‘source code’ and studies the code.  I can confirm from designing websites myself that going through the code to find a specific error is much more of an ardous task than taking the time to write and check that it is correct when it is first committed to site!

It is the same for our lives. Start re-writing correct versions of what you want today and it will overwrite the conflicting instructions from the past. Don’t waste energy trying to figure out where things are going wrong, start writing powerfully from this moment on.

So the critical question is the source of your language killing everything all day long or giving life to situations?

If it has been destroying..? NO PROBLEM! It has passed. You cannot change it BUT you can start writing a new future today.

However, to do this you have got to take control of yourself which is the fundamental difference between those that live the life they choose and those that live the life they are held randsom by (or at least how they see it).

It is hard to control my mouth!

Well let’s see how true this really is for you?

- If Donald Trump called you right now, and regardless of how stressful your circumstances, would you change how you speak?

- When your young children speak to you do you at least start to think about choosing different words?

- If somebody you want to impress shows up do you speak differently?

YES? Then clearly you can change your vocabulary when you have a good enough reason…

… so the question is not how hard is it but how much do you want things to get better?

The ability to take control is not determined by your upbringing, background and education.

When computers were first set up they were based on a programming language called “BASIC” and this language was enough to instruct anything to happen.

If you can speak, write and think you have established a BASIC ability to create and therefore have the same potential than anyone else to create anything you desire.

Watch what you do with your words today… will your words give life to better experiences or bring about death and destruction?

Listen to yourself, it’s the only way to find out and start to change it.

If you are too caught up in opening your mouth without thinking and really struggling then ask those closest to you to tell you when you are causing destruction with your mouth.

Bottom line is, don’t let it continue words are the most phenomenal resource you have that costs you no amount of money but will TRANSFORM YOUR WORLD and attract the success you want. If you want to clear up the words and the source of any destruction buried within the four walls of your home, get yourself a copy of Home Your Wealth and get started on a new life today.


You Don't Know what You Don't Know about Your Beliefs... and it is hurting you.

Ever stopped to figure out Who You Are?

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Your Personal Success is attached to YOU..

but you are not being YOU are you?

It is not often we are asked the question “Who are you?”… if ever!

Most of us never even manifest 10% of our potential simply because we are completely messed up.  We are a mess of alter egos, schizophrenic personalities… riddled with conflicts and contradictions.

The situations we find ourselves in and the questions we plague ourselves with have grown in size and have become more complicated SIMPLY BECAUSE we have grown further away from our real self. We think because circumstances change we are heading for a better life but what we are really heading for is the same experience which simply looks outwardly different.

So who are you really?

This profound breakthrough comes from asking the question “What are my values?” Often times, the way to answer this question is to discover what we don’t value which can be flipped around?

Example:

“I don’t like people who are impolite!”

Great. Now you have established you like politeness.

When you hear something or see something WHICH YOU AGREE with or leaves you feeling at peace with…. this is a clear indication that you are feeling peaceful because it MATCHES YOU. This means you are establishing more definition about who you clearly are.

Nobody can give us any good feeling that does not already exist within us; they cannot put a finger on a button inside us and make the emotion go “Oh yeah, that feels good“.

We feel it because we RECOGNISE it. Recognise means to “re-cognise” i.e. to realign ourselves with perfectly.

Once you establish and be more clearer about whom you are, what do you do with this; how does this empower your experiences and bring on more of what you want?

Once you have established your values such as “I love:-

  • politeness, being sociable, kindness, having many friendships, caring about children, superficiality (or the opposite, intensity), fairness, situations where I am free to express myself, being able to work the hours I want etc.”… you must become a TEN in the behaviour of these qualities and practices.

The reason you create power by doing this is two-fold:-

  1. If you clearly define the real you and become a TEN at being you, you attract you to the power of ten.
  2. If you become a 10 at whatever value you are expressing, you help others to:-
  • Either realise they are this value and you show them a superb example of what a 10 looks and behaves like;
    OR
  • By demonstrating this value as a 10, you help others figure out more quickly what they are not!

    Example: you may be a superficial person which means you care about the most surface qualities such as remembering a person’s name, their child or dog’s name and so in the presence of somebody who is very intense to the power of ten you will quickly be repelled by their behaviour and they help you to see that this is not something that matters to you – you are in fact the opposite!


If you value fairness, do not automatically judge that fairness is a good or bad value and therefore because YOU value it, everyone else should. All human behaviour plays a critical and integral part in the world. Without unfairness, we would never get to feel what fairness feels like and how good it feels.

The universe is driven by laws which we need to live by in order to access the whole of our ‘personal universe’. One of the fundamental laws is the Law of Polarity which states that for everything that exists, there exists an exact and equal opposite; it is there for a reason and not to be questioned.

We spend so much of our lives questioning, experimenting, making investments into our life in the hope it will improve but we are wasting time and money.

The rules are already there but we were never taught them. Most of what we need to live a rich life has never been taught either in school or in our jobs and that is where we spend most of our time.

Your key to success is to become a 10 at the person you are designed to be… the way you know who you are is by listening to your true values (which I know takes courage).

You are going to have to fight to be the person you truly are because everyone around you is going to project onto you, their ideas of who they think you should be. It’s not their fault but for you to submit and play at being who they want you to be IS your fault…. or at least it is now you are aware!

* Life is not what you hoped because you made it complicated.

* You made it complicated because you didn’t get the results you wanted.

* You didn’t get the results you wanted because you kept doing the same things over and over…

* BECAUSE you didn’t know how to follow the SIMPLE RULES.

ONE EXERCISE you can do to help you establish your values which DEFINE WHO YOU ARE is to think of all the people you find attractive in life and be specific about why you like them. What is it you see, hear or see that ‘feels good to you’.

Let me demonstrate by my own example.  I find the following people very attractive TO ME for the following reasons:-

Oprah Winfrey – Genuinely cares about helping people;
Donald Trump – Like the way he respects himself;
Joe Vitale – I really believe this man holds love in his heart with everything he does;
Robbie Williams – I like his courage to be vulnerable and be himself.
Larry Winget – Love the direct way he teaches, he’s not afraid to tell it like it is!

Now, you may not see these things in these people, however this is what I SEE and this is WHAT I REALLY APPRECIATE… which means this is what is of VALUE TO ME and therefore the true me.

When I read Larry Winget’s book “Shut Up, Stop Whining and Get a Life” I actually wept. I felt such a relief because in my heart of heart’s that is truly who I am. I generally hold love in my heart however I need to express that love by ‘telling it like it is’ and Larry gave me courage to be more of myself. I could see how I was still ‘playing it safe’ and not really saying what I really needed to say (as me!).

So do the exercise to find out what you really like about people and what really leaves you feeling happy and peaceful.  It can be any behaviour which attracts you but get clear now! This is clearly who you are and you need to be doing more of it every day NOT doing it when you get time to think about it.

You cannot afford NOT to be yourself for one moment longer.

We are used to focusing so much of our attention on what we can see and that is why we are working blindly for the most part. It is not precisely what we do that has the biggest impact in our lives, it is the thoughts and emotions behind what we are doing that the Universal scanner takes as ‘instruction’…

…and so much of what we actually do is riddled with contradiction, anger, frustration, hopelessness, exhaustion, jealousy, low self-esteem simply because we are totally off track.

You think that, by going along to a friend’s party just because you can’t let them down when in your heart you know you really don’t want to will gain you kudos; in truth, behind the façade of turning up and smiling, is ‘disrespect’ and an ‘unhappy feeling’.

In truth, unless you can be absolutely joyful when you arrive at your friend’s house, you have achieved nothing. You have insulted yourself and your friend and actually been more destructive than if you’d stayed home and been honest with your friend!

About ten years ago I changed my name. I never really enjoyed being called ‘Marie’ and those feelings were hurting me for 38 years simply because nobody told me I was free to be myself and change it.

Changing my name to Annemarie has been one of the most significant catalysts in the way I feel about myself and my impact in the world.. not only did it cost me a mere $30 to change… but my parents and everyone around me embraced and started using my new name within 48 hours!

When you start being the real YOU, your real destiny will start. You are unique for a reason, if there were two of you, you would be unnecessary!

It was Albert Einstein who said “When the answer is simple, it’s God answering!”

So, who are you? Start living the life you were born to live today!

If you want to get clearer about who you are and the condition of your potential and power at this given time BY LOOKING AT THE MEN AND WOMEN AROUND YOU… Get yourself a copy of Power Surge and have your eyes really opened!

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