Living with a feeling of insecurity in your home can create a ripple effect and repell improvements you were hoping would come about. I recently broke both my wrists at the fitness centre because of feeling very insecure. I only had a square metre of space but what I was feeling caused a big problem. I could feel how insecure I felt as I started to work out and I could have acted but I didn't! While two broken wrists is easy to see, what I didn't see was all the other situations that were held back or riddled with insecurity that I didn't see which were not effecting everything in my life and my business.
A treasure map of rules for engagement
I never had a plan in my life but my life went from deep depression and constant suicidal feelings to a rich life. Your dreams are inside you buried beneath layers of misguided ideas of who you are. This mess comes about because of contradictions in your beliefs which are written into every physical thing in your life. To understand where the contradictions are we need to understand what has power and what doesn’t… and there are millions of individual ways of doing just this. Just pick one and commit to it! It’s not the method that counts it is your commitment.
1. Life without God helping is going to be incredibly harder
God gifted me with many visions about the outside being a mirror of what’s in my mind and emotions. It is only late into my life that I have gone back to the Bible which I abandoned at the age of eleven. I found the Bible to be the most important exciting book for living a rich and prosperous life. Everything God showed me about the mirror through visions… what everything in my home means… how we are both a man and woman inside… how my name can change my life… how every word will create my reality… is in the Bible.
All I can say to you is that if you do not believe in God or have not understood God to be the most incredible gift in your life, you have either been misinformed or not found this nugget of gold. I can not imagine facing the future as we are now in ‘the end times’, without the information that is going to keep me safe, secure and experiencing more joy…. without God. God is not a religion, He is the Creator, get to know Him, his one book is still the best seller of all time!
(If you are looking for introduction to how to have a relationship with God and know his exquisite love and generosity, I recommend Bishop T.D. Jakes, Joyce Meyer, Joseph Prince, Joel Osteen, Dr Creflo Dollar, Dr Ravi Zacharias… you will be attracted to whatever suits your searching.)
2. The outside world is a precise mirror of your inner world
If you don’t embrace this truth you may not only suffer from the idea you are a victim of circumstances but you will never really get to feel in control in a way that brings you great peace. Feeling in control (even if we can’t see how things will change) is very important. It makes the difference between just being in a situation as opposed to feeling secure and confident in a situation.
Every single thing in your life came into being because of thoughts and emotions resonating from you. Yes, many of them are buried within the depths of your subconscious mind and many have been inherited without you creating them personally… however, they still exist. They drive our behaviour and our experiences and we are the only one who can change the experiences.
Even if you argue that God can change your life, God will not change your life without a request going out on your behalf. In other words, something in your mind and emotionally body must be attracting it! Don’t count on other people praying for you.
3. Use the power of “I am…” and be careful what follows
God started all creation by “saying” let there be light. There is the first truth about the power we have and where the power lies in manifesting physical situations… words leaving our mouth. Every time you say I am and follow it with words, that sentence is now being put into operation.
I have created a screensaver where I can see examples of I am… which I utter daily (why not do these things on your phone aswell).
We are creatures of habit so to change our behaviour the changes we need to make will have to be accessible and attached to things we already do otherwise they will be forgotten. Your body is designed to protect you which means it will defend all your neural pathways and your behaviour as it is. By default your body will impulse you to do the same things every day and it takes real effort to do something different. Place what you need to say in places you will be every day so it can happen.
Keep in mind that words must be uttered with your mouth, not thought. How many times a day do you say I am attractive, I am vibrantly healthy, I am experiencing a wonderful marriage, I am a multi-millionnaire, I am living in a luxury dream home fully paid for, I am an attractive, articulate, highly effective parent, I am attracting thousands of customers who love my products and love recommending them?
Are you more serious about worrying and procrastinating or watching the news than sending out expressions of what you want to see happen? No one can write the script of your life but you. You have access to all the power you need to improve your life… if you read otherwise it is not the truth no matter how convincing it sounds.
4. Tything: 10% of income goes to helping others
The Bible tells us that ten percent of our income belongs to God and was set aside to help lost, hurting people. God’s promise ensures that we are more than compensated for our obedience to give up this contribution to help people. Two more important things to consider is that we experience troubles or ‘curses’ in life simply because this is not honoured in our lives.
It has been documented that physical currency actually contains the deadliest diseases in the world and the tything cleanses us from anything harmful. Furthermore, it is important that we wrap specific expectations to our giving which can be anything we desire… and remember that with God’s blessings, all things are possible!
5. Be careful how you speak to men and women
This alone has the power to change the world and the subject of my new book coming out shortly.
Every man or women you meet will play out the energy of the relationship with your power (man) or your potential (woman). Every word or attitude you express towards each man or woman will effect the energy of this dynamic in your life. It doesn’t matter how close you are to the person. It matters that you see every person as an aspect of you (or cell of your body) and use your patience and conscious expression to manage how you would like to speak to yourself… or more specifically, your power and potential!
Men: speaking to your ability to make things happen in the physical world
Every man is a mirror of your male energy even though you may not see on a conscious level how that can be. The words you speak are a direct instruction to your ability to manifest into physical form. That said just imagine this as example. Every time you tell a man he is stupid, he can’t do something, he will never change, he is useless… and/or you simply observe your feelings towards him… these are the feelings that are going to become your experience (not theirs!). What you say and feel will be the dynamic that tells your “ability to make things happen” become what you have just set in motion.
Woman: speaking to your experience and potential
Every woman is a mirror of your female energy. The words you speak are a direct instruction to your ability to intend what experience you would like to have. That said just imagine this as example. Every time you tell a woman she is crazy, she is a nag, she is selfish, she is not enough… and/or you simply observe your feelings towards her… these are the feelings that are going to become your experience (not theirs!). What you say and feel will be the dynamic that tells your “ability to experience” become what you have set in motion by your words and feelings.
Your precise words to people are going to be the precise words that define your experiences and your dynamics in life. Now you have a very selfish reason to treat everyone in a completely different way.
6. Stop quitting and doubting
In my book Power Surge where I introduce you to your own Matrix, I give you a great visual introduction to your Crew. Your crew being a department of security men in your mind who sit monitoring your thoughts and words. They give your physical reality permission (or not) to activate changes in your life. Your crew are monitoring everything and if you could see how many thoughts and feelings are consumed by the idea of quitting or that things won’t change…. I conclude (based on what I myself have experienced and heard from others) you would be shocked.
This alone is one of the key reasons why all your hard work and commitments to plans and making changes don’t pay off. The improvements are still sitting right beside you in the etheric realms waiting excitedly to be experienced. Stay committed to cleaning up your mouth and your emotions and you will see breathrough!
7. Be aware of your assignment and true nature
You were born on purpose with a unique mission, if there was anyone like you then you would be irrelevant. No life form was created by God without a specific purpose. You have been given strengths and passions and they are key to your divine fulfillment. The problem is that noone showed you how to pursue this early on in life so you have become a melange of fraudulent, schizophrenic expressions of yourself without knowing it. You may even be working in a career you hate or criticising other people for the same values that you actually have!
Know that although life on Earth will be difficult at times, unhappiness, struggle and unfulfillment is not your destiny! Difficulty will ensue because as you pursue improvements the old paradigm has to break down to make way for the new. It is the not the change that is difficult it is our reluctance and resistance to letting go because we fear what we can’t see and what will replace it. That is why I strive to help you feel in control by sharing more about your power. The more you are able to see the possibility and retain faith because of your understanding of how physical reality manifests, the more you will feel in control.
Sometimes we recognise who we are and what we love by the things that we aren’t or don’t like. That is always a great place to start… and aswell as my ebook on Self Discovery which will help you define your assignment, you will find many articles on my blog that will give you great confidence and support to be the amazing person you were created to be… and have all the kinds of people you like love and respect your desires, opinions and wishes to boot!
If every human being claims responsibility for what it is happening to them and stops looking out at the world and feeling their experiences are because of someone or something else.. the vibrations of the Earth would experience a phenomenal change the like of which we can’t even imagine. It all starts with “me”… not “them”. This is the way for your life to receive the full power of any changes you are making. Whilst you entertain thoughts or emotions suggesting your circumstances are because of someone else or something else, your power is rendered useless.
Computers: In love with yourself or getting nowhere fast?For years I was frustrated at why I spent so much of my time having to learn about webpages and source code so I could help my husband in our business. One day in a moment of explosive frustration my husband shouts "Aaaarrggh I wish humans were more like computers!" I laughed. "They work exactly like computers" I replied.
Discover your true nature through your favourite dogOur true, natural, divine traits that show us the path to our prosperity and potential are written into everything we are attracted to. Look more closely at your favourite dog breed and how you feel about dogs to discover more about your path to success.
Business Owners - Are you clear about your product?Many business owners are so involved in the business strategies and daily running that they fail to discover what their real product is. Perhaps this is you? Your product is not art, meditation, books, computers, cars, supplements, therapy, etc. These descriptions are your process. The reason why your customer is motivated to part with their hard earned money is because they foresee a specific benefit in their life, are you defining these and promoting them?
Your prosperity formula, who attracts you?Here is an exercise to help you get clear about your unique path to living a prosperous fulfilling life. You might want to get a piece of paper just to help you see yourself in print. What we are doing with this exercise is re-cognising you with your divine, unique personality. This exercise demonstrates how you are attracted to that which you are. Who you truly are is your winning formula.
What does a woman 's menstrual cycle have to do with your life?Male and female 'nature' tell you how to win and what we must go through. We are all male and female inside. We manifest in separate genders so we can see the true characteristics so we know how to 'marry' them within. However we never got the manual and so prosperity gets held back as we muddle through! One prosperity signpost is reflected in women bleeding every month. Woman represents potential. In pursuing our full potential we can expect to bleed regularly, it main be painful and vary depending on our lifestyle... but it will pass. What happens though when the bleeding doesn't stop?
For decades I believed that life was fair and that we are all equal, probably but it was one of those things I assumed without really digging deeper. The laws of nature work for everyone but the laws are not the problem, we are. Nor do we change when we have had enough pain, this is nonsense. Pain sends us inward wanting to pull back from life. Only joy and pictures of happines motivate us to put in effort; we are not stupid. A person changes because they have glimpsed something that has them imagining, tasting that life can change. That is the pivotal point at which they act... not pain!
Fulfillment and prosperity can often delude us because our perspective is upside down. Prosperity comes to us as we put our genius out into the world to deliver and free others. As we seed our gifts into others’ our life will become more fulfilling and prosperous. If you don’t know about this process, the confusion can cause you to miss the mark not only in your own career/business but in other people’s gift in your life. Sometimes we must see the master and perfection in our own behaviour before we feel worthy to help others… this is completely upside down.
Prosperity Test – How’s your vision?
Exercise 1 – Didn’t find the bone?
Wilko’s bone was right at the bottom of the page near the footer.
I asked if you could find Wilko’s bone but I did not say it was in the picture. What you glean from this which is exciting is that it shows how you assume things in a sentence that are not there. This can help you dramatically because it means you are wasting so much time and energy in your life in places where you don’t need to. When you are listening or reading focus on exactly what is being said or required of you. This will bring you fully into the ‘now’ and you will notice the truth of what is being said instead of an assumption which leads to disasters.
If we step back from the detail and see this as an ‘attitude’ it means that you are looking at your life and assuming too many things which could more easily slip into place. For example, you may be seeding energy into relationships that are actually, if you listen, are telling you they will never be fruitful (or at least they are saying something needs to change for them to bear fruit).
Are you a business owner?
This vision distortion is particularly prevalent if you are are running a business. So many business owners assume too much about customers based on their own perspective. If you are a business owner and you were searching the picture for Wilko’s bone then it means you need to stop and ask some serious questions about your product, mission and potential customers… be excited, you have been losing out and now you can plug leaks in your resources and profits!!
Listen and read carefully
This is an area that causes so much devastation, not least in relationships where we read so much more than what was actually said. In personal and business relationships a simple NO may mean “No thank you” but we might read “No I don’t like you” or “No, your product is useless“.
Also when we go online we don’t follow instructions clearly which is why sometimes the buying process can become a problem… we assume too much and start clicking away and end up frustrated.
Exercise 2 – How did you re-write the paragraph?
First of all, count the words in your re-written version.
There were originally 99 words. However, in essence you could have reduced the paragraph more precisely down to 5 WORDS… I WILL CLEAN MY HOUSE.
Compare the number of words you used to the original 99. Knowing that 5 would have been the most effective, look at the number to see whether are not getting to the point of your life effectively enough. Are you are still spending too much resources doing things that could be done much quicker or easier.
Let us look at that paragraph again so you see the point.
“I, Annemarie Doolin do solemnly declare that I will spring clean my house from top to bottom. I am going to clean every room. I will throw out everything that I do not use anymore or have not used in the last year. I will not stop until it is thoroughly done. I will take out all the furniture so there are no spaces that I miss. I will polish, hoover and remove any marks using whatever it takes to remove any stains and marks. I will clean the windows inside and out. I am committed to doing this.”
- Annemarie Doolin and I are the same (waste of words)
- if I am going to clean my house, declaring it is a waste of time, I will either do it or not;
- clean my house means top to bottom;
- clean my house means clean every room;
- clean my house implies that I will get rid of anything no longer needed;
- clean my house means I will not stop until it is thoroughly done (otherwise I have not cleaned, only part-cleaned)
- clean my house means I will not miss any spaces so I need to move the furniture;
- clean my house means I will polish and hoover and remove any marks;
- clean my house includes my windows which are part of my house.
Words create or deconstruct
This is a great exercise because it helps us look at what we waste time not only doing, but expressing. The bible is very clear that “Life and death are in the power of the tongue” in that our words are catalysts for bringing experiences into reality based on the words we utter. That said, can you imagine what is starting to grow through all the hoards of unnecessary and useless conversations we have all day. You will never rise higher in life than the words that come out of your mouth.
Not only when you are speaking but when you are writing emails, think about how to get to the point fast and revise whether you have asked for the information (and not assumed). So many times I hear people say “they haven’t gotten back to me yet!”.. so I always ask “Did you ask a question that prompts a reply… and did you say when you would like them to get back to you by?“
For life to be precise and effective, we must be precise and effective. We have never lived in such a time when “less is more” is more appropriate to take heed of. We are getting sucked into too many things daily that quite frankly are just a waste of time.
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One of the ways to get a revelation on what you truly believe about yourself (as opposed to what you assume you believe) is to download a copy of Home Your Wealth… you will be surprised how many fantastic changes you can make with simple changes in your home. Your home can show you many blind spots about yourself you missed – is now a good time to power them up?
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