Secrets Blocking Your Success

Posted on October 5th, 2009 Annemarie Doolin 1 comment

For the last twenty five years, I’ve explored so many areas of metaphysics and spirituality. Bearing in mind what’s available today, you can imagine how many CDs, books, tapes etc. by the world’s highly regarded masters, I have stored away.

‘Stored away’ being the point!

As life’s becoming more and more successful, I’m digging them all out of the cupboard and doing the exercises. Now, if you knew how much I loathe ‘exercises’ you will wonder at what happened…and why am I doing them now, the time I’m on a roll so to speak, instead of the time I really needed them?

Point is, I didn’t get it. I’ve come across some amazing material. Every time I find something awesome, I put the kettle on and jump online to tell the world and her uncle. Did I put what I read into practice myself? Heck No!

Suddenly the word ‘dumb’ is coming to mind. I know I’m not stupid, so what’s the deal? How come, during those times when life really sucked, I told the world about my pile of lifechanging stuff and yet didn’t use it myself…just left it in a cupboard?

Many years back, in one of Jim Rohn’s seminars he expressed how puzzled he was that despite people paying $6,000 to attend the seminar, they didn’t go out and buy the one book he recommended in the seminar.

Similarly, years later, I invested in Paul McKenna’s hypnosis collection. I was experiencing a great deal of stress working for a bunch of Investment Bankers on the Trading Floor in London.

I was amazed by the results I experienced from the tapes, they worked! I was even excited about going in to work. My lungs were pumping up and down as if by magic, (go figure, it was fantastic!).

I was breathing as if I was totally relaxed although the job was very pressured and my head was saying I was stressed. Did I continue the tapes…No! (OK, that ‘dumb’ word is popping up again..)

Years later I invested in The Sedona Method. Again, I had the most amazing experience in turning my emotions around. Did I continue doing the exercises…No!

Now, my educational background has proven that I am operating at above normal intelligence levels so why on Earth didn’t I continue with something that was working. God knows I needed the help, life sucked in the most miserable way.

I pondered on this for some time and have come to realise that on some level I was actually afraid of being successful. I gave myself an even harder time because I was very ‘aware’ in terms of consciousness. I already knew the resistance was only the energetic matrix of the physical body, doing its best to hang on to the thought pattern as protection…based on the premise that “if I let go of this, what will replace it“. I knew that, and yet I was resisting with all force.

I have no doubt that Jim Rohn already knows one of the reasons why people don’t buy the book. It’s too easy. Paying $6,000 keeps the “no pain, no gain” programme in place right?

If you buy the book, you might get rid of the programme that life can be easy. You might get rid of the fear of being successful and have it all. Well, let’s face it, you haven’t had any practice at having all your dreams realised, how do you know you will handle it?

This explains one of the reasons why, when I needed the hypnosis tapes, I was reluctant to continue to listen to them. Studies have concluded that 83% of our belief systems are controlled by our unconscious mind and it is those programmes which continue to maintain allegiance to the disbelief that we can have it all.

Now I am enjoying life and have so many enriching and successful projects going on, I have no problem devoting an hour a day to listen to the tapes, I actually get excited about it. I wonder what new opportunities are going to present themselves after each session. Success attracts success.

The bizarre thing is that once you actually use the material and actually get into the habit of seeing things through, you end up cutting thousands of corners that you envisaged as potential hurdles before you got started.

You don’t need to go look for your next step, the information will come knocking on your door. The irony about success is that it comes more easily and smoothly than you can imagine when you are in that darker, disillusioned place.

As well as the your misguided beliefs and attitudes about success conditioned by society, you genetically inherit a considerable bunch of programmes from your parents. Effectively you came into the world with a few concrete blocks around your neck before you even start walking.

You know what, success is the easy part. It’s living with lack and limitation which is the hard part – and you’ve already mastered that right, so you’ve got everything to gain!

Grab it with both hands. Your success is already there for you. Instead of doubting your success, simply ask “where” is it.

If you want life to improve, start following up some of those emails that are dropping into your email box from people who have achieved the results you are looking for…release that habit to press the “move to folder” button so quickly. Keep them current, explore them and take some action NOW.

Use the concept of NOW to release any fear and resistance

Speaking about the “NOW”, we humans tend to perceive time as linear . We imagine from where we are now, the future is some point visualised to the right, ahead of us, or extending behind us.

Everything happens in the NOW. Everything is happening simultaneously in the same location. Simply put, the day on which you read this, you term as “today” right? Imagine the same date ten years from now. When you reach that day, will you be in tomorrow or yesterday, or will it be still referred to as “today”. Yes, it will be “today”. You are always in the NOW. Even ten years on, you will still be in “today”.

How does this help?

Taking the premise that everything exists in the NOW, the future has already happened. You have already achieved everything you wanted. Therefore, you have already secured the information, the skills and the experiences you need to make it happen.

So what are you afraid of? You already have what you want within your consciousness! Whatever you are dreaming about, writing a book, living with your dream partner, securing a great marketing campaign, taking on new staff, branding a new product, setting up your own business…you’ve already done it, you’ve got a clear run. Doesn’t that put things in a better perspective.

Trust yourself, you will never let yourself down. After all, you were already born a winner. Do you know how many souls were vying for that body you are in now? And guess who won? How can you fail when you have already won? Seriously, take a moment and really GET this. You won against huge odds.

One last word before you do, make it as easy as possible. No matter how hard things seem from where you are at this moment, you can change it. Don’t dismiss it on the premise of its easy therefore it can’t work, or there’s a catch.

I have spent thousands and thousands of pounds over the past 25 years looking for very effective and easier ways to create success. It would not have been uncommon for me to take a two hour flight for a one hour healing session. That was before I discovered a more remarkably easy way to magnetise my success which I put into my book ‘Power Surge‘.

“When the solution is simple, God is answering” –Albert Einstein

I don’t believe that everyone in this Universe is destined to live a wealthy life, if we all chose a richer life, practically speaking, the world would probably cease to function.

Earth is, as many sources conclude, a Free Will zone. Simply a place to have an “experience”. I am guessing if you are reading this you have decided a rich experience would be more fun. Boy are you in for a surprise as to what’s possible – I’m embarrassed to admit how hard and how lacking I allowed my life to be before I started following my heart full-time.

Whatever’s in those pipe dreams…take some action today, you deserve to have it all

Your blocks to success are staring you in the face in the form of people, places or objects (from the country you live in to the pen on your desk)…your success is calling out to you. Unleash your wealth frequencies with ease, anyone can do it, get a closer look at your scripts… reveal the secrets now!

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Posted on October 9th, 2008 Annemarie Doolin No comments

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Champagne in the limo - having fun whilst attracting prosperity

Your success and prosperity is going to be affected by what you are in the presence of. Where your body goes your mind goes. Where your emotions go, your life goes. I know in my own life that I was always working towards this day when everything would come together but did not take time out to ENJOY moments. As my life was full of ‘work, stress, looking at what I didn’t want, looking at what I couldn’t afford’… I was just attracting more of it. Experience has shown me that the more I love myself and seek enjoyable experiences, the more easily solutions find their way to me.

Success: You become the company you keep

Relationships with successful people

Take an inventory of the people you generally hang around. Consider yourself a reflection of their attitudes, finances, ability to enjoy life. Are they people who don’t feel in control, always gossiping, talking about limitation and thinking small or encouraging you to be prosperous and think big? Look around at those people you spend time with and ask yourself whether they reflect the qualities you are looking for in yourself and your life. If you are a business owner this is even more prevalent. Keep in mind that you are in control and your are master of your own destiny so don’t lie to yourself and keep negative situations around you. Take conscious control of your relationships.

Although I don’t open every email from those successful people whose newsletters I subscribe to, I keep them in my outlook box with a conscious attention that I like having their prosperity consciousness within my computer. If I opened them all I would have no day left and would get distracted by I like them hanging out with me!

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No matter how old you are, you are aware of day dreams you have or urges that have you thinking about things you are passionate about.

Take my example. I was day dreaming about ways I could help people with my own brand of genius and I used to day dream about teaching people but the fear of public speaking paralysed me. I stayed in a job as a secretary years and years after I already knew in my heart I could do something much more rewarding.

Successful people follow their heart rather than following survival. What you are scared to do is your unique insight into where your growth lies. I am not saying that for me it came overnight in fact I spent years on healing and hypnosis to get over my fear but the place to start is acknowledging what fear is holding you back and at least be real with yourself in affirming that you will do what your day dreams are prompting. If you conclude that you don’t know what you truly want, start by looking at what you don’t want to do and then observe what situation comes up that identifies a fear because that is the obstacle capping your success and real joy.

If you don’t take the decision, you cannot bring along the right circumstances and the right time when you will master your fears. You also need to let go of your agenda of how and when this will happen, simply make sure you be honest with yourself otherwise you will never discover your true self (way to your divine prosperity)

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All your personal spaces (i.e. spaces YOU have control over such as your home, office, holiday home) are more significant than you know. The inside of your personal spaces are an exact and precise mirror of your psyche and how you describe the space, use the space, maintain the space and live in the space reveals the truth about who you are Being and show you why success, abundance and prosperity still eludes you despite how much you invest in self improvement and healing.

A living room is not just a living room it is an Aladdin’s cave of self-exploration! Even a carpet in that room can reveal truths that years of healing and piles of self growth books have left wanting.

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Define what you want and PROVE you want it! My partner joked about owning a Ferrari but when we actually talked about going to test drive and buy one, he realised he didn’t really want a Ferrari he wanted a Mercedes McLaren! My experience of working with business owners is that they assume or borrow common accepted ideas of what they should be aspiring to achieve but it can be a long way from what they truly want.

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On the top deck!!

Even if you are working hard and taking action, if you are not in a place ‘to receive’ you can miss the boat. Where you are in your heart, your mind and your physical location matter – you need to be ‘happy’ and ‘having fun’ – balance is important. Sometimes it simply takes a change in perspective like getting away, to see solutions – I had more ideas for a seminar whilst cruising the Virgin Islands than sitting at home ‘pushing’ myself.

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All areas of your life… your health, your bank account, your relationship, your work are exactly and precisely interconnected. When you are not in control of one, you are not in control of any. That is why there is so much focus on our body weight, shape, image etc. The fact is that the only thing we can control is our body and so when we don’t feel in control (the obvious example being out of shape), we take this feeling of ‘out of control’ into every situation.

Peter, (Lost 26Kgs(60lbs) in 4 months)

Annemarie Doolin... in control! Being fit is part of a successful plan

Do that which you think you cannot do… change all those things which cause you unhappiness. For every problem you experience, there’s already a solution. Reduce weight and gain shape, fulfilling relationships, fulfilling career, business success ONE STOP SUCCESS.