Illusion about success that overwhelms usSuccessful living is more of an illusion than maybe you realise… we assume it is harder, requires more effort, more time and more energy to achieve change than is actually required. If you have read Power Surge or Home Your Wealth, you will now understand how the Matrix around you is effecting everything… your bank account effects your career which effects your relationships, which effects your health which effects your sense of joy and peace. *** Right now, ONE change in ONE area of your living is going to effect everything else, it has to, it’s science. Science is no respecter of people, opinions or backgrounds. Consider ONE circumstance in your life right now that is bothering you (don’t dwell on it), just DECIDE which one poses the most concern. Got it in mind (if your emotions haven’t already tugged at it)? Successful Solution to the ProblemTIP 1: Don’t seek advice from someone who has not achieved a successful experience in this area. Not because the advice they give might not be good but simply because if they haven’t created a result it means something in them was held back from taking the advice and you want to receive from a situation holding the vibration you are looking to activate in your own life. TIP 2: Claim now that there is a solution however know that the solution only exists where the problem is. So taking for example the worry about money, money is not the problem, what you want the money for is the problem and this is the area where the breakthrough lies. TIP 3: A solution DOES EXIST without having to use money! TIP 4: Don’t take any action until you are clear WHY you are taking the action you are. Be clear about what you are intending to achieve. Too much time and energy is wasted because people don’t get clear about the mission and launch off into desperate activity just because it is the first thing they think of. Stop and use your brain to be creative, think like a chessboard, how can I achieve this with as few moves as possible (bearing in mind, ‘moves’ on a chessboard incurr resources such as time, money and energy in life. TIP 5: Check your thoughts about what you intend to take action on. Do you actually believe it will work? If not, why not? The thoughts will give you a clue to the breakthrough. Don’t fool yourself that anything is going to be fruitful if you don’t believe it. One great way to test this is to reflect on what pictures come to mind when you think of the solution and that will give you a pretty good idea of what you perceive the outcome as being. Question is, does it look good or is it fraught with complication? Keep sorting through the possibilities until you can find PEACE that this can work. TIP 6: If your solution requires the help or participation of other people then you better make sure you communicate lovingly and take into action their needs. If they are not happy, you will not get what you want (fundamental lesson about humans).. Nobody will listen to anything you have to say until they sense that you care… watch your words, tone, attitude, have you communicated CLEARLY what you would like from them and make sure they get to know how it benefits them. Your Potential is Phenomenal. Prove it to yourself.Take a decision today about an area you are going to resolve and gain control over. A substantial force of destruction in our experiences is believing that we are not control or feeling overwhelmed by situations we don’t we believe we can… but we can more easily than we realise. It’s just that we oftentimes don’t even get started. This is why the industry of fashion, nutrition and weight control is so considerable. The only thing we actually own is our body and mind. When we look in the mirror or feel ‘not in control’ everything else is effected by this mindset and the knock-on effect is massive. Taking a situation that we feel powerless to resolve and creating a successful outcome creates a magnificent release inside us that changes our physiology and leaves us feeling we can master other things. Success is simply a number of small situations we have gained control over, ONE BY ONE. EVERYTHING ABOUT THIS ONE PROBLEM HOLDS THE KEY to why all the other problems exist. Solve this ONE and you make huge discoveries about yourself and your power. Recommendation: No matter what you decide, start clearing and cleaning your home and personal spaces such as your office. It is far more relevant than you realise. It costs you time but it is worth it on fundamental levels of your subconscious. If you really want to see how deep the transformation can go, get yourself a copy of Home Your Wealth now and get started on your metamorphosis right away.
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Archive for Illusion
Success Indicator: The Why Syndrome
I believe I will be successful, I think!
If I say your life will become what you believe you will probably say that you know that.
If I say you don’t believe what you think you believe you might ask how so?
For the last ten years I have worked closely with entrepreneurs. People who want to start their own business and want to improve the quality of their lives and have more control.
What I have discovered is that they constantly prove over and over that what they fundamentally say they believe is actually not the case and it comes as a shocking surprise to many.
Discovering this illusion about themselves proves very exciting because once they see this they can then make some adjustments to their 16 Hour power slot (from my book Power Surge).
How do you affirm what you truly believe?
Well the fact is that your mind contains billions of differing possibilities about what you believe based on all the pieces of information that have been fed to you through your eyes and ears. So it’s not a case of trying to go through your mind thought by thought, you would end up in an asylum.
Life as it is for you is presently your dominant beliefs.
Taking a very simplistic example, this means that if there are one billion thoughts suggesting you can get in shape and there are one billion and one thoughts suggesting you can’t then it means that everything will conspire to make sure you can’t.
The outside must prove the inside because it is the place from which it takes its instructions.
Successful breakthrough, using why
Whatever you do and whatever you put resources to whether it be time, money or energy, always ask a fundamental question:-
Why am I doing this?
You may find that you have to keep asking until you reach the core motivation behind your impulse to do it.
Example:
“I need to make some extra money so we can have a holiday.”
WHY?
“Because we really need to get away.”
WHY?
“Because me and my wife and have been arguing a lot lately and the break will do us good.”
WHY are you arguing?
“When we are busy we have less time to think about the other person and we end up snapping and communicating badly.”
Why will a holiday fix this?
“Because we will have time to be nice to each other.”
FACT: The holiday will heal the sores from the bad mouthing each other but unless the ‘busy ness’ is resolved everything will happen again when the holiday is over.
FACT: The solution ALWAYS LIES EXACTLY WHERE THE PROBLEM IS.
Once you have listened to your WHY? always check your facts as well so you can decide what is the best solution and whether the solution you see is actually based on fact or just an idea that you think can work!
Never assume because your life experience is too precious
Checking Your Facts – example
“It’s time to change the design of my business website.”
WHY?
“Because my sales have gone done.”
WHY do you think the drop in sales is the website?
“Because maybe people are tired and want something new.”
WHY do you think they are tired and want something new?
“Because I’m tired of it so they must be! “***Aha the real motivation!***
FACT: Sales were UP with this website
FACT: No customers were asked their opinion to justify the change.
FACT: The words that come from your mouth. “Because I’m tired of it…”
Now, having established that you feel tired of your website this can be a valid reason for change. If you don’t believe this site will sell any more then it will EFFECT the outcome.
However, considering you have now discovered the true motivation for changing your site, you could find yourself able to change ‘your feelings… of being tired of it’ now you know the facts.
The reason for asking yourself questions is that you get the words directly from your database and you need to listen verbatim in every occasion. Your words are life and death to your experience.
Laws of nature; children always ask why!
Asking why has always been an essential part of our natural design. We start as children with a pure formula for prosperity. We are free to believe anything is possible. If you have children or remember being a child you will note that children start out by asking WHY? to everything…. everything! There is a crucial reason. To train ourselves to know why we are doing things so we can control ourselves (and our prosperity).
However, a child, though able to dream up a sports car that can go to outer space, cannot buy one. The child in you has exercised its right to be creative and dream but the practical part of actually owning the car has to come from the adult.
So, we grow up and can now independently open a bank account and can go to the car showroom without being accompanied by a guardian and can legitimately drive the car away (having passed our driving test).
Great Plan!
However what tends to happen is that once we grow up, the WHY? training has been knocked out of us by adults who, when asked the question “Why is it green mum?” tend to dismiss us the more we ask. Or we got a simple “Because!”
It becomes apparent that asking why is not popular at an age when we are most sensitive to tone, vibrations and are most vulnerable in general. Children know when adults are not happy and as a child is trained to pursue happiness, it is easier to stop asking.
Then as we grow up, our world gets busier. The why is forgotten about and chaos ensues. The more unhappiness ensues the more we think life won’t get better, the more we invest in all kinds of vices and self-development material in a desperate plea to rid ourselves of our unhappy situations…
…but asking WHY? can rock your world, literally!
What will I discover by asking why?
- You are busy with things that will never bring a reward;
– You don’t want the things you think you want;
– Your actions are actually the opposite of what you say you want;
– You can cut out a great deal of activity and investment you don’t need to do.
The Bible states a clear path to prosperity…
“Except ye become as little children, ye will not enter the Kingdom of Heaven.”
“If you stop the natural behaviour of the child within you, you will not prosper.”
The Universal Creator made us on purpose, stages of our lives were created ‘on purpose’… child, adolescent, adult, senior. Each stage holds keys to what we need to carry forward to the next stage to enlarge our joy and prosperity.
Today ask WHY? to everything no matter how obvious you THINK it is. You will be shocked and enlightened.
Success Principle: Serve or Suffer
Serv(ice) or Suffer – Success or MiseryIt is becoming overly apparent that the miserable experiences that have been happening within our lives have been happening because we have misunderstood ‘how’ to make joyful experiences happen. Life is essentially an illusion but it has taken us the best part of the last century to discover this… but now we know! The ways we have tried to fix the problems could never really have worked. One of the fundamental illusions is that we have not understood that we must ‘give to get’ because our giving is a concrete demonstration to the creative force of how SERIOUS we are about this activity (if you have read Power Surge then I remind you about your Crew). Let’s use ‘business’ as an example to demonstrate this principle. A business’ success is dependent on how many ‘satisified’ customers it can secure. The income from any business is presently in the hands of customers and they will not part with that money until you have offered something to them to add to the benefit of their life. Furthermore, if that benefit continues to be on offer and satisfies all the customers’ needs in terms of availability, price, delivery, adding more pleasure to the person’s life… then an exchange is secured and will continue. The reason why I use business as an example is because it gives us an opportunity to detach and look objectively at this life changing principle.
We want more from life but we are not prepared to give more and I hasten to jump in here quickly and stop you from imagining ‘giving more’ requires anything more than you already have. This is a total MISCONCEPTION BY YOU. The Universal Bank works on the principle that you will attract that which you are. If you are a ‘taker’, the outside world will constantly ‘take’ from you. If you are sitting evaluating whether you believe yourself to be a taker or a giver, make sure that when you take into account your actions you include your thoughts and feelings ASWELL (this might change the picture somewhat!). So many times we give a material resource but what we are truly thinking and feelings could be in complete contradiction! You have the opportunity to start a new life today. Forget the past, let it go, what’s good about it will pay off anyway, start afresh and here’s how:- 1. Be a radical giver of your time, energy and resources. Let go of waiting until everything is perfect. 2. The Universe can only work with a channel initiated BY YOU. It doesn’t matter what that channel is.. it could be a conversation, a thought, a flyer, a letter, an email, a gift, a helping hand. Treat every resource you have which you can serve someone as a bag of magic dust. Stop deciding whether you think it is good enough or perfect enough. You have absolutely NO IDEA what the universe can do with it but if you don’t do anything we can determine what the Universe will do with it! BIGGEST MISTAKE YOU MAKE EVERY DAY We fail to serve the world on a daily basis because generally speaking we are too self absorbed. Our daily lives are focused on taking care of ourselves so we do not serve. Not sure? Well think about what you did with your time, energy and resources yesterday. Was it all about you??? Let me provoke your conclusions and offer a little to help to get clearer about your level of service:- Breakfast – YOU Children? You might argue that even the children are not about you but if you sit down and get real about this you will find that ultimately whatever you did it was ultimately intended to make you feel good. Did you go next door and offer to look after the neighbour’s children??? If not, ask why and you will see that it is because they are not yours right? You think working a job is serving? Ask the question that if your company didn’t pay you would you still go in? No? Then really the motivation is your pay check… i.e. you again. Even if we think about serving whether it is a friend or in business, we get caught up in the ‘where this will go’ and this is NOT your domain, this is where the corruption in your efforts occurs. If you have a business you have already experienced this I am sure. THE DESTRUCTION IN PERFECTION Maybe you are looking at your internet business and you are not putting out resources into the public domain to serve because you feel it’s not good enough. You are waiting until you have studied all the internet materials, you need to understand how to gleen millions in traffic, and you can’t put up your site because you haven’t figured out how to capture all the customer details… and on and on it goes. So guess what… nothing happens. * You share nothing; WHAT IS GOING TO RADICALLY TRANSFORM EVERYTHING FOR YOU. Imagine the Universal Creative Force as Big Brother. All the Big Guy is doing is STUDYING THE NATURE OF YOUR THOUGHT, YOUR FEELING AND WHETHER THERE WAS A PHYSICAL ACTIVITY and then he is going to mirror this back to your reality in the form of your experience. Your level of service determines how much you want to be served. The creative force matches your efforts and before you fall into that trap again of concluding what you consider ‘effort’ to mean, I remind you that the effort to send an email containing a sincere, heart felt compliment when you want to complain is CONSIDERABLE so don’t dismiss its power. Attitude is something we choose and is totally under our control. Adopt a totally non-selfish attitude to having all your selfish needs met. You might even want to play the most powerful game you can play for the most exciting stakes??? What game? From the moment you get up, clock as many acts of service as you can (without counting the cost to you or more importantly, trying to figure out where the return will come or whether it will make a difference… …because even if you do try to figure it out, your possibilities will be very limited compared to what can come if you just get out of the way. But remember… the universe has access to your thoughts and feelings… your focus is “How can I help you with everything I have?”.. if you have a specific expectation in return, forget it, you just lost a point! GIVING IS A DYNAMIC WITH NO EXPECTATIONS ATTACHED. Many people think they have grasped this but I can see from behaviour that they haven’t. It means once you have offered up (a compliment, something material, or some activity) you must leave it alone. NO analysis. Serve and you will be served. Do unto others what you would have done unto you. It is a scientific based formula which means there are no exceptions, no background, education or financial requirements that block it from happening to you.
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