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Prosperity spotted in your relationships

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Relationships mirror alignment to abundance

How does your relationships determine your prosperity?

In short, your relationships show you the relationship within yourself and for prosperity to flow the dynamic must be reflect what prosperity stands for…

…a thriving, flourishing condition.

OK so what does that mean?


Well, beyond the fundamental understanding that thriving and flourishing means giving something nourishment, the detail is for you to decide. Desire is essentially what makes us happy and that is personal.

What kind of home life, partner, career, body image suits you?

You decide. But whatever you decide you must have it going on in your life in both sides of you.

What both sides of my self are we talking about?

The two sides of you are your power and your potential. In short, your ability to make something actually happen and then the quality of the experience within it.

To give you an example, that means the ability to manifest a car and then the experience of owning that car (is it easy to pay for, maintained well, serve all your lifestyle needs?)

How do I see if I am on course for a successful outcome?

Well that’s simple.

Any relationship with a man is reflecting your relationship to your power (making it happen);

Any relationship with a woman is reflecting your relationship to your potential (your experience).

How do I power them up for success and prosperity?


Every time you are UPSET with a man or a woman you ask:

What exactly am I upset about and listen to the precise words;

Is this something I am doing I need to stop doing or do more of?;

Is it effecting my power (a man) or my potential (a woman)?

The goal must be PEACE. It doesn’t matter whether they still behave badly (as you see it) or not, the destruction that is blocking your manifestation power is the ‘upset’ you FEEL.

Example

Your husband is always late home for dinner.

I am upset because “I feel disrespected”

I disrespect myself and need to stop, my actions must match my needs.

It is a man so every time I get upset I stop things on my dream list ‘happening’

Decision to be successful and turn on my flow of abundance

I will use my words carefully to help my husband see how it’s in his interest to arrive home on time

or…

I will simply let it go, I know he works hard and is doing his best.

Either way, you MUST resolve the emotional upset. While you are upset your energies are at war… they are completely repelling like two north pole magnets trying to be pushing towards each other… one part of you is saying yes and the other no. This means you stay exactly where you are.

This energy dynamic is showing us moment by moment what we need to work on. We are constantly asking complicated questions, buying more books and courses whilst the answer we are looking for is coming at us during our day.

Every person in your world is attracted by you and playing out a role which is happening within you. Walking away is not the solution. See what they are showing you, take action to learn and gain peace…

… all the other stuff going on is because of these upsets. Don’t fool yourself it is because of the economy, your job, you married the wrong woman, your upbringing, the culture you live in, because you have children.

You have the power to change it NOW.

Does more flow in prosperity require radical change?

Yes. However understand what radical means. It means a complete shift in direction… extreme change from accepted or traditional forms…

…not exhaustive amounts of energy, money and life-changing upheaval!

Example

Instead of expressing anger at my wife because my dinner isn’t ready as I walked through the door as we agreed…

I decide to take a deep breath, claim the fact that she loves me, perhaps she had a very busy or a difficult day and hurting her will not help either of us. Perhaps I will ask her how her day went and get the facts before I assume her day should have been all about me! If she feels bad I lose!

These moments are the moments when you will rock the very fabric of your life but we are missing them.

Why?

Because we are too busy and too unhappy.

Why?

Because we are not maintaining prosperity in the moments we have. They are full of upset, anger, frustration, stress, disillusionment and assuming the worst.

Look at the people you interact with daily and see where you are ‘repelling your prosperity’ by observing your emotional upset. It won’t go away, it is inside you so take control and channel it into love, acceptance and peace…

THEN you will see it show up in your work, finances, home, partnerships and a healthy body. What is even more exciting is that each of these aspects are precisely interconnected so if we empower one it has a dominoe effect on the other.

If you want to see how the outside is a perfect and precise mirror of everything inside of you and unblock your conflicts get yourself a copy of my ebook Power Surge










Prosperity attracted by your nutrition

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Your body and where it goes determines your prosperity.

Everything in your life right now has been attracted into forming itself that way due to what is in your mind. In other words, where your mind goes your physical reality goes.

As your mind and body are perfectly interconnected, this means that we can switch the relationship around and see that where your body (physical reality) goes your mind and emotions go.

That said, take a look at the situations in your life and see where you take your self (as opposed to where you think you are going!).

- How many situations are full of unhappiness and stress?
- What do you put in your mouth?

Exercise on how much prosperity you are attracting

Reflect over the last week and ask the two questions below. Look at why you did what you did and how you felt about them. Read my article on Success Indicator: The Why Syndrome

Did you observe how many things you did were:-

  • because you feel you don’t have a choice and feel out of control?
  • because you feel bad (particularly with regard to eating/drinking)?

Don’t avoid this exercise, you will learn so much about yourself.

  • We ask for prosperity but we don’t stop to think about what we are thinking when something we want to spend money on comes to mind;
  • We ask for more love but we don’t observe what we are thinking while we are talking or thinking about our partner;
  • We ask for better health, a lean body want to look and feel great but we eat low vibrational food, oversized portions which our body struggles to digest and don’t give our body all the nutrition it needs;
  • We ask for a career that fulfills us but fill our time with jobs we hate.

Don’t wait for prosperity, love and great health to come along, you have to bring it on. You bring it on by looking at your nutrition which means “giving your mind and body what it needs to sustain life and growth“…

…not survival and existence.

What does a prosperous day look like?

  • Being happy at the time you get up;
  • Eating a breakfast that nourishes your body (not your misery because you don’t want to go to work);
  • Doing a job that you are passionate about and one that doesn’t involve you travelling if you don’t enjoy it;
  • Spending time talking to people who support ‘life can be good’ and not gossip, misery and doom and gloom; working with people who you can get along with;
  • Spending quality time with your children and feeling love while you do it; keep in mind that children are a sponge and pick up all your emotions – you don’t fool them!) Please stop using children as an excuse for your unhappiness. If you didn’t have children it would be another excuse.

Do you want to know what you really believe about money, prosperity, love and happiness? Download yourself a copy of my ebook Home Your Wealth and observe through your home the truth about your have been thinking and feeling. There are eye opening breakthroughs in your sitting room right now! Read my article on Self Development Conference in your Sitting Room

Or download my ebook about your outside mirror, your emotions and the 16 Hour Formula in Power Surge

Stop feeling out of control

You have all the personal power in the world but it can only come from you and no-one is stopping you. Your breakthroughs are sitting in your details; it’s just another term for self development. Life got the way it did because you are doing the same unhappy, stressful, poor nutritional activities day after day. Divorce can be caused because the lid is left off the toothpaste day after day. Of course it is not the toothpaste lid that is the destruction, it is the dis-respect felt day after day that festers because it is not communicated clearly enough and resolved to cleanse the pain! So, the pain becomes intolerable and completely distorts our view sending our reality reeling into a mass of huge, costly changes causing more pain, money and energy that the initial investment to…

stop… look… think… and communicate lovingly.

Richer prosperity?

Please, think about what you put into your mouth, what you let out of your mouth and where you take your body. Never mind the past, simply take care of today and when you wake again tomorrow, start over again; the future will take care of itself. It really is that simple.

Secrets Blocking Your Success

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For the last twenty five years, I’ve explored so many areas of metaphysics and spirituality. Bearing in mind what’s available today, you can imagine how many CDs, books, tapes etc. by the world’s highly regarded masters, I have stored away.

‘Stored away’ being the point!

As life’s becoming more and more successful, I’m digging them all out of the cupboard and doing the exercises. Now, if you knew how much I loathe ‘exercises’ you will wonder at what happened…and why am I doing them now, the time I’m on a roll so to speak, instead of the time I really needed them?

Point is, I didn’t get it. I’ve come across some amazing material. Every time I find something awesome, I put the kettle on and jump online to tell the world and her uncle. Did I put what I read into practice myself? Heck No!

Suddenly the word ‘dumb’ is coming to mind. I know I’m not stupid, so what’s the deal? How come, during those times when life really sucked, I told the world about my pile of lifechanging stuff and yet didn’t use it myself…just left it in a cupboard?

Many years back, in one of Jim Rohn’s seminars he expressed how puzzled he was that despite people paying $6,000 to attend the seminar, they didn’t go out and buy the one book he recommended in the seminar.

Similarly, years later, I invested in Paul McKenna’s hypnosis collection. I was experiencing a great deal of stress working for a bunch of Investment Bankers on the Trading Floor in London.

I was amazed by the results I experienced from the tapes, they worked! I was even excited about going in to work. My lungs were pumping up and down as if by magic, (go figure, it was fantastic!).

I was breathing as if I was totally relaxed although the job was very pressured and my head was saying I was stressed. Did I continue the tapes…No! (OK, that ‘dumb’ word is popping up again..)

Years later I invested in The Sedona Method. Again, I had the most amazing experience in turning my emotions around. Did I continue doing the exercises…No!

Now, my educational background has proven that I am operating at above normal intelligence levels so why on Earth didn’t I continue with something that was working. God knows I needed the help, life sucked in the most miserable way.

I pondered on this for some time and have come to realise that on some level I was actually afraid of being successful. I gave myself an even harder time because I was very ‘aware’ in terms of consciousness. I already knew the resistance was only the energetic matrix of the physical body, doing its best to hang on to the thought pattern as protection…based on the premise that “if I let go of this, what will replace it“. I knew that, and yet I was resisting with all force.

I have no doubt that Jim Rohn already knows one of the reasons why people don’t buy the book. It’s too easy. Paying $6,000 keeps the “no pain, no gain” programme in place right?

If you buy the book, you might get rid of the programme that life can be easy. You might get rid of the fear of being successful and have it all. Well, let’s face it, you haven’t had any practice at having all your dreams realised, how do you know you will handle it?

This explains one of the reasons why, when I needed the hypnosis tapes, I was reluctant to continue to listen to them. Studies have concluded that 83% of our belief systems are controlled by our unconscious mind and it is those programmes which continue to maintain allegiance to the disbelief that we can have it all.

Now I am enjoying life and have so many enriching and successful projects going on, I have no problem devoting an hour a day to listen to the tapes, I actually get excited about it. I wonder what new opportunities are going to present themselves after each session. Success attracts success.

The bizarre thing is that once you actually use the material and actually get into the habit of seeing things through, you end up cutting thousands of corners that you envisaged as potential hurdles before you got started.

You don’t need to go look for your next step, the information will come knocking on your door. The irony about success is that it comes more easily and smoothly than you can imagine when you are in that darker, disillusioned place.

As well as the your misguided beliefs and attitudes about success conditioned by society, you genetically inherit a considerable bunch of programmes from your parents. Effectively you came into the world with a few concrete blocks around your neck before you even start walking.

You know what, success is the easy part. It’s living with lack and limitation which is the hard part – and you’ve already mastered that right, so you’ve got everything to gain! 

Grab it with both hands. Your success is already there for you. Instead of doubting your success, simply ask “where” is it.

If you want life to improve, start following up some of those emails that are dropping into your email box from people who have achieved the results you are looking for…release that habit to press the “move to folder” button so quickly. Keep them current, explore them and take some action NOW.

Use the concept of NOW to release any fear and resistance

Speaking about the “NOW”, we humans tend to perceive time as linear . We imagine from where we are now, the future is some point visualised to the right, ahead of us, or extending behind us.

Everything happens in the NOW. Everything is happening simultaneously in the same location. Simply put, the day on which you read this, you term as “today” right? Imagine the same date ten years from now. When you reach that day, will you be in tomorrow or yesterday, or will it be still referred to as “today”. Yes, it will be “today”. You are always in the NOW. Even ten years on, you will still be in “today”.

How does this help?

Taking the premise that everything exists in the NOW, the future has already happened. You have already achieved everything you wanted. Therefore, you have already secured the information, the skills and the experiences you need to make it happen.

So what are you afraid of? You already have what you want within your consciousness! Whatever you are dreaming about, writing a book, living with your dream partner, securing a great marketing campaign, taking on new staff, branding a new product, setting up your own business…you’ve already done it, you’ve got a clear run. Doesn’t that put things in a better perspective.

Trust yourself, you will never let yourself down. After all, you were already born a winner. Do you know how many souls were vying for that body you are in now? And guess who won? How can you fail when you have already won? Seriously, take a moment and really GET this. You won against huge odds.

One last word before you do, make it as easy as possible. No matter how hard things seem from where you are at this moment, you can change it. Don’t dismiss it on the premise of its easy therefore it can’t work, or there’s a catch.

I have spent thousands and thousands of pounds over the past 25 years looking for very effective and easier ways to create success. It would not have been uncommon for me to take a two hour flight for a one hour healing session. That was before I discovered a more remarkably easy way to magnetise my success which I put into my book ‘Power Surge‘.

“When the solution is simple, God is answering” –Albert Einstein

I don’t believe that everyone in this Universe is destined to live a wealthy life, if we all chose a richer life, practically speaking, the world would probably cease to function.

Earth is, as many sources conclude, a Free Will zone. Simply a place to have an “experience”. I am guessing if you are reading this you have decided a rich experience would be more fun. Boy are you in for a surprise as to what’s possible – I’m embarrassed to admit how hard and how lacking I allowed my life to be before I started following my heart full-time.

Whatever’s in those pipe dreams…take some action today, you deserve to have it all

Your blocks to success are staring you in the face in the form of people, places or objects (from the country you live in to the pen on your desk)…your success is calling out to you. Unleash your wealth frequencies with ease, anyone can do it, get a closer look at your scripts… reveal the secrets now!

Success is Held back By the Emotion of Guilt

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Success is held back by the emotion, guilt

No matter whether you study the philosophies laid down by religions or whether you study only the science of human nature… the one constant destructive force is ‘guilt’. Even psychiatrists will affirm that conditions can be resolved much more easily that is imagined if only they could get the person to let go of ‘guilt’ held towards the situation.

Most people have no idea how much guilt they carry around each moment of every day. Guilt about the past, what they’ve done, who they’ve been or not been, what they didn’t do… and why it blocks any fruitful activity in the present which is the only powerful place to effect anything that can come in the future.

The destiny imprinted into your cellular memory which is laying down an irrefutable design for your success is being held back because you will not let it be so. You cannot let yourself off the hook no matter how much you feign the attitude of ‘I’m OK!” Deep down inside you are harbouring a sledge hammer that is hammering you on the head more times than not. In fact, you are so used to it, you probably aren’t even aware of it… and you NEED to be.

Today all that can change!

How?

  1. Firstly you must sit down in a quiet place and be alone so you can feel the truth.
  2. Put your hand on your heart (demonstrating to your head that you are now listening to your feelings so be quiet!).
  3. Be still and ask yourself what bad feelings are you holding against yourself about?

Just to get the ball rolling, here are some things that may be an issue… I don’t spend enough time with family and friends, I should have been a better parent, I didn’t stick to the diet, I don’t act on my talents more, the business is suffering because that investment I thought was good didn’t pay off…

Keep these thumb rules in mind…

  • Bad feelings create bad experiences;
  • You are NOT perfect and never will be in the way you see things. You are a human being doing the best you can;
  • Happiness and peace will not come to you in the form of circumstances in your outer world UNTIL you find peace within yourself;
  • You are part of a phenomenally clever plan and some things you do were planned and will have a positive effect on your world… it’s just that you can’t see why it is so!
  • You are not in this world to achieve, you are here to enjoy your life and the reason why happiness does not come along so smoothly is simply because you are spending too much time beating yourself up about your past… everything you didn’t do, could have done, should have done, everything you think you aren’t, everything you think you need to be. STOP IT NOW! This was not why you were created and you are actually hurting the world by doing it. Give yourself a break (through!).

Pursue the activities that feel joyful, you are attracted to certain activities for a reason… those ideas were planted there in your design to guide you!

Did you know that statistically adults laugh 3 times per day and children, 150!! If you watch a child walk home from school you will notice they never walk in a straight line, they make it as fun as possible… and if you are now feeling guilty for not watching your children play because you were ‘too busy’… your children will not hold it against you, they are too busy looking for more fun! Children don’t suffer guilt they just grow up and then get sucked into the world of ‘grown ups’ and their habitual ‘guilt’ trips.

Perhaps you are sitting there reading this thinking that this sounds too simple to resolve your problems. Well think about this, how long have you been living the way you have and how long have things been the way they are?

GUILT is an emotion that is completely TOXIC. It is the reason why ‘easy’ and ‘feeling good’ does not show up so much in your life… it is the root of so much of sickness, disease, stuggle and hardship. The root cause of hardship in life is never taught to us by our parents, by our schooling, by our employers because they don’t know it’s a problem either but now you do.

You are here to enjoy your everyday life. Simply do your best today to care about the world and be kind but let go of the past. You are a human being and you are doing your best to have the happiness that we all want and which is your right to experience.

The world was set up in 24 hour periods so that each new day we have an opportunity to start anew KNOWING that we humans would not achieve the perfection we try to bestow on ourselves and we would end up feeling guilty and needed a ‘fresh start’.

* You do not have to EARN happiness, or forgiveness (if another doesn’t forgive, not your fault);

* You do not have to PAY for every mistake, if it’s a real mistake you’ll know it and improve time;

* Your life is not about ACHIEVING – it’s about happiness;

* You are unique, do not try to justify yourself to others.

The creative mind that formed you designed you that you may live your life to the full, in abundance until it overflows… the deepest block you have is GUILT AND SELF-LOATHING… you may not even realise how much you beat yourself up over everything and I encourage you to sit down and see it so you can let it go.

PLEASE STOP HURTING YOURSELF… YOU WERE DESIGNED TO EXPERIENCE JOY; the outside world is a mirrored matrix of what you feel towards yourself so release any guilt and be kind to yourself, nobody deserves it more than you do.
How can your home uncover your truth?

You were created specifically, there was no coincidence and you were no accident. Every body has an idea of who they want you to be but you will never satisfy them you will die trying.

Let yourself off the hook!

Give reverence to the force that selected you precisely the way you are by following the things that bring you joy and let yourself off the hook. Being human is not easy, lighten up and stop being so serious, you are doing your best and that is all you need ask of yourself.
Ever stopped to figure out who you are?

If you want to understand how you see the true Matrix of your mind and how everything around you is showing you how to power up your life… get yourself a copy of Power Surge and you can start right away!

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The Four Emotions That Can Lead to Life Change

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by Jim Rohn



Emotions are the most powerful forces inside us. Under the power of emotions, human beings can perform the most heroic (as well as barbaric) acts. To a great degree, civilization itself can be defined as the intelligent channeling of human emotion. Emotions are fuel and the mind is the pilot, which together propel the ship of civilized progress.

Which emotions cause people to act? There are four basic ones; each, or a combination of several, can trigger the most incredible activity. The day that you allow these emotions to fuel your desire is the day you’ll turn your life around.

1) DISGUST

One does not usually equate the word “disgust” with positive action. And yet properly channeled, disgust can change a person’s life. The person who feels disgusted has reached a point of no return. He or she is ready to throw down the gauntlet at life and say, “I’ve had it!” That’s what I said after many humiliating experiences at age 25, I said. “I don’t want to live like this anymore. I’ve had it with being broke. I’ve had it with being embarrassed, and I’ve had it with lying.”

Yes, productive feelings of disgust come when a person says, “Enough is enough.”

The “guy” has finally had it with mediocrity. He’s had it with those awful sick feelings of fear, pain and humiliation. He then decides he is not going to live like this anymore.” Look out! This could be the day that turns a life around. Call it what you will, the “I’ve had it” day, the “never again” day, the “enough’s enough” day. Whatever you call it, it’s powerful! There is nothing so life-changing as gut-wrenching disgust!

2) DECISION

Most of us need to be pushed to the wall to make decisions. And once we reach this point, we have to deal with the conflicting emotions that come with making them. We have reached a fork in the road. Now this fork can be a two-prong, three-prong, or even a four-prong fork. No wonder that decision-making can create knots in stomachs, keep us awake in the middle of the night, or make us break out in a cold sweat.

Making life-changing decisions can be likened to internal civil war. Conflicting armies of emotions, each with its own arsenal of reasons, battle each other for supremacy of our minds. And our resulting decisions, whether bold or timid, well thought out or impulsive, can either set the course of action or blind it. I don’t have much advice to give you about decision-making except this:

Whatever you do, don’t camp at the fork in the road. Decide. It’s far better to make a wrong decision than to not make one at all. Each of us must confront our emotional turmoil and sort out our feelings.

3) DESIRE

How does one gain desire? I don’t think I can answer this directly because there are many ways. But I do know two things about desire:

  • a. It comes from the inside not the outside.
    b. It can be triggered by outside forces.

Almost anything can trigger desire. It’s a matter of timing as much as preparation. It might be a song that tugs at the heart. It might be a memorable sermon. It might be a movie, a conversation with a friend, a confrontation with the enemy, or a bitter experience. Even a book or an article such as this one can trigger the inner mechanism that will make some people say, “I want it now!”

Therefore, while searching for your “hot button” of pure, raw desire, welcome into your life each positive experience. Don’t erect a wall to protect you from experiencing life. The same wall that keeps out your disappointment also keeps out the sunlight of enriching experiences. So let life touch you. The next touch could be the one that turns your life around.

4) RESOLVE

Resolve says, “I will.” These two words are among the most potent in the English language. I WILL. Benjamin Disraeli, the great British statesman, once said, “Nothing can resist a human will that will stake even its existence on the extent of its purpose.” In other words, when someone resolves to “do or die,” nothing can stop him.


The mountain climber says, “I will climb the mountain. They’ve told me it’s too high, it’s too far, it’s too steep, it’s too rocky, it’s too difficult. But it’s my mountain. I will climb it. You’ll soon see me waving from the top or you’ll never see me, because unless I reach the peak, I’m not coming back.” Who can argue with such resolve?

When confronted with such iron-will determination, I can see Time, Fate and Circumstance calling a hasty conference and deciding, “We might as well let him have his dream. He’s said he’s going to get there or die trying.”


The best definition for “resolve” I’ve ever heard came from a schoolgirl in Foster City, California. As is my custom, I was lecturing about success to a group of bright kids at a junior high school. I asked, “Who can tell me what “resolve” means?” Several hands went up, and I did get some pretty good definitions. But the last was the best. A shy girl from the back of the room got up and said with quiet intensity, “I think resolve means promising yourself you will never give up.” That’s it! That’s the best definition I’ve ever heard: PROMISE YOURSELF YOU’LL NEVER GIVE UP.


Think about it! How long should a baby try to learn how to walk? How long would you give the average baby before you say, “That’s it, you’ve had your chance”? You say that’s crazy? Of course it is. Any mother would say, “My baby is going to keep trying until he learns how to walk!” No wonder everyone walks.

There is a vital lesson in this. Ask yourself, “How long am I going to work to make my dreams come true?” I suggest you answer, “As long as it takes.” That’s what these four emotions are all about.


To Your Success,
Jim Rohn


This article was submitted by Jim Rohn, America’s Foremost Business Philosopher.

Success: Breakthrough is One Step Away

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Illusion about success that overwhelms us

Successful living is more of an illusion than maybe you realise… we assume it is harder, requires more effort, more time and more energy to achieve change than is actually required.

If you have read Power Surge or Home Your Wealth, you will now understand how the Matrix around you is effecting everything… your bank account effects your career which effects your relationships, which effects your health which effects your sense of joy and peace.

*** Right now, ONE change in ONE area of your living is going to effect everything else, it has to, it’s science. Science is no respecter of people, opinions or backgrounds.

Consider ONE circumstance in your life right now that is bothering you (don’t dwell on it), just DECIDE which one poses the most concern.

Got it in mind (if your emotions haven’t already tugged at it)?

Successful Solution to the Problem

TIP 1:

Don’t seek advice from someone who has not achieved a successful experience in this area. Not because the advice they give might not be good but simply because if they haven’t created a result it means something in them was held back from taking the advice and you want to receive from a situation holding the vibration you are looking to activate in your own life.

TIP 2:

Claim now that there is a solution however know that the solution only exists where the problem is. So taking for example the worry about money, money is not the problem, what you want the money for is the problem and this is the area where the breakthrough lies.

TIP 3:

A solution DOES EXIST without having to use money!

TIP 4:

Don’t take any action until you are clear WHY you are taking the action you are. Be clear about what you are intending to achieve. Too much time and energy is wasted because people don’t get clear about the mission and launch off into desperate activity just because it is the first thing they think of.

Stop and use your brain to be creative, think like a chessboard, how can I achieve this with as few moves as possible (bearing in mind, ‘moves’ on a chessboard incurr resources such as time, money and energy in life.

TIP 5:

Check your thoughts about what you intend to take action on. Do you actually believe it will work? If not, why not? The thoughts will give you a clue to the breakthrough. Don’t fool yourself that anything is going to be fruitful if you don’t believe it.

One great way to test this is to reflect on what pictures come to mind when you think of the solution and that will give you a pretty good idea of what you perceive the outcome as being. Question is, does it look good or is it fraught with complication? Keep sorting through the possibilities until you can find PEACE that this can work.

TIP 6:

If your solution requires the help or participation of other people then you better make sure you communicate lovingly and take into action their needs.

If they are not happy, you will not get what you want (fundamental lesson about humans).. Nobody will listen to anything you have to say until they sense that you care… watch your words, tone, attitude, have you communicated CLEARLY what you would like from them and make sure they get to know how it benefits them.

Your Potential is Phenomenal. Prove it to yourself.

Take a decision today about an area you are going to resolve and gain control over.

A substantial force of destruction in our experiences is believing that we are not control or feeling overwhelmed by situations we don’t we believe we can… but we can more easily than we realise. It’s just that we oftentimes don’t even get started.

This is why the industry of fashion, nutrition and weight control is so considerable. The only thing we actually own is our body and mind. When we look in the mirror or feel ‘not in control’ everything else is effected by this mindset and the knock-on effect is massive.

Taking a situation that we feel powerless to resolve and creating a successful outcome creates a magnificent release inside us that changes our physiology and leaves us feeling we can master other things. Success is simply a number of small situations we have gained control over, ONE BY ONE.

EVERYTHING ABOUT THIS ONE PROBLEM HOLDS THE KEY to why all the other problems exist. Solve this ONE and you make huge discoveries about yourself and your power.

Recommendation: No matter what you decide, start clearing and cleaning your home and personal spaces such as your office. It is far more relevant than you realise. It costs you time but it is worth it on fundamental levels of your subconscious. If you really want to see how deep the transformation can go, get yourself a copy of Home Your Wealth now and get started on your metamorphosis right away.

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Why You Don’t Have What You Really Want

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The Saboteur Within
Why You Don’t Have What You Really Want

by Dr. Robert Anthony

Lets face it – most of us from time to time feel that life is just one big struggle with a series of never ending problems.

Yet the truth is that life does not have to be this way. In fact, it can be just the opposite. Life is not about struggle and overcoming problems. Life is about pursuing and creating what we truly desire in an easy, stress-free manner.

Is there something in your life that you want, but it seems to elude you?

In short, if you don’t have what you want (you name it) your subconscious holds some contradictory intentions for you.

To put it simply, you want something and it doesn’t.

For example you may say, “I want more money”, but your dominant subconscious belief may be, “Earning the amount of money I want is very difficult”.

Notice anything different about these two statements?

They are going in different directions.

What is really happening is that your conscious and subconscious are almost always in conflict. You consciously say, “I want more money” and then after listening, your subconscious says, “No matter what you do, it is too difficult to create that amount of money”.

As a result there is no agreement between your conscious and subconscious. When this happens they cancel each other out and give up on assisting you to create what you would like to have in your life.

What is critical to understand is the competition, conflicting agendas, and disharmony between your conscious and subconscious is keeping you from having what you desire.

Why?

Because when your conscious and subconscious are not in agreement, they produce negative emotion. And it is that very negative emotion or energy that attracts the things you don’t want. (You may have to re-read that.)

Let me explain to you what is really happening.

Every thought is received by the brain, which is the organ of the conscious mind. It is there that it is subjected to our power of reasoning. When the conscious or objective mind has been satisfied that the thought is true, it is sent to the subconscious mind to be brought into the world of reality through quantum physics or the law of attraction.

It is no longer susceptible to any argument whatsoever. The subconscious mind cannot argue. It only acts. It accepts the conclusions of the conscious mind as final. This is the point at which the uncreated becomes the created, the universal becomes individualized, and the invisible becomes visible.

Put simply, every thought that you think has its own energetic vibrational frequency. That thought is impressed into your subconscious mind. Then, through the Law of Attraction, it will energetically attract another person, place, thing or circumstance that has a vibrational match or is vibrating at the same frequency.

Your subconscious mind cooperates completely with your conscious mind when it understands and agrees with what you consciously want. In other words, when your conscious and subconscious are not in conflict.

When you feel negative emotions, they are signals from your subconscious that you are not in harmony with what you desire and this creates emotional energy blocks within your electromagnetic system.

You are not alone. Conflict, manifested as an emotional energy block, is common in almost everyone.

Have you ever wondered why…

Athletes get into slumps?

This defies normal logic. There is no physical reason for an athlete to perform below par. He or she is the same highly trained athlete before, after and during the slump. Yet, no matter how highly skilled, all athletes go through this consistently throughout their careers. Why?

Addictions are so hard to overcome?

Most addicts want to be free of their destructive patterns. They know, and will often admit, that their addiction is costing them their health, their relationships, their money and even their life! Yet they continue with it. Why?

Depression is so hard to overcome?

Depression is one of the most difficult psychological issues to handle. It is not unusual for an individual who suffers from depression to go through years of expensive therapy and not make much progress. Why?

Healing sometimes takes so long?

We have a lingering cold that just won’t go away, a headache or pain that keep coming back again and again or a sprain or broken bone that takes forever to heal. Why?

We self-sabotage ourselves?


Regardless of what you have read or heard, you cannot correct this through positive thinking. You must go BEYOND POSITIVE THINKING to get rid of the “Saboteur Within”. I call this “Right Thinking”. It is right because it is based on truth, not illusion.

Here is something you can do right now.

We try to change our behaviours or become more successful in our business or career yet we often manage to fall back into our previous “comfort zones” with little or no real progress. Why?

The reason we have these experiences is that we do not correct the negative emotion IN THE MOMENT.

Notice when you are feeling any negative emotion or conflict. That is you “inner guidance system” telling you that you are not in harmony with your desire. This is your first clue.

IN THAT MOMENT you MUST self-correct. Change your FEELING right then and there because how you FEEL as a result of a thought is what causes the negative emotion. The negative emotion then causes the conflict. And the conflict attracts more of the things you DON’T WANT.

So, if you do nothing else, remember that you MUST correct and STOP the negative attraction in the MOMENT if you are serious about getting rid of the “Saboteur Within.” That will clear the way for you conscious and subconscious to work in harmony to bring your desire.

This may be difficult to accept or to at first understand. Remember, we are talking about going beyond what you typically understand, so you can get to the results you want.

The effort can help make all your dreams come true.

Believe me, it’s worth it.

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Success: Opposing Forces Within

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Resistance: The Enemy Within

Resistance is defined as “A force that tends to oppose or retard motion.”

It is fair to say that most of the tiredness or feeling of exhaustion that we sense when we think about change is in fact ‘resistance’. We so often think it is “easier said than done” but in actual fact..

“It IS easier done than said”.

Disagree?

Take the situation where you are procrastinating about making a dental appointment. How many seconds does it take to pick up the phone and dial the number…

opposed to…

considering all the ways to get out of it because of:

- the money it costs,
– the time you think you don’t have,
– whether you really need to,
– whether you need to think about it, etc. etc. etc.

In the meantime, the appointment would have been booked and you would have committed to it right?

Resistance is a powerful force in our lives. It is the enemy working in conflict with everything we believe we are hoping for.  As we are not consciously aware of just how much it dominates our thinking and our actions, it takes us for everything we have.

We think we are tired or we think this ‘bad feeling’ is because it won’t work, can’t work, shouldn’t work, is not due to work… and it causes the perfect shield and distracts us elsewhere. It shields us from victory over the changes that we beat ourselves up about because we feel they should be so easy and sound so simple to complete.

The reality is that because we can’t see the enemy of resistance, we don’t prioritise its dissolution but there are fun and exciting ways to dissolve a great deal of the retardation in your energy fields and clear your resistance!

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A wonderful resource on Resistance by Steven Pressfield – Click Below

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Success; Use your negative outlook to win!

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Success; Car Wash Approach to Change

The other day a guy asked me if success was only realistically going to happen to a certain type of person. I replied “Yes. In fact, it ONLY happens to certain people.”

He looked very demoralised.

I told him “Success and accessing your personal potential only happens to those who change their behaviour to support how they say they want to live AND they stay as consistent as they can with the new behaviour until the change happens.

“Oh not again” he said, “I’ve heard this about ten times in the last month”.

I could hear from his tone, his flippant reaction and his body language that the problem is he has never taken the answer to his question seriously, neither now or during the last ten times he heard it. Like most people he wants to hear something else.

The very fact that he asked the question meant:-
1. He hadn’t yet claimed that a joyful life is available to anyone (including himself); and

2. That what he heard he wasn’t prepared to accept.

I reminded him of The 16 Hour Formula and the only power he had was in today and if he didn’t claim responsibility and make changes today, he wasn’t effecting any changes in the future. I made it clear to him that he hadn’t even made the decision yet.

One of his reasons for wanting an alternative answer was that he went on to say that he had concluded that “Changing your behaviour is easier said than done… and it was just easier for some.”

I had to correct him by telling him that actually in reality, that’s not true, it is ‘easier done than said’.

We continue the behaviour we are defaulted to every day because we are used to it, even though it causes us pain. In most cases, we suffer so much unhappiness that we live in a state of numbness. It is fair to generalise that most people, when asked the question “Are you happy?” don’t even know how to respond!

Success can be achieved through a negative perspective!

A very fruitful way to secure a breakthrough is to go the negative route (because realistically, we are all defaulted to the dark side when we wake up and we generally have to struggle to regain positivity as the day wears on)… so it’s easier to go the route we know and start with ourselves as ‘a mess’ than try to ‘see ourselves as successful’ because we usually stumble at this first imagined scenario.

Consider the analogy that you came into this world as a dirty car and self development is simply an analogy of going to the car wash. Accept the premise that actually the truth is you have no idea of your real colour and design because you have been driving around the way you are for most of your life.

Underneath the surface lies the sparkle, the polished model of yourself full of colour and shine but you have been weathered by and have inherited destructive thoughts, feelings and actions towards yourself and what you believe you can have in life.

Now your windscreen is dirty and has coloured life grey and dingy.

Success is a Decision (which then needs managing). It is the point where you decide that you are tired of the mess and want to see the colour in your life… you’ve had enough of grey; you’re heading to the car wash and you are going to clean your window and discover your true colour, model and sparkle – the real you in all your glory!

Car Wash Time is the period of time when you look outside at your relationships, your home, your business or your job and the condition of your health and you decide what you’ve had enough of.

Self Development mirrors the Car Wash process in that the whole function of a car wash is to ‘remove the dirt’, not to help you figure out what colour your car is and what model.

You are paying for removing the dirt. The same is said for turning successful situations into successful ones using any self development solution.

NOW, when it comes to finding the abundance that was always yours by design,

  • Don’t sit down and decide what you DO want to be (your colour and model is already defined underneath, embedded into your cellular memory).
  • Sit down and decide what you are tired of, what are the things you DON’T want to happen anymore that bring you unhappiness and steal your joy.
  • By deciding what you don’t like you will be able to flip it around and uncover what you do want!

Many goals are not established because we are encouraged to sit down and ask ourselves what we want but we have not been raised this way. To the contrary, we have been trained to ‘settle’.

In deciding our goals we are encouraged to imagine a life of luxury when we actually have no experience to draw on. We cannot bring up an emotion without the experience and it is emotion that is the creative force… Energy in MOTION. The mind is the source of what we want to change but it is the emotion that is the driving force to push us into any kind of physical action.

Think about it, how much training have we ever received in having what we want?

We usually start practicing at about one year old when we can start expressing ourselves and following our imagination but it is usually knocked out of us by the age of seven or eight.

In reality, because of our inheritance it is actually easier for us to settle, struggle and tolerate pain. Turning this default behaviour around requires dedication and a daily commitment to retrain our behaviour.

First comes the Decision. Then comes the management of that decision… every day… UNTIL it changes.

Often times you can fool yourself into thinking you are changing but the reality is that your behaviour has to be consistent for longer than you might be doing.

The fabulous news is that it does not require big amounts of time, money or energy.

What is required is your beliefs to be changed and you have to PROVE them for the programme to be changed. Your change in behaviour requires consistency and so you need to choose practices which you get to do every day and which enable you to reinforce a new belief for yourself.

For example, you say you want a better car but every day you climb into a messy one and go about your busy day. The car may not be the model you hoped for but your dismissive attitude to any litter in the car, or the dirty outside affirms you don’t really care.

You accept the situation by telling yourself ‘I will be much cleaner when I get the new one’ but you have not fully accepted the science of the creative process. What you do today in terms of thoughts, feelings and actions determines what will be your future.

The present circumstances will remain until you have physically proved what you say is important to you so you need to look at what you are doing during the 16 hours between waking and going to bed.

I have discovered that the one consistent method for re-programming my life for success and ‘affirming’ what I say I want to change is using my home and personal spaces at work because it is the one place I WILL be every day.

With this method,  I am assured of the opportunity to rehearse the changes I say I want until they become permanent.

I have laid down this breakthrough in my book Home Your Wealth which will show you how to see your deeply hidden blind spots and provide easy ways to remove the mess from your programming which is keeping your success at bay.

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