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Prosperity spotted in your relationships

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Relationships mirror alignment to abundance

How does your relationships determine your prosperity?

In short, your relationships show you the relationship within yourself and for prosperity to flow the dynamic must be reflect what prosperity stands for…

…a thriving, flourishing condition.

OK so what does that mean?


Well, beyond the fundamental understanding that thriving and flourishing means giving something nourishment, the detail is for you to decide. Desire is essentially what makes us happy and that is personal.

What kind of home life, partner, career, body image suits you?

You decide. But whatever you decide you must have it going on in your life in both sides of you.

What both sides of my self are we talking about?

The two sides of you are your power and your potential. In short, your ability to make something actually happen and then the quality of the experience within it.

To give you an example, that means the ability to manifest a car and then the experience of owning that car (is it easy to pay for, maintained well, serve all your lifestyle needs?)

How do I see if I am on course for a successful outcome?

Well that’s simple.

Any relationship with a man is reflecting your relationship to your power (making it happen);

Any relationship with a woman is reflecting your relationship to your potential (your experience).

How do I power them up for success and prosperity?


Every time you are UPSET with a man or a woman you ask:

What exactly am I upset about and listen to the precise words;

Is this something I am doing I need to stop doing or do more of?;

Is it effecting my power (a man) or my potential (a woman)?

The goal must be PEACE. It doesn’t matter whether they still behave badly (as you see it) or not, the destruction that is blocking your manifestation power is the ‘upset’ you FEEL.

Example

Your husband is always late home for dinner.

I am upset because “I feel disrespected”

I disrespect myself and need to stop, my actions must match my needs.

It is a man so every time I get upset I stop things on my dream list ‘happening’

Decision to be successful and turn on my flow of abundance

I will use my words carefully to help my husband see how it’s in his interest to arrive home on time

or…

I will simply let it go, I know he works hard and is doing his best.

Either way, you MUST resolve the emotional upset. While you are upset your energies are at war… they are completely repelling like two north pole magnets trying to be pushing towards each other… one part of you is saying yes and the other no. This means you stay exactly where you are.

This energy dynamic is showing us moment by moment what we need to work on. We are constantly asking complicated questions, buying more books and courses whilst the answer we are looking for is coming at us during our day.

Every person in your world is attracted by you and playing out a role which is happening within you. Walking away is not the solution. See what they are showing you, take action to learn and gain peace…

… all the other stuff going on is because of these upsets. Don’t fool yourself it is because of the economy, your job, you married the wrong woman, your upbringing, the culture you live in, because you have children.

You have the power to change it NOW.

Does more flow in prosperity require radical change?

Yes. However understand what radical means. It means a complete shift in direction… extreme change from accepted or traditional forms…

…not exhaustive amounts of energy, money and life-changing upheaval!

Example

Instead of expressing anger at my wife because my dinner isn’t ready as I walked through the door as we agreed…

I decide to take a deep breath, claim the fact that she loves me, perhaps she had a very busy or a difficult day and hurting her will not help either of us. Perhaps I will ask her how her day went and get the facts before I assume her day should have been all about me! If she feels bad I lose!

These moments are the moments when you will rock the very fabric of your life but we are missing them.

Why?

Because we are too busy and too unhappy.

Why?

Because we are not maintaining prosperity in the moments we have. They are full of upset, anger, frustration, stress, disillusionment and assuming the worst.

Look at the people you interact with daily and see where you are ‘repelling your prosperity’ by observing your emotional upset. It won’t go away, it is inside you so take control and channel it into love, acceptance and peace…

THEN you will see it show up in your work, finances, home, partnerships and a healthy body. What is even more exciting is that each of these aspects are precisely interconnected so if we empower one it has a dominoe effect on the other.

If you want to see how the outside is a perfect and precise mirror of everything inside of you and unblock your conflicts get yourself a copy of my ebook Power Surge










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Take an inventory of the people you generally hang around. Consider yourself a reflection of their attitudes, finances, ability to enjoy life. Are they people who don’t feel in control, always gossiping, talking about limitation and thinking small or encouraging you to be prosperous and think big? Look around at those people you spend time with and ask yourself whether they reflect the qualities you are looking for in yourself and your life. If you are a business owner this is even more prevalent. Keep in mind that you are in control and your are master of your own destiny so don’t lie to yourself and keep negative situations around you. Take conscious control of your relationships.

Although I don’t open every email from those successful people whose newsletters I subscribe to, I keep them in my outlook box with a conscious attention that I like having their prosperity consciousness within my computer. If I opened them all I would have no day left and would get distracted by I like them hanging out with me!

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No matter how old you are, you are aware of day dreams you have or urges that have you thinking about things you are passionate about.

Take my example. I was day dreaming about ways I could help people with my own brand of genius and I used to day dream about teaching people but the fear of public speaking paralysed me. I stayed in a job as a secretary years and years after I already knew in my heart I could do something much more rewarding.

Successful people follow their heart rather than following survival. What you are scared to do is your unique insight into where your growth lies. I am not saying that for me it came overnight in fact I spent years on healing and hypnosis to get over my fear but the place to start is acknowledging what fear is holding you back and at least be real with yourself in affirming that you will do what your day dreams are prompting. If you conclude that you don’t know what you truly want, start by looking at what you don’t want to do and then observe what situation comes up that identifies a fear because that is the obstacle capping your success and real joy.

If you don’t take the decision, you cannot bring along the right circumstances and the right time when you will master your fears. You also need to let go of your agenda of how and when this will happen, simply make sure you be honest with yourself otherwise you will never discover your true self (way to your divine prosperity)

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All your personal spaces (i.e. spaces YOU have control over such as your home, office, holiday home) are more significant than you know. The inside of your personal spaces are an exact and precise mirror of your psyche and how you describe the space, use the space, maintain the space and live in the space reveals the truth about who you are Being and show you why success, abundance and prosperity still eludes you despite how much you invest in self improvement and healing.

A living room is not just a living room it is an Aladdin’s cave of self-exploration! Even a carpet in that room can reveal truths that years of healing and piles of self growth books have left wanting.

Define what you want clearly

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Define what you want and PROVE you want it! My partner joked about owning a Ferrari but when we actually talked about going to test drive and buy one, he realised he didn’t really want a Ferrari he wanted a Mercedes McLaren! My experience of working with business owners is that they assume or borrow common accepted ideas of what they should be aspiring to achieve but it can be a long way from what they truly want.

You can use your power to manifest anywhere…

On the top deck!!

Even if you are working hard and taking action, if you are not in a place ‘to receive’ you can miss the boat. Where you are in your heart, your mind and your physical location matter – you need to be ‘happy’ and ‘having fun’ – balance is important. Sometimes it simply takes a change in perspective like getting away, to see solutions – I had more ideas for a seminar whilst cruising the Virgin Islands than sitting at home ‘pushing’ myself.

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All areas of your life… your health, your bank account, your relationship, your work are exactly and precisely interconnected. When you are not in control of one, you are not in control of any. That is why there is so much focus on our body weight, shape, image etc. The fact is that the only thing we can control is our body and so when we don’t feel in control (the obvious example being out of shape), we take this feeling of ‘out of control’ into every situation.

Peter, (Lost 26Kgs(60lbs) in 4 months)

Annemarie Doolin... in control!Being fit is part of a successful plan

Do that which you think you cannot do… change all those things which cause you unhappiness. For every problem you experience, there’s already a solution. Reduce weight and gain shape, fulfilling relationships, fulfilling career, business success ONE STOP SUCCESS.