Annemarie’s Story – Self Improvement in Home Improvement

In this story, Annemarie is actually me, the author. My life was changing in amazing ways, in fact I was attracting success in areas I wasn’t even aware I had thought possible.

I had found my dream man, was enjoying the luxury of working from home and doing what I am born to do. I was also moving into the fabulous new apartment I had fantasised about as I passed by it looking at its For Sale sign every day for nearly a year.

Faced with the thrill of planning the interior design of my new home, the next block in my unconscious which had been withholding my divine prosperity revealed itself when I began to look for furniture and fittings.

I reiterate as I do with everything I write that everything on the outside along with how we describe it, use it and feel about it is a mirrored reflection of the dynamics of our subconscious. Asking the key question why about everything we do and own provides answers that years of self development and improvement can leave wanting.

That said, the process of buying our furniture was the process of “finding things to create comfort and happiness within myself” as my home is a metaphor for how I perceive and live within myself. Furthermore my partner gave me free reign which demonstrates that my husband (expression of my male (power)) trusts me to ‘build’ a comfortable me.

Observe what happens.  Watch how a powerful healing opportunity to life long self-sabotaging behaviour presents itself and how, once SEEN, can be eradicated so simply.

Self Improvement begins, but what do I buy?

I was staring at a blank canvas. Aside from the office (which I knew my partner would monopolise, fill with his boy’s toys and essentially fight for a colour scheme based on black and silver), I was excited about planning and designing another four beautiful high ceiling, classical and elegant rooms.

I was excited by the freedom to be creative especially as I was passionate about interior design and more importantly money was no option!

I had an idea of what I wanted already and set about looking for the essential items first; furniture, carpets and light fittings.

With a blank canvas, complete freedom to do what I wanted and plenty of money, this should be a breeze right?

I started with the LIGHT fittings (clearly light is a priority focus within me). I scoured the internet and found some gorgeous lamps in the U.S. I loved them because they were very UNIQUE and very ATTRACTIVE.

Having noted and listed them all in terms of what I wanted to order I then moved on to the FURNITURE. I wanted items that were both ELEGANT to match the chandaliers and high ceilings and were COMFORTABLE and perveyed HARMONY.

I was also aware that I wanted to keep the rooms clear of clutter and when it came to the dining room (AREA OF NOURISHMENT) I opted to keep the room simple with a BIG BOLD dining table that was STRONG and the main focus.

As I couldn’t find anything big and bold enough off the shelf so to speak I opted to have the table MADE TO ORDER. We knew about a shop that is passionate about wood and sculpts all manner of furniture to order.

When the table finally came it was exactly what I wanted and it really made the room. My partner was also wild about it; it was a roaring success.

Then I decided on two carpets.

One carpet was for the sitting room (CORE/CENTRE) which was big and needed a carpet to CONNECT the furniture together otherwise people sitting on the sofas felt too far from each other and disconnected.

The second carpet was for the dining room (NOURISHMENT AREA) which was to be the centre piece under the dining table and chairs.

I felt attracted to persian designs and surfed through hundreds of websites looking at carpets until my vision started to blur. That alone should have told me that some ‘discomfort’ was starting to creap in!

I was starting to observe that this process was starting to take A HUGE AMOUNT OF TIME and even my partner asked me what was taking me so long to decide. 

Once I had decided and wanted to order items I discovered that everything I had ordered was NOT AVAILABLE. I had chosen items IN OTHER COUNTRIES (outside myself) which meant that lamps were not compatible with the power outage where I lived in Denmark and the carpets were almost double the price to import!

I was so frustrated I burst into tears.

The key to releasing my success and more prosperity 

As I had planned my home (new version of myself) what I needed to change came to light.

I realised that I was still ‘looking for things outside of myself to cement my unique, attractive, elegant, comfortable self’. More specifically, that by looking for LIGHT (true self as we are originally light intelligence), I was creating a conflict with my POWER OUTAGE.

Furthermore, in looking outside of myself for laying foundations in myself (carpets) it had been costing me double (the price of the import duty).

I also observed that whilst I like “strong, simple and bold” I was not actually living out that truth. The process of homing myself in reality was still “long and complicated which brought about exhaustion and frustration!”

I also had learned that in terms of my nourishment process (dining room) it was important for me to decide what I wanted and not ACCEPT WHAT’S ON OFFER. It was time to live out this truth within me.

Once I saw this I knew what to do.

I realised that this process of creating a home was mirroring the process of creating and cementing the person I really felt I was. The only way to solve it was to complete this process more quickly, smoothly and more importantly, heal the main issue; I had to shop in my own country (from inside myself not outside!).

I know that anything physical in my life is actually my ‘mind in action’ broken down into particles of energy and that by playing with the physical I would in fact, reprogramme my mind in the same way.

Instant Self Development and Healing

I told my partner that I was going shopping at a store (which in fact was only a bus ride away). I told him that I would head over there and asked if he could join me later with the car to bring back some accessories which I anticipated buying.

I hasten to add here that I had no idea what was in the store so this was a decision based on trust that I would find what I wanted. I was tempted to go online and surf the store but I knew there was a possibility I would linger again and allow myself to procrastinate.

Within an hour or so I had ordered about $20,000 worth of items. I was shocked at not only how much I liked and enjoyed what I ordered but how I actually chose items completely opposite to what I had been looking at before (what a surprise).

Everything in the sitting room (CORE/CENTRE) gelled wonderfully and a good test was to see how people behaved when they visited. They would often put their feet up and curl up on the sofa and I knew this was a sign that people felt comfortable; I knew that if people were comfortable then it was evidence that I was comfortable within herself.

This new home gave rise to many important changes in my life although it took the realisation about the carpet I had chosen for the sitting room to help me see a self-sabotaging belief that now needed to be dissolved which you can hear about in this video clip.

The opportunities we have to unleash our success and eradicate blocks and contradictions withholding our divine prosperity are right under our noses. The solutions are more simple and more easily cemented into our reality than we realise.

If you haven’t already tapped into YOUR GENIUS VISION to see all YOUR answers, I would love you to have this resource and encourage you to download a copy of Home Your Wealth and start your life transformation today.

I feel sure it will get you all excited to read Power Surge too and revolutionise the way you live on a daily basis; it will stop you feeling out of control and have you realise that just as perhaps your instincts or the hoards of self development resources told you, you do in fact hold all the answers and can attract everything you want without needing anything more. Isn’t that the peace and happiness you really want?

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Jane’s Story – Key to her Prosperity

This story demonstrates how to take one simply project within a business and see clearly how we cause the circumstances we do. Jane’s story demonstrates that behind the seemingly insignificant situations, our answers are staring us in the face LITERALLY.

As you read the story do your best not to focus on the details so much as sitting back and seeing the story more as a metaphor of what was happening inside Jane’s unconscious mind. Look at the words in red to help you shape the metaphor.

Once upon a time there was a shoe store owner called Jane whose business was called The Unbelievable Shoe Store.

This shop was located on a very quiet side street about 30 metres off the main shopping street in the centre of a major thriving city. Furthermore, when you looked at Jane’s shop it was not obvious it was a shoe store as the window was essentially full of handbags with the odd shoe next to it!

One day Jane decided that she wanted to increase the prosperity of the business and so she decided to hire someone to improve her sales on the internet. The person she decided to employ was Paul whom she observed and felt confident that Paul knew what he is doing proven by his own prosperity on the internet.

The advice Paul gave Jane was to build a new online shop as it was actually easier to rebuild a new strong foundation that included flexibility to expand in the future rather than try to work with her old shop as it is.

Paul also advised Jane that she will get what she pays for when she invests on the internet (as the internet is a precise mirror of the physical world) and if she decides on choosing a cheaper option then she will not save in the long run.

The project began (with the procurement of a cheaper webbuilding option).

The project continued to hit problem after problem due to miscommunication, confusion and insecurity as Jane was withholding access of passwords etc. to facilitators so they could do the work for Jane without having to use up Jane’s time and focus.

The project’s deadlines came and went and although Jane had paid the investment it was still not bearing fruit. She was still working with the old shop online and though the structure of the new shop was coming along it was fraught with problems.

When Paul called Jane to see how things were progressing, he could tell that Jane was very upset and she didn’t want to talk about it. Paul called her on it and enquired “What exactly is the problem, what is holding things up now?”

Jane said that the webmaster was having problems integrating the fields for the new shop’s database with the old shop.

Paul made it clear to Jane that these must be resolved and a solution must be agreed upon otherwise all the investment in terms of time, money and energy is wasted. Jane was too frustrated to resolve it and instead went on to talk to Paul about employing his services in some other activities to increase the business until this was finished.

Paul made it clear to Jane that she was trying to sidetrack her own goals. Goals that would flourish if she completed the project. Paul was very keen to see Jane succeed. One of the reasons why he accepted the brief was because he saw Jane’s potential in the business and so encouraged her to stick with the strategy he foresaw would do just that.

Meanwhile Jane turned her focus onto other things, one of which included flying spending thousands of dollars flying to the other side of the globe to attend a healing and transformation course.

Seven months after the deadline and having made a large investment, the project was still unfinished and the new shop still a work in progress.

The Solution to Jane’s Hidden Prosperity

No activity, conversation or relationship in our life is random or coincidence. ‘We bring to us that which we are’ but because it is disguised, we can’t see how to retrieve what is of value and what is unfruitful and oftentimes we simply assume that the ‘stuff happens‘.

Jane’s story starts with a business that is UNBELIEVABLE.

Whilst you may have assumed another impression on “The Unbelievable Shoe Store” and immediately read into the name ‘An amazing shoe store, perhaps bigger, more interesting or better priced than others’, the truth is that all words ‘put into action’ the instruction of their meaning.

In the case of the name of Jane’s store this is “a store that is not believable!” or to be precise (as Belief means “to have confidence and faith in”) The Shoe Store that has no confidence or faith.

Taking a more realistic view of the shop name now you can see that Jane declared a statement. “The Shoe Store containing lack of confidence and faith”. That said I can imagine that Jane has had to work extra hard for any success and possibly why she wanted to save money on the shop update.

Jane has probably had to invest much more on every level that she would otherwise have had to. In fact Jane is a successful business woman so it is very exciting to ponder how much more fruitful she could have been if the mission had been more clearly intended in the first place.

Before you get sidetracked into protesting that you can’t just change the name, I agree and it is not necessary. That would be like saying “Dear God, I have the wrong name of my Birth Certificate, just knock me down and have me be born again and start from scratch”. If that were the case I would have been erased long ago!”

So if you have an Unbelievable Shoe Store then this would explain why the shop was on a side street away from the CENTRE OF THRIVING LIFE and the evidence of its lack of confusion and faith was evidenced in its front window in that what is was supposedly selling was not obvious. The lack of confidence and faith was now filtering through to the shop front just as the law of attraction dictates.

Perhaps you are already starting to see how the detail in what we do is significant and what we intend within what we do must be clear because it will either taint everything we touch or prosper everything we touch.

It comes as no surprise that Jane wanted to increase her shop’s sales. She trusted her instincts and opted for Paul whom she had concluded had proven results. As Jane has already proven herself a successful business woman, it was prudent of her to trust her instincts. The reality is that all our answers are often other people talking back to us but because they are separate we don’t claim the glory of accepting our own wisdom and genius.

Paul started a project transforming the dynamic of Jane’s OLD shop online into a NEW shop online but what ensued was full of confusion and mistrust. A couple of issues presented themselves which lead to ‘a problem integrating the OLD with the NEW’.

Many issues were caught up in this slow-down… namely choosing a cheaper option and therefore the webmaster was not the rightly qualified servicer, holding back access to passwords so people could get the job down without disturbing an already busy Jane, and confusion in the communication of the original project. All of these issues originate from a place of lack of confidence and faith!

I am guessing that Jane concluded that another expensive healing course would fix things. I guess she figured that when she came back she would be armed with a magic solution and everything would somehow have changed. Perhaps she felt she needed something extra when Jane had already proven herself a genius! I confess that I have been around the mountain a few times in this regard.

What actually presented itself to Jane with this new venture was an opportunity to ‘heal the lack of confidence’ and the only way to do it was to complete the transition from the old to the new shop.

This project was the physical manifestation of the belief systems within Jane’s unconscious mind and by focusing everything she had on completing this would have opened up a new chapter. Jane herself chose the ‘advisor’ and Paul advised the new shop so this is what Jane’s own instincts were telling her. If Jane hadn’t felt good about Paul and chosen him anyway then she would have been going against her instincts so what ensued would not have been successful.

The beauty of Jane’s story is that it is a perfect example of what we all do on a daily basis but that’s because we don’t necessarily know that what is happening outside is telling us what is happening inside and if we translate what we see using the words in the situation (precisely as they are uttered), we are able to see clearly what we need to do to flourish and cause a life transformation.

There is always a solution in every problem we face. It is a spiritual law. The Law of Polarity states that everything that exists has an exact and equal opposite. So where a problem exists, so lies the solution.

Jane’s story demonstrates how our mission in any given task, if not defined clearly, corrupts everything related to it to the exact same degree whether that be a business mission, a specific project or what we intend from a relationship.

Jane started out with an Unbelievable Shoe Store. From the onset it was clear that everything was going to cause circumstances not to become all that it could be.

The name caused the shop front to become visually another type of shop;

The name caused the shop to be located alongside the major thriving centre of life (close but still not on it!) which means that Jane (wether she was conscious of it or not would often have felt so much potential and yet frustrated that it never came to fruition the way her intuition was telling her was possible).

When she wanted to ‘upgrade’, the same dynamic expressed itself in the new online shop database in that it could not integrate with the old. It meant that somewhere in Jane’s subconscious there was a resistance about this transition. The new represented ‘improved confidence’ and so the resistance showed up in this project literally mirroring Jane’s mind.

In fact you could probably examine deeper and predict that the staff were also causing problems and when looked at more closely any disappointment would have originated out of ‘lack of confidence and faith’; maybe people were employed who were actually doing the wrong job because they didn’t feel they could do the job they were actually good at?

What could Jane do to power up her success?

So given these circumstances and not being able to just knock down the shop or easily move the location what could Jane have done to improve her success?

The New Online Shop Project

I explained earlier that as far as the project goes Jane needed to bridge and solve the ‘integration’ of the shop problem to a successful conclusion. The integration problem was within Jane’s subconscious and therefore if she resolved the outward expression of this disconnection she would in fact heal the integration within her mind.

However, going back to the source of the mission of the business which started with the naming of the shop this is what Jane can do to create a viral effect of prosperity and healing.

Shop Name

Jane could include on her site, shop window and merchandising a clear statement that COMPENSATES and REINSTATES the lack of ‘confidence and belief’ inherent in her business.

Keep in mind what I said that what happens in the physical is simply the outward expression of our minds and if we want to ‘cement’ a truth into reality we have to play with the physical objects, words etc. to mould them into what we clearly intend.

Jane could have addressed the ‘unbelievable’ with a statement like:

“The Unbelievable Shoe Store, the perfect place to find your perfect shoe.”

I have just taken an impulsive stab on one idea but you can see that the statement that is added includes confidence and faith. It redresses the energy instigated by ‘unbelief’.

If Jane did not believe in the statement she starts cementing into her promotional material then this would not be appropriate.

I suspect that this change would bring about a more fruitful business. This could manifest in many ways. It could mean that suddenly:

• more customers are hearing about her shop;
• a satisfied customer with a large customer list recommended Jane’s newsletter and her subscriptions have increased wildly;
• it could mean that the shop could actually change location and suddenly a lucrative location becomes available at a great price;
• she suddenly has an influx of new staff who are worth their weight in gold, etc. etc.

We cannot predict how our minds change the fibre of our circumstances but if we take control over what we see happening and re-programme it the way we want, we can be confident that what happens will be in alignment with the intention defined in the changes we made.

In Jane’s case it was to cement ‘belief’ and eradicate the ‘unbelief’ which meant this would have had a viral effect in every activity in the business from the shop window through to the accountant the business attracts. It would have cleared up the effects of “no confidence”.

Every aspect of our lives can be powered up and transformed by looking into the detail of what we are saying. Looking at what we are intending with the use of words… anything from what we chat about to the name of our company or what nickname we give to our car!

Uncover the destruction under your nose tainting everything your touch by taking a closer look into your Home and Office Spaces.

Getting Perspective for Online Business Success

Since the development of the World Wide Web considerably more businesses are conducting business online and like all new developments in life it can be many years before the realities of benefits and liabilities are realised.

Both my partner and I have been entrepreneurs now for fifteen years and we had some fabulously lucrative ventures and some serious learning curves which have been financially cripelling.

In the course of pursuing our businesses, we have had the opportunity to work with hundreds of entrepreneurs involved in startup and running a business which has given us some very valuable insights.

The most shocking breakthrough was looking at my own website and suddenly realising it was not even clear what I was doing for visitors!

Whilst being busy with other people’s business I had failed to focus on my own website and was doing the very thing that I had observed in many business owners.

I realised that the intention and mission of my business was not only unclear, a customer’s needs were not being met within that initial ten seconds of visiting my site. In short, I was not objective enough to see why it was a miracle my site was selling any products at all!

To this end I have provided the perspective below for you to become detached enough to gain a clear perspective from your prospective customers’ point of view and be more effective online before looking for ways to drive thousands more visitors to your site.

Please don’t shy away from reading on because of any irritations at the thought of making changes. I fully understand your position and have endeavoured to get you to look at the site carefully to make sure you see a few simple moves that can have the most impact as I will demonstrate with my example.

The Most Effective Online Perspective

Although a business is operating online the fundamental buying motivations and needs of customers are still the same. What has changed though is that people have less time and they can flit from one webpage to another with the click of a button.

It is time to stop distractions, stop buying into all kinds of business solutions which we believe will address the core problem which is converting visitors into customers when a simple but fundamental change in perspective can trouble-shoot very clearly a few moves that can address the site’s inadequacies.

It is time to see the solution in what you have already which is the focus of my whole teaching… unhappiness reigns in the world generally because we have all moved too far away from our mission.

This is the same for businesses with the introduction of the internet and the onset flood of differing opinions, ideas, views, sources of information and our ability to dip our heads into everyone else’s business so easily.

Adjust Your Vision

If you have a business online then the most successful perspective I encourage you to adopt is to start seeing your business as a highstreet shop.

Exercise

• Open up a browser of your website and imagine yourself as a prospective customer.
• As I have demonstrated in the picture below. Observe only what you can see onscreen without scrolling or clicking anywhere. Now, whilst sitting looking at the online page imagine this picture embedded into a bricked building on the high street.

• Keeping your eye on the webpage and imaging it is a shop you are standing infront of, ask yourself these questions (which you would want satisfying as a customer yourself):

Can I immediately see what this shop is selling?
Is it attractive and inviting, would I go in or is it boring and distracting?

This is a very important point to focus on, when you are walking along the high street you have the benefit of a third and fourth dimensional aspect of a shop in that you can:

1. Look through the window and see what they are also selling apart from the front window;

2. You can get a feel inside of the atmosphere by seeing how many people are in there, the attitude of the shop assistant, the quality of the shop etc.

With an online shop/webpage you are basing your purchasing decision on that space you first click on and the window of focus is usually a maximum of 10 seconds.

With regard to shops on the high street people will stay longer because the physical effort they imagine in going somewhere else motivates them to ponder a little longer but not when it is so easy to just click the mouse and go somewhere else.

Can I see how to buy easily (and have you actually tested your buying process to see how easy and obvious it is)?

One classic example of this is putting up a picture of a book and assuming that the customer knows to click on the picture. Never assume!

Can I see the owner (in other words is the contact page in an obvious place on the menu bar of the bottom of the page and do I have a name)?

If your shop is a book store, is it selling books or selling everything else. (Remember how attractive a book store looks on the high street; it is usually oozing books in the window and not adverts for other shop owners products or full of DVDs, movies etc.).

Have you identified and climbed into the hearts and minds of your prospective customer to know their needs, values and attitudes?

Examples:

• If your market is predominantly men do you have a ’search’ button. The search button is effectively a ‘Shop Assistant’ and men generally want to go straight to the product as fast as possible, pay and get out.
• If your market is predominantly women do you observe whether your site/promotional material is colourful, vibrant and allows them to ’shop around’ looking at/reading things. Women have more patience and will still walk miles back to the first shop they went in if it has what they want. If your shop satisfies their needs they will come back to you.
• You want to help Joe Average become a Millionnaire. You already know that:

1. He will probably have low self-esteem; it is fair to say that putting up videos of a perfect image of you in an Armani suit and sparkling white teeth WITHOUT instantly connecting with him enough to let him know that you know how to cry, be scared, be overweight, out of control, in debt etc., is not going to leave him feeling he can become what you are promoting.
2. This front page must provide a connection with him in a way that Joe can see himself benefiting from your product/service.
3. He will have to make changes in his life and so you do not need to take care of every detail for him. If you have a simple request for his name and email and he doesn’t want to go there then he is saying that he is not serious so no need to try to make it easier for him (great intention but you cannot compensate for the part the customer has to play). Keep in mind whether you are helping the customer – don’t try to sell him anything just because you can make a sale.

Simple and Effective Solution

As a business owner I appreciate the investment you make online and how once a web business is established it is not so easily changed. Either because of finances or because the good will of traffic and Google’s relationship has been established and so not wise to disturb what has been built up.

With these challenges in mind I realised that without having to re-create my site which would mean reproducing a huge amount of pages I decided that I had to find a way to address the needs of my prospective customers very effectively and simply right now.

A website is essentially the same as a bricked building in terms of investment and effort in that you can’t just take down a site and build a new one, there are costly consequences so we have to be smart and think before acting.

When I looked at my own site I realised that if I clearly added a Mission Statement I could compensate for some inadequacies. As my site was colourful I had to make the Mission very bold and recognisable instantly. I also added ‘Click’ text to my books and removed any links that was not relevant to my customers.

I realised that the confusion within my site was dynamically the confusion within me. It doesn’t matter how clear we are within our minds, the outside world must match what we want to achieve. It’s one thing to be aware of something but it is another to have that awareness put into practice in a physical way.

In fact, this clear mission statement alone lead to a whole new level of my life. The repercussions were tenfold; it birthed three new books, a whole new Online Center which I am now building and cleared up contradictions that had been withholding success in so many areas.

When I sat down and focused I realised that I had known for a while that I was very dissatisfied with my website as it was and when I started undertaking changes I began to feel the full truth of how often I had been running the words “…it’s not good enough, it’s not going to sell” through my mind.

Conclusion

• Start by writing out your Mission Statement if you haven’t already.
• Make sure you do the exercise above with your website(s) and see where you can make simple adjustments to address any points I raised earlier.
• Don’t give control to webbuilders or designers in that they will only be as effective as your brief. Furthermore, many webdesigners/builders can be employees and don’t know the true value of your invested money. When undertaking web services make sure those assisting you dig into who you are, your values, your mission, your market, your intended goals etc.

So many business owners whom I have have helped with mockups have no idea what they want at the onset but are happy to tell you what they don’t want once you spend days building something. Everyone’s time is wasted. In the past we have spent tens of thousands of dollars to have a project done and key questions have never been asked from us so we paid the price of not being in control as Project Managers of our business; it was our fault.

• Before investing in business online or undertaking more projects stop and think. It is time to slow down, get clear and shut out the distraction and insane amount of information from your world. Simply climb into the shoes of the customer and see your webpage from their perspective. Test your site with people around you who you know to be prospective customers but don’t ask people’s opinion because they will always have one and it will probably contradict yours every time!
  
• You are the genius in your business, you can get all kinds of help (in fact you are wise to source out any skills you are not good at) but if you are not clear about what precisely you want to achieve and are not in control of making sure what you invest in can produce the results you hoped for you will be disappointed, disillusioned and exhausted.

As much of business is now conducted online we have generally lost touch with the essential ingredients of the buying and selling process; in focusing on statistics we have lost sight of the core human aspect of a shopper.

As many new business owners have started up online the conversion from visitors to customers has stayed relatively unsuccessful causing them to look at all manner of solutions that actually could be solved by looking at the site as a human and not basing all the decisions on hearsay, statistics and what other people are doing. This is not to discredit the wealth of wonderful business helpers out there but to make sure as a business owner you are thinking about what you are doing more carefully BEFORE you make moves so you choose the most effective solutions when you invest.

Always keep in mind that a business is a mirror of the thoughts and feelings of the owner so take a look at your mission, values, passions and real goals before making any moves.

If you really want to know what is in your subconscious as opposed to what you think you are thinking, download yourself a copy of Home Your Wealth and regain control as Project Manager.

Business Prosperity by Defining the Mission

It is essentially the contradicting beliefs of a business owner that hinders personal growth, success and prosperity of a business.

A business is essentially an ORGANIC EXPRESSION of the consciousness of the business entrepreneur(s); their thoughts and feelings in action.

As a business is changed the owner is changed and vice versa.

Put Behaviour and Consciousness First.

Whether a business employs people or not, riddled within the fibres of daily activities will be the evidence of the owner’s thoughts and feelings which are driving the business into success or constant struggle.

Self awareness, self improvement and self development is critical to any business owner more so than ever because the business is effectively an extension of the owner’s consciousness.

So often business owners separate their business from their identity in their mind. They can find themselves feeling in control of their own personal relationships and health but out of control in their business behaving as though their business is a seperate entity and unrelated to the other areas of their life.

The business breakthroughs sought are more often found in spotting the contradictions and confusion than in the vast investments in time, money and changes.

#1 Trouble Shooting Tip – Mission Statement

A mission statement defines what a business is intending to achieve, its vision and the ways it will achieve it.

The reason for getting clear about a business mission is because it makes defining strategies easier.

It is so easy to get side-tracked with unfruitful business activities in the pursuit of more money. However, business owners can so easily stray from their true path and the passionate motivations forming the business. In doing so, entrepreneurs can lose the benefit and support of the super natural power that created everything by not fulfilling the path which hearts have been urging and which caused the business start up.

A mission remains a mission regardless of any changes in financial season or outer circumstances.

The Mission Statement of ‘Make Success Easy’as Example

“To help you manifest your divine prosperity by showing you how to discover and remove the deeply buried conflicts and blocks to your wealth existing in what you can’t see in your life causing your life so far.” (MakeSuccessEasy.com)

When you sit down and clearly define your Mission Statement on paper you can start to see where:-

1. A business may be confused or contradicting itself.

• If a business owner is confused then everything else in the business is confused; customers are confused about where to find information, how to pay, whether to buy or not. Suppliers are ineffective. Websites, blogs and advertising material appear complicated, emails and deliveries go astray etc.

2. Investing in daily methods of operation (and considering some which actually are not in alignment with the business’ mission.

• Within my business mission I have stated clearly ‘Divine Prosperity’ which is something written into an individual’s day dreams. I realised that not everyone dreams big in terms of wanting to effect millions of people so when I produce something it has to be affordable and accessible to as many people as possible.

• In order for me to manifest MY divine prosperity I realised that my dreams are big and therefore I have to serve a great number of people. With that mission in mind, I realised that offering to go into people’s homes and work one on one would limit the scope of my business achievements. Without me being clearly focused on my mission I could so easily have got distracted by other people’s lucrative suggestions just because there are many things I could do. Keep in mind, all opportunities do not have be pursued.

3. The mission statement gets you to re-evaluate your motives and distracts you from any destructive assumptions that your business is about making money. Money only comes when we do something FIRST and the amount of money we can attract is unlimited however we must define what is it we are going to DO. A business is defined by the exchange of goods and services for money however the benefit has to come first and therefore should always be the focus.

A business prospers to the degree that it benefits people’s lives… and customers only part with their money when a business successfully provides them with a benefit.

My experience working with private business owners is that people so often flippantly agree that they know their business is “not just about making money” but this exercise has proved how little ‘the actual mission’ is defined and in reality, secondary as a motive.

Mission Statement Helps Clear Up Contradictions

In the process of working on web projects for people I observe fundamental contradictions between what is written into their sales material and what is in their heart.

I have observed conflicts between what entrepreneurs are communicating and on their sites and in their material and what they actually hope to achieve. Conflicts are dynamically the same as having the repelling of two north pole magnets pushing against each other. 

Conflicts and contradictions send ripples of REPELLENT energy through everything in the business. Time, money and energy are wasted; exhaustion, disillusionment and lack of confidence sets as visitors to websites don’t convert to sales, customers are problematic, suppliers do not do the job in alignment with the brief, employees prove inadequate etc.

Examples of Contradictions and Conflicts

• A business owner including comment boxes on blogs but actually admits to not wanting comments from people! CONTRADICTION.

• A website that over encourages customers to call if they have any problems and labouring how much support is available whilst stating quite clearly on site that “using the product is simple” CONTRADICTION.

• Including the telephone number everywhere and emphasising telephone support whilst privately admitting not wanting to talk to customers. CONTRADICTION.

• Business owners who employ a webdesigner for support to promote their products online and then want to fill the website and blogs with personal information about themselves; recommending links unrelated to the mission statement and anything else except the product. CONTRADICTION.

• A business owner stating how much he/she hates promotional material coming through their front door at home and then doing the same thing to  prospective customers. CONTRADICTION.

A business owner must outwardly demonstrate what is acceptable in terms of their beliefs and values. Take for example the business owner who is in the habit of using direct mail to send to prospective customers. It is very important to receive mail through their own door with the attitude they ‘intend’ from their prospective customers, i.e. ”Thank You for the opportunity”… not “Thank you but I’m not interested” – words are powerful, they give specific instructions and do become reality.

As long provision has been made for the fundamental needs of a customer have been met, so many of the sales activities do not need to be entered into just because other business owners run their business in a certain way.

If you are a business owner and haven’t defined your business Mission Statement before, start by considering the purpose, values and how you will achieve the business’ mission. You can of course Google some examples but I would encourage you to sit and focus yourself before you get distracted by anyone else’s version.

Remember why you started the business in the first place.

• What was in your heart that motivated you (besides money)?

• What skills gave you confidence?

• What did you envisage happening in the future?
  

Goals fail because they aren’t defined and kept in focus.

Does your business align with your True Self. The more you express your True Self in your daily life, the more you realign with your Divine Prosperity. Discover Your True Self.

Personal Power is hiding in your sitting room

I’m guessing if you are reading this you are a person who is very interested in improving the quality of your life. I’m even hedging my bets that you’ve invested a lot of time, money and energy in all kinds of personal development books, courses, seminars in the pursuit of more success (great news… determination always pays off!).

In fact, perhaps this is the breakthrough point in your life, that moment when all your “When God When?” frustration bears fruit.

Before we begin can you imagine meeting me in your sitting room (or the place you call your living area of your home). Once you’ve got a picture in your mind we can begin.

So let’s get your success activated.

Take a look around the room and I want you to observe all the things you are not happy with. If you are just imagining this (as you’re in the office) then stop for a minute and focus on the things that come to mind first… you can continue the breakthrough looking at everything else in the room when you know what to do.

Focus on one or two things that you are drawn to and take a moment to ask how you feel about them or why they are there and then listen CAREFULLY to what you say about what you see.

Example

“There’s my TV but I really want a flat screen, I’m tired of this one but I can’t afford a new one yet.”

We are not going to get too deep into what your ’sitting room’ mirrors back to you about the perception of yourself at this time, we are simply going to focus on the most obvious things which can cause life changing transformation and bring on the success you are looking for. Let’s help you rid yourself of self-sabotaging mechanisms; the blocks that you need to dissolve.

If you are imagining the television, be aware that this was put there by you, with your acceptance. Furthermore, you have just affirmed that “I do not want it… I am tired of it”… and I want a new flats creen but “I can’t afford it”.

Whether you know this or it comes as a light bulb moment for you, the physical objects and people in your life are an exact and precise mirror of your dominating beliefs…

…So, while an object still exists in your reality, the thoughts and feelings behind its ’cause’ still exist.

So let’s get back to the television.

You have affirmed you have something in your living room that  “I don’t want…. I am tired of… and I can’t afford to change it”.

Now, this is where life can transform and your self development investments can finally pay off.

I’m guessing what you might have had the propensity to do is observe “Oh yeah I can see that now”, then vow to change the beliefs, head into the kitchen to make another cup of tea and then get stuck into the dishes, head out to work or get involved in the hundreds of other activities in pursuit of the joy you want.

You may even sit for a while and figure out a plan that has nothing to do with the object which showed you the breakthrough (such as the television in this case).

The fact will always remain that whilst the objects ‘remain’, the mindset that caused them ‘remains’.

We overlook the things that are right in front of our noses because we are so busy pursuing the things that we assume will CAUSE the transformation that would bring on the extra time or money to raise the quality of our lives.

So back to the sitting room.

Continue to look around and assess your relationship with everything to discover what destructive thoughts STILL EXIST WITHIN YOU.

You created the room in your image, you are the CAUSE, the room is the EFFECT.

Those chairs, lamps, pile of old magazines, wine stains on the carpet will speak volumes if you talk to them and then listen. Ask “Why are you here?” or “Why are you still here? and decide how you feel about what you see.

How can you get the ball of success rolling your way?

Simply start with the things which are broken or need attention, move on to the things which you don’t use and are just collecting dust/taking up space and get rid of them.

We spend years investing over and over because in most cases change is not happening but change is not happening because we believe the changes required are too significant to invest in at the moment.

The truth is that the changes are actually simple, in fact so simple we can’t believe in them because we have learned that life is complicated and hard and we need to ‘earn’ the joy we want.

The science effecting self-development is based on the premise that life cannot change until we change and the things around you are the physical evidence of your thoughts and feelings so…

while they are still there… you are still there!

Let’s take that television (or an object you have focused on) and prove this.

• You resign yourself to the idea that you haven’t got the money for a new television so you tell yourself “I’ll make do until I’ve got the money.”
  
• You pray that the money will come but the fact is that money does not come until you DO SOMETHING and you are probably going to continue what you did before because ‘you haven’t changed’… how do you know you haven’t changed?… because the television remains evidence that you still believe ‘having what you want is unaffordable… you need to live with things you are tired of”.

What’s the solution?

Clean up your mind (the cause) by cleaning up the effects… the objects in your room… start with what you can do, success lies in the details not in big investments of money. The outside is an effect of the inside so if you change the outside it follows that the inside must change accordingly.

It was Albert Einstein who said–

“When the answer is simple,  God is answering”..

and it is God that affirms that…

” you came to live life to the full, in abundance until it overflows”….

…not put up with misery, be tired, struggle to pay the bills, keep patching up the car!

If you want to uncover the matrix of your mind as it stands right now, get yourself a copy of Home Your Wealth and go through your home and personal spaces. The phenomenal personal power and abundance you’ve felt the loss of is lying in your home… use it!

Decision is a Recipe for Success

There are two fundamental reasons why experiences do not come into being:-

1. We do not actually make the decision; and/or

2. Once a decision is made we do not manage it daily UNTIL it comes into being.

A decision is actually a recipe, it is a predefined order for something specific to happen and then like a recipe it requires us to undertake behaviour to complete the instruction.

What does that mean in life terms?

If we take the example of getting in shape and regaining a lean, healthy body, it means we first take the decision “I am going to regain a lean, strong body” and then, each and every day I am going to get up and affirm to myself that I am going to do my best to stick with a plan to make it happen. If I slip up, I don’t quit (I made the decision!), I simply forgive myself and vow to do better.

In most cases what happens is that maybe we have made the decision on Monday but by Tuesday we have heard about another solution or have started to doubt and question our plan because we have seen or heard something which contradicts what we were so certain about less than 24hours ago… or we simply don’t feel like doing what we need to do and I can tell you if you are following a plan based on ‘your feelings’ you are doomed now!

If you were able to monitor your thoughts and feelings about what you want, you would be shocked to see how much ‘contradiction’ there is within you.

I have recommended so many people on the best plan to stay in shape which is the one I use and you have no idea how many times they make the decision and then start listening to contradicting advice that puts the plan into question.

The point is that the information they hear is probably correct in suggesting another way of reaching the goal, but they have now quit their decision because they are considering another plan!

Sound familiar?

Our world is awash with information, advice, solutions, alternative choices and it is not the information which is the problem, it is our inability to be ‘certain’ enough to ‘commit’ to the recipe and follow through.

The irony is that if we felt like eating a chocolate cake for example and went to the shop and bought a cake mix, we would not doubt that if we follow the recipe on the back of the box the cake would not turn out exactly like the one on the front; the chocolate cake would as ready and as certain as the coffee!

Our ‘requests’ fail because we let ourselves get distracted. When you make a request to the creative force, it shall be so provided you stay in alignment with what you need to do to maintain the result UNTIL it comes into being.

Success of a plan is not an overnight event and the ‘when’ cannot be determined by you, however, it will come to fruition. Can I also remind you that patience does not mean just ‘waiting’. Patience means keeping a good attitude ‘while you wait’. These are fundamentally different behaviours.

So the question I encourage you to ask is what have you made a decision about (or haven’t made the decision yet)?

AND

How many times do you doubt, get distracted, change your mind, entertain information contradicting the possibility that your decision will come about EACH AND EVERY DAY?

If you are going to get in shape MAKE THE DECISION NOW
If you are going to change your career, MAKE THE DECISION NOW
If you want to be healthier, MAKE THE DECISION NOW
If you want your business to be more successful MAKE THE DECISION NOW
If you want to spend more time with your kids MAKE THE DECISION NOW
If you want your hobby to become a career MAKE THE DECISION NOW

…then each morning, get clear about what needs to happen and the things you need to stay away from…

…then do not doubt it will happen by staying away from anything in yourself or anyone else suggesting that it won’t.

You are doing too many things which you dismiss as ‘irrelevant’ which are blocking you progress. You can see the evidence of them inside your home hidden in so many blindspots.

Just think about this, how many times do you believe that your business is going to become more successful and then open emails with subject lines like “The economy is going to the dogs… Customers are cutting back spending on [your product] because a financial crisis“.

Your action to open that email is evidence that somewhere in your mind you believe this as a possibility. You’re human I know, you are curious but regardless of your curious nature which does have a purpose, you must be in control of your actions and align them with the decision you have made about the life you want. It is the one thing that separates you from success or failure.

What has helped me really ‘GET’ what needs to happen is the analogy of going to a car showroom to buy a car. I know that if I don’t decide the colour, the process will not even begin.

Then once I have decided the car, colour, accessories etc. I simply work each day to come up with the money. I will get the car when I have acquired enough money to meet the price and can go and exchange the money for the car… in other words, when I have done enough to prove I am serious about this car. It doesn’t work if I have even acquired the money if I still haven’t decided whether I want red or blue.

In life though what happens more often than not is that we get excited, even make the decision about the car but because we don’t come up with the money quick enough we get disillusioned and go spend the money we have acquired thus far on something else to fulfill that void. We figure ‘Oh what the heck I can get the car later, I’m getting bored with waiting, I need something now’ and it is this habit which stops us acquiring anything of substance.

The irony is (and something we fail to overlook or even realise) is that with everything substantial we achieve we develop a muscle which brings on more substantial things much easier now we have developed the muscle.

Imagine what would happen if when women got pregnant they gave themselves an option every day ‘to opt out’. I suspect the world would have ended long ago. Excepting the events that are beyond our control and possibly a hand of fate, ‘birthing’ a child is a committed decision and once the decision is confirmed by ‘I am pregnant’ then the recipe has begun and the mother wakes up each day knowing what she has to do to nurture this experience.

There are most certainly challenges and mothers can ‘feel bad’ every day for nine months in some cases but the commitment always pays off and that joy of meeting this bundle of joy when it finally comes out is nothing short of ecstatic. In fact though the pain is beyond expression, any mother I have ever spoken to has said that the joy of holding that baby dissolved the memory of the pain and they forgot about it shortly afterwards.

The bottomline is that the Universe takes its instructions from our dominating thoughts, feelings and actions and the contradiction we create every day is more widespread than you realise.

Those people who decide and then align their activities in mind, emotion and action to support what they have decided WIN.

If you want to see the Matrix of your mind and how circumstances come about with absolute clarity, treat yourself to a copy of Power Surge and get started immediately…

…or get yourself a copy of Home Your Wealth and be shocked by the blocks that exist that you could have cleared away so easily.

Gimme… Gimme.. Gimme… more success

Human: “Dear Universe, gimme, gimme, gimme”

Universe: “Dear Human, given, given, given”.

Human: “huh?????… it’s not working!”

Everything on Earth is MAGNETIC. We are magnetised to BECOME that which we take our minds and bodies into.

Want money? Be around places and people where money IS…

Want confidence? Be around places and people where confidence IS…

Want love? Be around places and people where it IS…

Want success in your business? Be around places and people where successful business IS…

The bottomline about the magnetic force which exists is that you will become the vibration of what IS… not what might be or is hoping to be.

A conversation defines what IS and therefore what remains.

An environment defines what IS and not what it is hoping to be.

Reflect on what happened today.

Reflect on what kind of REALITY you were in the presence of… start with breakfast and go through every hour to see what it IS made of.

Was it any of the things you are asking of the Universe?

What conversations did you have today… what did they contain?

What did you work at today… what did it contain?

What did you eat today… what did it contain?

What exercise did you take today… was it lazy, exciting, a record!

Universe:

“Dear Human, I gave you today that which you wanted because you chose its PRESENCE.

As I am the Universe I cannot interfere. You have chosen a life of FREE WILL so my message to you is to choose your moments and your words carefully and make sure you are in the PRESENCE of only that which makes you happy.

P.S. Dear Human… YOU ARE THE UNIVERSE!

P.P.S. Clean up your matrix and cause a transformation”

For the last twenty five years, I’ve explored so many areas of metaphysics and spirituality. Bearing in mind what’s available today, you can imagine how many CDs, books, tapes etc. by the world’s highly regarded masters, I have stored away.

Success is held back by the emotion, guilt

No matter whether you study the philosophies laid down by religions or whether you study only the science of human nature… the one constant destructive force is ‘guilt’. Even psychiatrists will affirm that conditions can be resolved much more easily that is imagined if only they could get the person to let go of ‘guilt’ held towards the situation.

Most people have no idea how much guilt they carry around each moment of every day. Guilt about the past, what they’ve done, who they’ve been or not been, what they didn’t do… and why it blocks any fruitful activity in the present which is the only powerful place to effect anything that can come in the future.

The destiny imprinted into your cellular memory which is laying down an irrefutable design for your success is being held back because you will not let it be so. You cannot let yourself off the hook no matter how much you feign the attitude of ‘I’m OK!” Deep down inside you are harbouring a sledge hammer that is hammering you on the head more times than not. In fact, you are so used to it, you probably aren’t even aware of it… and you NEED to be.

Today all that can change!

How?

1. Firstly you must sit down in a quiet place and be alone so you can feel the truth.
   
2. Put your hand on your heart (demonstrating to your head that you are now listening to your feelings so be quiet!).
   
3. Be still and ask yourself what bad feelings are you holding against yourself about?

Just to get the ball rolling, here are some things that may be an issue… I don’t spend enough time with family and friends, I should have been a better parent, I didn’t stick to the diet, I don’t act on my talents more, the business is suffering because that investment I thought was good didn’t pay off…

Keep these thumb rules in mind…

• Bad feelings create bad experiences;
  
• You are NOT perfect and never will be in the way you see things. You are a human being doing the best you can;
  
• Happiness and peace will not come to you in the form of circumstances in your outer world UNTIL you find peace within yourself;
  
• You are part of a phenomenally clever plan and some things you do were planned and will have a positive effect on your world… it’s just that you can’t see why it is so!
  
• You are not in this world to achieve, you are here to enjoy your life and the reason why happiness does not come along so smoothly is simply because you are spending too much time beating yourself up about your past… everything you didn’t do, could have done, should have done, everything you think you aren’t, everything you think you need to be. STOP IT NOW! This was not why you were created and you are actually hurting the world by doing it. Give yourself a break (through!).

Pursue the activities that feel joyful, you are attracted to certain activities for a reason… those ideas were planted there in your design to guide you!

Did you know that statistically adults laugh 3 times per day and children, 150!! If you watch a child walk home from school you will notice they never walk in a straight line, they make it as fun as possible… and if you are now feeling guilty for not watching your children play because you were ‘too busy’… your children will not hold it against you, they are too busy looking for more fun! Children don’t suffer guilt they just grow up and then get sucked into the world of ‘grown ups’ and their habitual ‘guilt’ trips.

Perhaps you are sitting there reading this thinking that this sounds too simple to resolve your problems. Well think about this, how long have you been living the way you have and how long have things been the way they are?

GUILT is an emotion that is completely TOXIC. It is the reason why ‘easy’ and ‘feeling good’ does not show up so much in your life… it is the root of so much of sickness, disease, stuggle and hardship. The root cause of hardship in life is never taught to us by our parents, by our schooling, by our employers because they don’t know it’s a problem either but now you do.

You are here to enjoy your everyday life. Simply do your best today to care about the world and be kind but let go of the past. You are a human being and you are doing your best to have the happiness that we all want and which is your right to experience.

The world was set up in 24 hour periods so that each new day we have an opportunity to start anew KNOWING that we humans would not achieve the perfection we try to bestow on ourselves and we would end up feeling guilty and needed a ‘fresh start’.

* You do not have to EARN happiness, or forgiveness (if another doesn’t forgive, not your fault);

* You do not have to PAY for every mistake, if it’s a real mistake you’ll know it and improve time;

* Your life is not about ACHIEVING – it’s about happiness;

* You are unique, do not try to justify yourself to others.

The creative mind that formed you designed you that you may live your life to the full, in abundance until it overflows… the deepest block you have is GUILT AND SELF-LOATHING… you may not even realise how much you beat yourself up over everything and I encourage you to sit down and see it so you can let it go.

PLEASE STOP HURTING YOURSELF… YOU WERE DESIGNED TO EXPERIENCE JOY; the outside world is a mirrored matrix of what you feel towards yourself so release any guilt and be kind to yourself, nobody deserves it more than you do.
How can your home uncover your truth?

You were created specifically, there was no coincidence and you were no accident. Every body has an idea of who they want you to be but you will never satisfy them you will die trying.

Let yourself off the hook!

Give reverence to the force that selected you precisely the way you are by following the things that bring you joy and let yourself off the hook. Being human is not easy, lighten up and stop being so serious, you are doing your best and that is all you need ask of yourself.
Ever stopped to figure out who you are?

If you want to understand how you see the true Matrix of your mind and how everything around you is showing you how to power up your life… get yourself a copy of Power Surge and you can start right away!

Live your life with the knowledge that the wealthy life you day dream about already exists.

Instead of asking “how can I get it”, ask “how can I SEE it?”. The word “get” suggests you don’t “have”. You DO have it, whatever it takes to create a happy life is sitting on that chair where you are right now. This change in perception will revolutionize your consciousness.

Continue to do what you always did and you will continue to have what you always had. I used to day dream about being in a fantastic relationship. A day dream was really all it could be at the time considering my perception of what was possible…. after all, what I saw in relationships around me didn’t give me much to write home about.

Twenty five years researching the metaphysics of my mind, body and spirit showed me how we are, in essence, particles of energy in movement. Energy particles that cluster together localized in a certain time and space to create everything you experience as physical. The outside is a reflection of the inside, ‘your psyche in action’. Each and every particle is a particle of Light energy, an All Knowing intelligence with unlimited access to the Universal Bank.

These particles are intelligence clustered together to form an experience. The energy particles receive their instruction to cluster based on what you give attention and intention to. What you think about, talk about, taken action on and focus on becomes real.

You’re born a winner, how can you lose…
Did you stop to consider how many millions of souls are vying for that body you are sitting in right now…and you know what, guess who won?

You have already established that you cannot fail. How can you lose a race you already won?

So what happened?

You changed your programming that’s what. You allowed yourself to re-write your script. Yeah, it took other people and other ideas and opinions, however, ultimately you are solely responsible. No other person can make you believe anything you don’t wish to, that suggests you have no power. You will be gob-smacked to know just how much power you actually do have in your hands.

How do I return to living as a winner?
All the answers are within YOU, question is “are you Being YOU?”

Everything in your life is screaming at you. Your heart is talking to you all the time through images, voices and feelings. Your spirit talks to you through your heart. It uses everything from the country you live in, to the shoes you wear to get your attention as to how to live the success you desire.

Somewhere along the line you just stopped seeing and listening. You started listening to a world tainted by the belief that you can’t have it all, that you can’t be the person you really are and that you can’t have it easily.

One of the reasons why young children suffer so regularly with earache is the pain directly from the part of their body expressing pain. In other words the pain is directly related to something they are hearing which either causes pain because;

• (a) it is something they are hearing that goes against their heart’s desire; or
• (b) it is something they are hearing which they need to take on board and they are resisting.

The body can’t create anything or think for itself, it simply works like any engine, when something is out of alignment with its design, it lets you know.

Your Spirit is the All Knowing part of your intelligence, your Higher Self (which by the way, is on great terms with the Universal Bank). Your Spirit lives inside your physical vehicle which mirrors the truth. When disalignment with your full potential occurs, your body expresses this through your physical body.

So, as with children and their frequent propensity to experience earache, the body expresses that the pain related to something they are ‘hearing’ through their ears.

What happens next? Parents can’t give them the freedom to express this pain, after all they are too busy dealing with their own pain and struggle…so solution?… medicine gets poured into their body and the body shuts up. Why? Because the body can only respond to our instructions.

However, the energy which remains imbalanced still exists in its present form. The body needs a certain amount of ‘light’, life force for organs to live. Therefore you will experience the imbalance in your body. Over time, without any harmonizing or expressing of this discomfort, the pain, will express itself as sickness in an endeavour to make sure the problem is brought to attention more strongly.

The mind, body and emotions are completely interconnected. It is true to say that you ARE what you EAT, DRINK, BREATH AND THINK.

What happens if you actually listen each time?

Yeah, you will have to change something, even if it’s something simple like opening your mind to another opinion. You feel it’s gonna hurt right? Irony is, that the pain of staying where you are is ten times more painful than the changes you might need to make.

All your daydreams are worthy of attention and intention. I didn’t really have any plans for life up until the age of 30, everything looked too miserable, no wait…I did plan my funeral for a while! – now I love waking up, life is better than I could have imagined.

Clues, clues and more clues…
I bet you ask yourself several times a day how things got the way they are. Truth is, your heart and body are telling you all the time. They tell you when you are out of alignment with the Law of Attraction (give you a big clue, “it hurts..it costs more than you want to give!”).

That All Knowing part of you that has unlimited access to the Universal Bank is guiding you all the time, it’s giving you heavy clues as to what to do next.

The last time your friends asked you out or the last time you went to the gym, did you stop to ask yourself “Do I really want to?” Yeah, sounds simple, maybe you think it sounds dumb? Are you thinking, “Course I want to see my friends.” or “I need to go to the gym, I want to stay fit!

Well, simple it may be, however it’s a profound process that changes your life in incredibly successful ways.

Remember, the most ’simple’ processes are paramount to your ability to live. Take breathing for example, “breath in, breath out”. How simple does it get?

Checking in with yourself before you do anything enables you to express the REAL you, not the fake you are probably pretending to be. Now, I say “fake” in the most respectful way.

If you’re not living successfully, you’re not living your truth and it’s the real you who has the treasure map. The map which is going to guide you to:

• … that relationship you are crying out for.
• … that fat bank account; no more fear of what the postman brings,
• … that opportunity to live a rich life doing what you love;
• … that great feeling of wellness, happiness and vitality.

The real you has all the answers in the most amazingly perfect formula. The real you is going to manifest a rich life doing what you are naturally good at. That real you under those unloving layers is going to ATTRACT what you want in a much easier way than working your butt off.

I come from a family background where respect is determined by how hard you work. I don’t know how many times growing up I heard conversations like, “What’s he like?” “Oh, he’s a hard worker, yeah, nice guy”.

You’re not designed to work hard. You’re designed to enjoy doing what you’re passionate about, what lights your fire…there’s your clue, the energy and motivation you need comes naturally, you don’t see it as “work”. I’m busier than I’ve ever been, however it certainly doesn’t feel like work, there’s my clue.

Wake-up call…

Up until three years ago, if you’d asked me to describe myself I would have said “hard-worker, not very ambitious, have a great interest in people, don’t care about money, extremely independent” (LOL).

I discovered that I am lazy and want as many short cuts as possible, I truly want to leave my mark on the world, I care that people are happy however I don’t want to take on responsibility for their life and experiences.

I now recognise you need to take money seriously and now very happy to accept help wherever I can as there is a limit to how much success we can create by doing things ourselves…whooah, what a wake up call that was.

Now that I listen to myself in every moment as to what I REALLY want to do and stand by it, I have manifested…a fantastic relationship, a successful business with my partner which has increased 3000% in the last 5 months, opportunities popping into my mail box on how to write successful books, articles etc. using the incredible information which is miraculously showing itself to me intuitively.

One of the biggest factors in creating success is truly being yourself. Yes, it can be confronting and can cause conflict. However, when you stand by yourself and the truth of how you feel, everything in this Universe will conspire to make what you desire happen. Asking the question and listening for a resounding ‘Yes’ or ‘No’ gives you YOUR truth.

Your blocks to success are staring you in the face in the form of people, places or objects (from the country you live in to the pen on your desk)…your success is calling out to you. Unleash your wealth frequencies with ease, anyone can do it, get a closer look at your script…reveal the secrets now!

Are you really using your true skills, find out more about the hidden truths about yourself. This Psychological Report (and also the Career Report) really helped me clear up the TRUTH.

The Secret

Rhonda Byrne. Atria Books/Beyond Words 2006, Hardcover, 198 pages, $8.65