Success, is it too simple to accept?

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The line between success and failure is very slim.

The irony about life is that the energy, time and effort is the same to be rich as poor. Sounds ridiculous doesn’t it. It is hard to believe but someone struggling demonstrates every day that they have bundles of stamina, commitment, self- discipline and determination! A criminal has all the attributes to be wealthy!

So what is the detail which turns failure to success

The difference is what these behaviours are applied to. You may be committed to focusing on an idea but what is that idea?? Is it a picture of a successful outcome?

Is it an image of what you want to happen or what you expect to happen based on what has happened in the past?

The words we choose and the images we hold in our minds are powers of ‘creativity’.

Look at the keyboard of your computer. It takes 4 strokes to type POOR and 4 strokes to type RICH. Your hands stay in the same place and the effort is the same.

A parallel shift into a success flow

Here is one sentence that can change the effect you have on your world.

Learn to stay to people in doubt or who are discouraged…

“yes, I know how it looks but I believe you can do it!”

Imagine a situation in your life maybe where you have problems and imagine someone close to you looking you in the eye and instead of saying what they normally say imagine them saying “I believe you can really do this”.

You should have noticed a sudden surge of oxygen, maybe you suddenly felt your back straighten or a sense of hope overwhelmed you.

Now think about how often this happens either in your talks with yourself or with other people. Ouch. Even when you think you are doing this what you are really doing is giving advice which is not the same thing at all. Advice can often be received as “you don’t know enough or you aren’t smart enough or you are doing it wrong!” even though the intention is kinder.

When it comes to words it is not the intention that creates the effect, the more precise the words match the actual thing you want to happen the more powerful will be the effect.

Can you start to see why the picture doesn’t change… and furthermore, imagine what you can do with this change of attitude with 24 hours every day. Think about how you spoke to your partner or staff or children in the last 24 hours.

Each day you lay a brick in the foundation of a whole new life. We all think we are ready for abundance but we are messing up on simple things we do anyway which we could turn around 180 degrees.

The game is to consider before you speak… if I say this, will the situation want to flow in this direction or will it be feel repelled. A perfect example is asking an employee “Would you mind doing this for me?” (even though it is their job). They are three simple words but they will create far more successful results. You only have to imagine how it would feel it is was you to determine whether it will be powerful or pathetic or even destructive.

We live in a field of magnetism we need to be far more aware of what we are pulling in and what we believe. Keep this in mind, when you don’t empower your words and behaviour you struggle. The more you struggle the more complicated and hard life feels. The harder it feels the more resistance you are to accepting simplicity and even worse, despise or feel contempt for people who suggest it (BECAUSE you can feel the pull from your rich side to take it and run).

Choose your words carefully today you can build or pull down, there is no middle ground.

Our lives are filled with ‘things’ which we consider insignificance which are impacting our bank account, relationships, health and happiness every day… but we don’t understand their hidden power even something as seemingly insignificant as a chair in our living room. Find out what you don’t know so you don’t miss out in my books Power Surge and Home Your Wealth!

 

In my book Power Surge I teach you about your Crew which really helps you feel the impact of what you are doing and gives you a great visualisation that stays with you to help you think before you speak.

Quieten your way to successful experiences

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Cut down the words you use you are putting prosperity on hold

Ever been to a meeting or finished a project and heard yourself saying to a colleague “well how do you think it went?”

I did this a while ago and as I moved to open my mouth this strong voice shouted “SHUT UP”. Took me back a bit but I shut up and listened.

The voice went on to say “It happened, you fulfilled your commitment. Unless you are going to say anything to enhance the results SHUT UP!“

I thought for a while about what I was going to talk about and realised it was an absolute waste of time and would probably have started to diminish what could be a fabulous outcome. My words were full of speculation that were actually totally irrelevant, I have no power over another person so what they do is none of my concern unless I was going to suggest verbally that “I am sure they will come up with something brilliant!“

It got me thinking even more closely about my words as it relates to the law of attraction. I already know that life and death are in the power of the tongue but I started to really take on board how much talking I do and how really effective it is. It is either building up, instilling confidence, speaking into existence things I want to happen with confidence or is it just a waste of time.

When I was very young I used to see words parade in the air as they were said. It is only in the last five years that I am realising what this vision was telling me about our words and how critical they are.

Think before you speak. Your words will prosper your life and those you live with or hold back prosperity… and even worse, bring on the things you least want to experience.

Success: You know so much you are missing it!

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You need revelation not information

We are living in an age overwhelmed with information and ideas. The pain you might be feeling in your life feels heavy and overwhelming not because the solution is simple but because you are weighed down.

Weighted down by both information and options and weighted down by the pain and exhaustion of the place you have been in for a long time. You’ve have heard the expression I am sure “you cannot see the wood for the trees“, there has never been a time more apt for using this wisdom.

You are overqualified. You have been sold the story that you need more, must be more, seek more, act more… let’s call it ‘self development’.

Your success lies in the opposite direction… you need to rip, strip and filter.  You do not need to develop and become more you need to discover the genius in front of your eyes.

Discover your true self and life it to see prosperity flow

Your answers to a successful and prosperous life are simple, to hand right now and are little things you do every day which are gradually burning a hole in everything else. Your wildest dreams in your heart have been put there by the God that made you. Don’t dismiss them, they are your truth and the way to your total fulfilment.

Keep It Simple Silly (K.I.S.S.)

I love observing children because they hold the answers to true happiness. They are only interested in what uplifts them and they keep pursuing it until they get it. They will use every strategy they can think of.

Let me give you an example of how a few little things you are doing daily are destroying a  marriage, emptying bank accounts, causing people’s bodies to become sick, splitting up families, failing businesses, etc.

Two major reasons cited in divorce are “leaving the lid off the toothpaste” and “leaving the toilet seat up“.

Sounds ridiculous doesn’t it? How did these cause such devastation, separation and pain in a family’s life?

The defiance not to honour the partner’s request day after day caused a mountain of disrespect emotionally. Because neither one of them would either put the lid back on or change the way they asked for the lid to be put on caused pain that festers. With each passing day the pain got heavier and started to colour all the areas of life.

Success was as far away as a sentence or putting the lid back on!

The marriage could have blossomed into something spectacular. Each partner could have loved each other enough to have each one pursue their deepest desires and happiness and then both would have experienced even more of a fulfilling life… that’s the point of marriage… two is more resourceful than one!!

But did they really know this? I suspect they were overwhelmed with stories of marriage breakups and statistics and “the times” and it’s because of men or women and the heaviness of carrying the unrelenting anger made the situation look insurmountable.

Revelation – Your outside  is a mirror of your inside

If they had really understood that how they treat people is the experience they have in life they would have made it their mission to make sure their partner’s wishes were met. They would have loved the person and not defiantly withheld a simple gesture (just because it wasn’t important to them).

They did not either know or accept the SIMPLE SOLUTION that would have revolutionised their success.

You are closer to your miracle breakthrough than you believe. The healing to every pain you have is truly simple. You are making a mountain out of a molehill. You are closer to your miracle than you are taking time to see.

The revelation you are looking for is under your nose right now… you don’t need more of anything. Get off the tv, the internet, facebook and away from your friends and ask what is the feeling that is colouring everything black. Make a decision and then unsubscribe from every other contradiction, opinion idea that distracts you.

Question – What is your vision in your heart?

What is it you want that you feel you are not getting… and by the way, the answer is never money… money is something you want to give you something… what? It is not major, the destruction is major because of these little things that you don’t pursue.

If you are a business owner you are overwhelmed with busy-ness because you have forgotten the simple, common sense behaviour of your customers. Customer motivation will be and has always been, the same. Stop letting the world fool you!

Rip, strip out and filter the mess to see your prosperity and success

Remember a journey is simply small steps completed over and over. Your dreams lie in small consistent steps. You don’t need more, you are spectacular, you are a genius and you have no competition. Your heart knows how it wants to live so stop listening to everything and anything.

Follow your joy and help those around you to follow theirs. Stop making it complicated, don’t let the world fool you… have you seen the world lately??

If you want a way to help you see what you really believe download yourself a copy of my ebook Home Your Wealth or Power Surge

Prosperity is waiting but are you reading the signs!

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Prosperity; you don’t need more information, you need revelation

If you have read my past articles you will now know that a woman is revealing elements about the condition of your potential…

and a man, revealing elements about the condition of your power.

OK, so let’s imagine you are experiencing upset between you and your partner or you and other close relationships. It all looks devastating, you feel out of control, your heart hurts, you are angry and frustrated… but it feels a lot worse than it actually is. Freedom and breakthrough is much closer than you imagine.

Let’s put on a new pair of ears, blow away that old paradigm and create breakthrough!

Examples of how you get revelation and heal the rift within you

Your partner John (your power) says to you “You never believe in me”.

Revelation:
Your power is saying Sarah “you never believe in me”

Action:
Tell John (your power), you have absolute faith in him. Ask him, what is it that I am saying and doing that is giving you that impression and leaving you feeling like this? Listen to his words exactly, NOT what you think he is saying. Take it seriously, he is showing you how to “have faith in your power“

Your partner Sarah (your highest potential) says to you “I feel disgusted by you, when you say this I feel .…”

Revelation:
Your highest potential is telling you that you are corrupting yourself because “you are saying these disgusting things!” Always listen to exactly the words they use, not your interpretation. If you are unclear, ask for more clarity about what exactly is causing ‘upset’… this upset is corrupting your inner being!

Action:
Tell Sarah (your highest potential) that you are sorry and that you will do your best not to use this vulgar language again.

The other side of the prosperity coin – what you need to run to the bank with!

When your partner tells you something they love about you they are telling you what to embrace about yourself and nurture because it is your genius and way to pave your life with riches. These are your Assigned, anointed gifts. Forget about all the things you are not, you can pull in people to do those things. Focus on the exact words in the compliments people pay you… they are showing you how to uncover your True Self.

The flow of prosperity and success lies in the place where live in alignment with our true hearts and desires. That is why we need to deal with emotional upset within ourselves; it is our personality showing us there is conflict that needs resolving. Destructive, painful emotion is not to be dumped or stuffed down, it is to be DISSOLVED. The only way to dissolve is to explore it so we can find a way to return to peace. That is why we need to accept what a person in our mirror is actually saying, not what we infer they are saying.

In my top 10 books is “Shut up, stop whining and get a life” (by Larry Winget). I can imagine people being offended because what they read is “shut up because what you say is useless, stop whining because you are a pathetic wimp and get a life because yours is hopeless!”

That’s why mess in relationships occur. We don’t rip out, strip down and filter to see the revelation of clear information which is actually very powerful and helpful. We are constantly crying out (even kneeling down praying) for answers and God is answering but we are not listening!

Each day, every time you get upset with someone ask what am I really upset at and listen to the words… then ask is this something I am doing and God is trying to show me how much it ‘hurts me’… or is this something I should do more of?

Then observe that if you stay upset… if it is at a man (your power is hindered)… if a woman (your potential is hindered).

You are a phenomenal person, enriched with genius. Your heart knows how you want to live, what you like and how to behave to be happy… but you need to read the signs clearly!

Struggling in your relationships?

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Take a good look at your partner – pay attention to what upsets you!

Divorce and relationship breaks up are sadly becoming fashionable. If we really knew the truth behind the dynamic of our relationships we would not walk away so lightly.

If our partner is a man, they are playing out the behaviour of our own dynamic of POWER (the ability to make things happen in the physical).

If our partner is a woman, they are playing out the behaviour of our own dynamic of POTENTIAL (the quality of the experience of all your activities and resources).

The problem is not that we decide to end the ‘commitment’, the problem is that too many people walk away without taking responsibility for what they are doing that causes the ‘pain’. We walk away because we feel we are not in control but we are!

Shatter the illusion, break free and regain control

If you are caught up in any kind of relationship struggle right now, please stop and do this exercise.

  1. Ask, what am I really upset about. What is the emotion that I am feeling that I do not like; then ask…
  2.  Is this something I am doing I need to stop doing… or is it something I need to do more of.

Here’s the reality… they are not doing anything TO YOU. The emotion you are feeling is coming from inside of you and they cannot put a finger through your skin and push the pain button.

The pain is there because you are ‘upset’. It means that there is a fight. To feel bad you must recognise what feeling good feels like. Your body is telling you that something about your behaviour is ‘not in balance’ with the harmony of the REAL YOU. If you feel bad it is because you sense it can feel different… yes, that is the truth, it is great you have that emotional impulse to prompt you to listen.

No matter how many excuses you use to ‘frame’ and justify giving yourself a back door, you will re-create this again if you don’t see what you are doing.

The truth is that every person spends the same amount of energy ending a relationship, dividing property, dealing with the heart-ache and adjustments than they would if they stayed and committed to loving that person.

The problem is that we have no idea what marriage and commitment is when we get into a relationship. When we say ‘I do‘, it is usually spoken in the ‘honeymoon’ stage, i.e. the first seven year period.

This is the first layer of our own relationship with our self. When we ‘evolve’ we must go deeper and then it takes more love and commitment to face what we need to heal and no-one prepares us for that.

When God designed man and woman together he had a very clear and fruitful reason. He asked us to marry as a sign of ‘commitment’ because He knew that by agreeing to stay together we would face what we needed to face within ourselves in a ‘loving’ situation. He knew that as He set up the spiritual law “like attracts like”, we would pull to us the behaviour reflecting our current relationship with our power (man) or potential (woman) and when it manifests as a person it is not so easy to dismiss as it a thought; we are dealing with it face on in all its glory!

The purpose of a marriage is to have two people join forces of resource to assist each other to be the best they can be; to experience more joy and abundance in life. To love each other enough to help each other realise their dreams.  That is why ‘intimacy’ is part of the deal as a symbol or metaphor of…. “Are you willing to share your deepest, most intimate, vulnerable parts of yourself. Are you willing to open yourself up and trust this person?“.

When you look at the current states of relationships it is clear that this has never been realised.

When relationships break up we hear all kinds of things and all the stories for breaking up sound reasonable but I say again, if we don’t look at the underlying truths, we will lose out and go around the mountain one more time. Naming it for what is it will set us free to restore and heal our dysfunctional behaviour; everything that is stopping us from living out our heart felt dreams and desires.

Usually relationships end because people become exhausted by the pain but the pain is usually because they keep repeating the same conversations over and over and expecting a different result. Each person won’t stretch or give more until they see the other person change.  I often wonder what would happen if that was their child behaving like that, would they give up so easily?

We tend to assume a distorted view of love. Though the colour pink is reflective of its true vibration, pink is the vibration that sets up a platform of ‘no-resistance. It is not this wimpy, girly colour. Yes we think of women that is because the female represents ‘potential’ (the expansion of all possibilities, our richest experience).

That is what love means. It means finding harmony in the midst of deep, painful emotions we could from the fight with ourselves so we can soar into the person we were designed to be; the person who is sitting on the inside buried under the layers of fraudulent behaviour.

That fight shows up in our relationship of what WE SEE in our partner and the reason why we want to run out the door instead of looking at the pain and finding a solution.

When God blesses a marriage He makes it clear that within this relationship he has bestowed the power and love enough for each person to realise true happiness.

Perhaps you have decided not to get married… can I encourage you to think about why not because that question will help you see what you really believe about your relationship. Whatever you believe will eventually come to pass!

You are a magnificent, phenomenal Being, within you is genius, creativity, prosperity you haven’t even room enough to house. The people around you must be housing that too.. love them, believe in them, lift them up, compliment them…

God  told us to “love each other as ourselves”… that is because what comes at us IS US and therefore we need to stop and think what would I say if this were me?!

Love is the only strategy that will heal, inspire and transform… but you must do it on purpose you are unlikely to ‘feel’ like doing it so it you are waiting, grab a comfortable seat.

We are all human beings which means we fully understand the consequences of everything we say and do on another person. We know what will hurt and we know what will uplift. So why don’t we do it? We don’t apply this wisdom to our relationships because it mirrors the relationship with our self; we are used to the dysfunction. It is comfortable. To change it requires a purposeful change in dialogue and action and we don’t do it because we don’t believe it can be magnificent because we haven’t tasted the cookie so to speak.

The irony is that if in the midst of our anger someone we ‘respected’ walked in we would change our conversation and demeanour instantly (proving that we can if we want to).

Help your partner find happiness and love. Discern who they really are and what makes their heart sing, then help and support them to do it… then watch your heart’s desires come to pass in amazing ways… as you really love them, you will experience joy.

Remember, always GIVE WHAT YOU WANT TO HAVE!

Focus on being sick and tired

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Some people know early on in life what they are born to do and pursue it with all consuming passion. The clarity comes from the passion which unconsciously drives their focus and so learning how to is not necessary.

For others like me it is something that is discovered after a longer process; maybe simply because in my case I didn’t know how to read the signs. I didn’t know how there was a specific plan for my life or how to know what road to take.

I knew focusing was important but was distracted most of the day whilst not realising. It is not easy to focus when you don’t know the mission right? In my previous article, “Discover your self, discovery your money” I gave you some clear ways to discover your personal assignment that would bring you wealth and prosperity. It is something that is an obsession and must be pursued with everything you have for you to gain more and more prosperity and joy in life. It is something that will cost you everything too and it will never dissipate from your heart.

Once you know your mission, your path to your individual prosperity, you must focus. As we have sidetracked from our divine assignments, the new programmes are not going to just give in and surrender to new ways overnight. We have grown new neural pathways strengthening these new ways of behaving and living and so they must be de-constructed and new ones grown.

This is essentially what all self development pursuits are for, rewiring us to a life our heart is screaming out for.

Due to our re-programming that keeps us in struggle and unhappiness, when we try to focus this new behaviour, we will be bombarded by distractions. These distractions will be very subtle and clever and so often unrecognisable.

Biggest breakdown or breakthrough signals

It is not news to you to remind you that you must stop your emails, the doorbell and the telephone from sidetracking you from your assignment; the key to your divine prosperity! However there is one very subtle experience which can cause not only constant breakdowns but can also give you a clue to where your focus is making headway and a great deal of success.

The alarm call you want to watch out for is when you are “sick and tired of  something“. The point at which you are sick and tired of something is the point at which you “are getting it”. The desire to move away from it is resistance from your lesser, human, misguided alter ego; it is the devil we must recognise and master.

This experience can come in many ways. It can serve as a clue for you to keep going and stay focused as a ‘student’. It can also come as a reminder to you as a teacher that there are people you are mentoring who are “getting it”.

It is a clue that this is something that is meaningful and requires you to be even more vigilant in focusing on it to the point of realising peace.

There is a desire in all of us to keep discovering and this is a good thing but often we can mistake this impulse of being sick and tired as a need to seek fresh ideas or fresh projects.

Hold your focus, don’t walk away from the things you are sick and tired of. Let them show you your passion, your clarity and the assignment you are obsessed about; face the ache of your obsession and use it to solve problems.

Discover your Self, discover your Money

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Your unique Assignment and why it must be recognised

 

Each one of us have a unique Assignment. We are created on purpose with a unique job to do. This Assignment is so unique that every other place on the Earth is lacking because of it and we carry it within us. It is so unique and important that a band of Angels are assigned to protect us and guide us until it is completed!

If you study everything that was ever created or will be created it is only created to solve a particular problem. Money is attracted to us only as problems are solved. We are born with a problem to solve and it is unique; no other person on the face of the Earth can solve this problem.

How do we recognise our unique Self?

Your Assignment is something very specific to you that you are continuously passionate about. It is something that you do, think or say that wants to solve a problem. It is something that we always want to talk about. No matter what kind of situation we are in or whomever we are talking to we have it in focus and want to curve the situation around to focusing on it or doing it.

Sometimes it helps to ask people who honour you or speak well of you WHY they feel so ATTRACTED to you. What do you do for them?

Think about the world at large and ask what are the things that provoke constant anger and frustration. What is the one or maybe the two things that you see that you want so passionately to CORRECT… and how would you like to go about it?

Another key to recognising and fully understanding your purpose is what  to ask yourself the question “What is the thing that I fear the most. What is the situation that brings me to my knees, has me panicking or investing to avoid?” This is the area where you are here to provide strength on the Earth.

My example by demonstration.

The one place that brings me to my knees is being unhealthy BECAUSE I feel I have no power. If I am unwell I no longer have independence, I feel dis-abled and helpless. It shows me the ‘feeling powerful and in control’ is paramount to me. When I look at my Assignment which is the wisdom in being able to see the outer world as an exact and precise Mirror on my inner world, I see that the drive behind it is to regain CONTROL. This vision enable me to see how I have power and how to use it.

So perhaps it will help you if you look at what brings you to your knees first and then consider the detail of how you solve it in your unique way.

Money comes when we solve problems.

Your Assignment is the key to your salary and financial freedom and it is something that comes natural and is easier than maybe all the other things you think you need to do to achieve a prosperous life.

The guy who is working three jobs is doing so because he has not understood or recognised his Assignment. All sickness, poverty, hardship stems from rebellion either against sharing their Assignment to solve problems or lack of recognising your unique Assignment.

Success is not about achieving it is about Discovering the key to our Purpose and then go about using it to solve problems.

That is why I feel the power in the phrase Self Discovery and why I feel Self Development seems to take so long. Self Development brings to mind an imagine that I have to become more, need more whilst Self Discovery provokes the image that I am already there and simply need bringing out.

Discover Your Assignement and discovery your financial freedom

Your genius magnetises your prosperity

You are enough. You are a genius. In the world’s current population of 6.9billion people, there is no one that can solve the problem you can the way you can.

Stop. Take stock of what you are doing to provide financial stability and ask is your Assignment in there? If not, you are making life very difficult for yourself.

Wisdom is the divine reaction to a human problem. When knowing your DIFFERENCE you should be able to describe it in one sentence.

When you are working your Assignment you will see favour in your life, things will flow more easily, their will be a fragrance instead of an odour! You will have relentless energy instead of exhaustion. It will excite you and you will feel your body want to move when you think of ‘fixing’ this problem in people’s lives.

It will never go away… it will only become more painful the more you ignore it. The Angels have their Assignment too remember!

There are many people around you that are suffering because they are off-track, share this article with them, it could be the day their life changes for the better!

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Health, wealth and prosperity as it relates to your colon

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Your colon and its relationship with your prosperity

Every single function of your body mirrors the function in your life. Every part of you was created for a specific reason. It is astounding how many diseases (dis-eases) and sick conditions are linked back to your colon. When you understand the function in your body it is easy to see why.

Your Colon

The colon’s function is to filter. It takes in, absorbs what is useful, uses the fuel to rebuild and maintain and and excretes what is no longer of use.

Now let’s look at the process of how we should process life in order to be happy, healthy and prosperous.

Your Life

We are constantly taking in what we see and hear, food and drink, we need to absorb and keep what is useful in our life and let go of what does not serve us or nourish us.

Let’s take this into every moment and see why our lives are being side-tracked so far away from our original diving design. Bearing in mind the premise that we were created to enjoy a healthy, prosperous and fulfilling life; loving relationships, a lean, fit body, a career with our passionate about and money enough for everything we desire when we need it.

Our colon mirrors our behaviour

You are having coffee with a friend. She suggests you are stupid (taking in what someone says).

At this point what should happen is that the natural filter to assess whether this is useful should come into play, your intelligence should suggest you are not stupid (as even getting to the coffee shop proves that) and then you should dismiss it (excrete).

What happens for the most part is we take in the experience and instead of ‘excreting’ it we ‘hold onto it’. We mull it over, get angry and frustrated with the person and instead of challenging them and making it clear we are not stupid (cleansing), we hang onto it!

When you observe how many of these things happen throughout our day you will see how much toxicity we hang onto. We should only be absorbing what is useful and can help us build and maintain a healthy, prosperous life but we don’t.

Now back to the colon to see how it precisely matches, and more importantly shows us how to live a healthy, prosperous life.

We might eat a plate of highly coloured vegetables but what comes out is always brown. This shows us that what we ‘let go of’ has no colour. We use its colour and let go of the rest. We let go what we are getting nothing out of anymore!

Coroners report that when they do autopsies, statistically colons are 80% full of excrement. If you look at a typical day and observe how much you retained (which should have been let go of because it was of no use) it is very easy to see why such as…

…things people said or did and ideas from emails, facebook/twitter that you are not really interested in.

If we take a look from another angle at the dynamics of food, it must satisfy four main functions:-

be able to suitably edible
be able to be absorbed
be able to be excreted effectively
be able to nourish, restore and maintain.

The whole process of living a healthy, prosperous life can be powered up at the onset. The first step in our ability to nourish ourselves is to take charge of what we allow in at the get go.

That means we take control of what we put into our mouths, what we look at (tv,media,social networking) and what we hear from other people.

I use Herbalife nutrition because it is the best way of taking more conscious control of the quality of what goes into my body (my life). Sure I have to take care of my thinking but it is easier to control something I can see! Furthermore, my cells contain some toxicity gained from my genetic inheritance which I didn’t consciously cause however it will still be infecting my cells and must be cleansed!

Also when Herbalife’s award winning science, medical and nutritional team develop the products they are using their nutritional products to optimise the process in the body. Herbalife use plant, herbal based ingredients which is key to the successful results in optimising health and getting a person back to their ideal, lean body shape.

Let’s go back to the colon process.

Intake

Herbalife produce products in convenient and tasty ways.

Absorption

The powerful herbs clean the colon and enable the colon to be stimulated to absorb and get the ultimate benefit from what it absorbs. That means that not only is the quality of what is transported to our cells high quality but that more gets through and is not blocked.

Excretion

As the body increases the quality of what is going in, toxicity lessens and the rebuilding of the colon aids the excretion of what should be excreted much more efficiently.

Maintenance/Restitution

As each cells starts to receive better nourishment and more of it, its constant copying dynamic means that the body starts to feel better and better. If we are filling our body with fast food, soda drinks, smoking and generally unhealthy ingredients you can start to see that if the cells are copying this, we have no chance of feeling better unless we take control.

The exciting factor about controlling your dietary choices is that the mind and the body are precisely interconnected in that they effect each other to the same degree. By raising the quality of your nutrition into your body, the vibrational frequency of your mind will also improve.

Instead of trying to fix all the other aspects of your life which you think are upsetting you, realise that they all come about from one source “what you eat, drink, breathe and think”. Just spend time reflecting on your colon and how you treat it

  • CONSIDER the quality of what you take in, the portion sizes, the frequency and the speed at which you eat!
  • CONSIDER the quality in terms of what you are allowing in and whether it is rich enough to even be absorbed!
  • CONSIDER whether your body gets the variety of nutrients it does regularly to maintain the energy, vitality and rebuilding of what needs to be renewed!.. and
  • CONSIDER how often you go to the toilet, whether it is excreted easily (and the optimal is three times per day) and whether you give yourself the time (or put it off because you are busy!).

The way you treat your body and your attitude towards it is the way your life will run it’s really that simple.

Fact is we can make radical changes to our life by smaller, seemingly insignificant changes. The problem looks big but that is because smaller habits have been maintained for a long time and caused a crack to become a dam!

In the same way that a divorce appears to be caused by a string of seemingly intolerable circumstances, the cause could in fact be simply leaving the lid of the toothpaste that caused the feeling of ‘disrespect’ to mount up, become huge and then compound every other area of life.

Love yourself, take care of what you let in, keep and let go of and watch life transform.

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Know your man and attract prosperity

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Prosper an abundant life in your life with your man

As many of my articles have explained, our relationships are a mirror of the relationship within ourself and to be prosperous we have to be in the flow.

So ladies, let’s take a look at your man. Knowing him is the key to loving him and the key to loving him is the key to a more prosperous and abundant life.

What you must always remember about your man and keep it alive:

1. He must always have a battle to fight;
2. He must always have an adventure to live;
3. He must always have a beauty to save.
(These three references come from John Eldredge “Wild at Heart”)

As with everything that is created, when it performs its core functions it thrives and you need to have things in your life that are thriving because you win.

Battle to fight – Self Confidence

Your man will always be a warrior at heart, he was made that way and the more secure he is the more of a warrior he will be. He needs courage and security and the best way to give him that is firstly to accept his need to be fighting a cause and secondly he needs validation that he is a strong protector.

Reminding your man constantly that “We’ll be OK, don’t worry… with all that fabulous strong energy and stamina you have, what can harm us… you always work things out, you always cause great things to happen...” is what your man needs to hear.

It would always be very helpful to know his childhood relationship with his father to find out if he felt validated, i.e. “You can do it son, I love you, you are great!”

If your partner didn’t get that then it is even more prevalent that the success and prosperity in your lifestyle depends on you giving this to him. Never mind how you feel, whether you think he deserves it or how upset, stressed, angry you are. Your life in this relationship is the way it is because everything is messed up. It’s natural dynamic of loving, harmony and clear identity is out of balance. Did you make him that way? No, however you did attract him to show you something within yourself which needs empowering.

It is important to help him become all that he was made to be. If your motive is right and full of genuine love for him, your life will thrive. It many not prosper perhaps the plan you had but remember this, if your plan was based on a messed up version of you how rich and abundant do you think your plan would have been? If you do the right thing, your life will be right. In John 10:10, Jesus makes it clear what that version of a right life means… “I came that you may live life, to the full, in abundance until it overflows“. That is some promise and it is ours for the taking!

Save a beauty – Personal Power

Another function of your man’s gender is to “save a beauty”. There is the Lancelot aspect of him where he needs to be the hero that rides in and the saves the day.

“Well“, you argue, “I am constantly asking him to do things for me but I get a different reaction, he is angry and irritated“. That’s because being a ‘damsel in distress’ is a clear and defined attitude.

It is not “Yo, Lancelot get your butt in here, we have kids and it’s time you took out the rubbish as you promised!“

It is “Honey, could I get your help with some jobs today, I love your stamina… or you do things much better, quicker than I do…. or I’m really struggling honey, could you help me, I’d appreciate it.” Then when he has done it, thanking him!

How do you know you are getting the attitude right? Well that’s pretty simple, just ask yourself would you be attracted to running in to help or do you feel this big fat heavy finger pressed against your back?

Up until meeting my husband at 38, I was fiercely independent and had always done everything alone even holidayed alone. When I moved into a relationship with my partner my reality took a 360 degree turn. My husband takes care of so many jobs without me even asking him. He does that because I never point the finger, I never expect but he picks up on my energy and senses the need to “be a hero”.

Am I capable? Heck, I’m a woman, we are amazing but my prosperity is playing other magnificent roles!

I was so messed up I even used to get angry with a guy if he opened the door for me. I used to think “Don’t you think I can even open a door for myself!” Now I love it and I make sure the guy knows it! Boy did I get it wrong and boy was my life miserable.

Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy?

We can take this dynamic right back to the beginning to Adam and Eve, they had only just been created when Adam had to run in to save Eve who had just started getting herself into a mess (and this was probably just the honeymoon!).

Adventure to live – Self Expression

Your man needs to have some time to be adventurous. Don’t try to understand his fishing trips, his computer games or his golf but it is important that he gets time and freedom to do that.

Everything in this world is attached to relationships. The world is a mess because of what is happening energetically within us and the evidence of that can be see in the relationships around us.

The general climate of the world unkind, selfish and even countries are losing their identity. Statistically one in two marriages are breaking up. This is happening because we are losing our identity. We are not committed to ourselves, are unkind to ourselves and only see our point of view.

Men focus on what they can see

Another very important quality about a man is understanding that he is ‘physical’ in his understanding of the world. He operates in the world he can see whereas women have strengths in the etheric realms such as thoughts and feelings. We are strong in ‘sensing’ things.

This explains why we complain when our man doesn’t buy us flowers or treat us. He is much more simple than we imagine. He looks at what is happening and takes it as fact. He doesn’t see you buying flowers for yourself! That is why so often women get kitchen equipment as christmas presents and then get furious! He sees those things as the things that matter to us because we ‘prove’ they are. We set ourselves up as stressed out, super heros and then wonder why he gets mixed signals.

Why do we find it so hard to do what we need to do to love our partner?

Well simply because we are all wounded somewhere and so we are bent on self protection. That can take many forms… hiding, controlling, perfectionism (we all have one). If we can risk letting go of our own self protection enough to simply think about what our partner needs to thrive, the benefits are nothing short of incredible.

The truth is that we all have male and female qualities written into our DNA and these can help us but the problem is we don’t have good examples.

For example, as a woman there are times you need Herculean strength particular in the face of raising children but without seeing that strength which your husband is here to demonstrate or seeing it in men around you get it all wrong too and you don’t get to see how natural that strength could be! Surround yourself and empower men to be who they are so you have fabulous examples thriving in your world. What goes on in the outside, effects the inside. You will become your environment.

To know him is to be loving enough to accept him. To accept him and allow him to be him is to have him thrive, be prosperous, successful, abundant and happy.

Whether you like it or want to acknowledge it or not, what is happening in your partner is always effecting the prosperity, happiness and health in your life and it is in your interest to find peace.

Always keep in mind the purpose of marriage. It is to add another dynamic to your life to help you achieve more happiness, love, abundance and health. If God has blessed your marriage then the reason why he gives the blessing is to let you know that He will make sure you have everything you need for both of you to be the best you can be and experience the best of what life has to offer. So if your joy is dressing up, having dinner parties, driving convertible cars he is going to make sure you have everything you need to have the best of what you want. He put the desire there in the first place when he made the special, unique person you are!

Bailing out on relationships just means you meet the same situation again. Your partnership is a physical representation of literally how your cells are relating. Love your man, love your self!

How to be an authentic man or woman in a relationship – Read my article

Prosperity spotted in your relationships

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Relationships mirror alignment to abundance

How does your relationships determine your prosperity?

In short, your relationships show you the relationship within yourself and for prosperity to flow the dynamic must be reflect what prosperity stands for…

…a thriving, flourishing condition.

OK so what does that mean?


Well, beyond the fundamental understanding that thriving and flourishing means giving something nourishment, the detail is for you to decide. Desire is essentially what makes us happy and that is personal.

What kind of home life, partner, career, body image suits you?

You decide. But whatever you decide you must have it going on in your life in both sides of you.

What both sides of my self are we talking about?

The two sides of you are your power and your potential. In short, your ability to make something actually happen and then the quality of the experience within it.

To give you an example, that means the ability to manifest a car and then the experience of owning that car (is it easy to pay for, maintained well, serve all your lifestyle needs?)

How do I see if I am on course for a successful outcome?

Well that’s simple.

Any relationship with a man is reflecting your relationship to your power (making it happen);

Any relationship with a woman is reflecting your relationship to your potential (your experience).

How do I power them up for success and prosperity?


Every time you are UPSET with a man or a woman you ask:

What exactly am I upset about and listen to the precise words;

Is this something I am doing I need to stop doing or do more of?;

Is it effecting my power (a man) or my potential (a woman)?

The goal must be PEACE. It doesn’t matter whether they still behave badly (as you see it) or not, the destruction that is blocking your manifestation power is the ‘upset’ you FEEL.

Example

Your husband is always late home for dinner.

I am upset because “I feel disrespected”

I disrespect myself and need to stop, my actions must match my needs.

It is a man so every time I get upset I stop things on my dream list ‘happening’

Decision to be successful and turn on my flow of abundance

I will use my words carefully to help my husband see how it’s in his interest to arrive home on time

or…

I will simply let it go, I know he works hard and is doing his best.

Either way, you MUST resolve the emotional upset. While you are upset your energies are at war… they are completely repelling like two north pole magnets trying to be pushing towards each other… one part of you is saying yes and the other no. This means you stay exactly where you are.

This energy dynamic is showing us moment by moment what we need to work on. We are constantly asking complicated questions, buying more books and courses whilst the answer we are looking for is coming at us during our day.

Every person in your world is attracted by you and playing out a role which is happening within you. Walking away is not the solution. See what they are showing you, take action to learn and gain peace…

… all the other stuff going on is because of these upsets. Don’t fool yourself it is because of the economy, your job, you married the wrong woman, your upbringing, the culture you live in, because you have children.

You have the power to change it NOW.

Does more flow in prosperity require radical change?

Yes. However understand what radical means. It means a complete shift in direction… extreme change from accepted or traditional forms…

…not exhaustive amounts of energy, money and life-changing upheaval!

Example

Instead of expressing anger at my wife because my dinner isn’t ready as I walked through the door as we agreed…

I decide to take a deep breath, claim the fact that she loves me, perhaps she had a very busy or a difficult day and hurting her will not help either of us. Perhaps I will ask her how her day went and get the facts before I assume her day should have been all about me! If she feels bad I lose!

These moments are the moments when you will rock the very fabric of your life but we are missing them.

Why?

Because we are too busy and too unhappy.

Why?

Because we are not maintaining prosperity in the moments we have. They are full of upset, anger, frustration, stress, disillusionment and assuming the worst.

Look at the people you interact with daily and see where you are ‘repelling your prosperity’ by observing your emotional upset. It won’t go away, it is inside you so take control and channel it into love, acceptance and peace…

THEN you will see it show up in your work, finances, home, partnerships and a healthy body. What is even more exciting is that each of these aspects are precisely interconnected so if we empower one it has a dominoe effect on the other.

If you want to see how the outside is a perfect and precise mirror of everything inside of you and unblock your conflicts get yourself a copy of my ebook Power Surge